Tiktok girl responds to my previous thread on Tiktok live asking why ppl don’t like Somali girls in Interracial relationships?

[Dibleyy]

I’ll be so honest, I have no hate for any Somali who decides to enter a IR relationship (might side eye them a bit) but for the most part I don’t care.

I think with Somali girls especially Im more agitated because they have more to lose in these relationships especially with madow men.

I’ll be honest I had a very close relationship with this one girl and she cut off me and her entire family because we disapproved on her marrying this guy from guinea bissau. She met him at her workplace and literally randomly decided to marry him 5 months after meeting.

We did our best, told her that he was too different and also he wasn’t expecting to be paying for everything so they went half on everything (wedding, apartment etc), she became a SJW and wore locs and talked about mother Africa and would talk in AA vernacular. She changed LITERALLY overnight!

She cut us all off for 3 YEARS until the pandemic and suddenly called to move into our aunts house. She literally looked like she aged 3 years, the mental and emotional stress this man caused her was out of this world.

I warn a lot of Somali women against ESPECIALLY madow men because 99% of the time it NEVER works out! Literally ever! If anyone can tell me one of those relationships that have lasted more than 5 years please let me know.

And what pissed me off the most is that US HER CLOSE ALLIES who loved and respected her she literally spit in our faces and only ran back because her dumb ass realized she made a mistake!

I’m afraid of marrying any type of ajnabi but madows are DEFO the worst to marry ESPECIALLY if your Somali!

 

[Unicorn]

Yeah u say u dont care but this screams tht u do. Anyways i follow bonnet and shes been getting dragged on fob lives who talk about her and somali girls with non somali husbands all day. So i get why shes on live defending it but the thing is this is more of a control women think then anything. No1 gives a shit when abdi gets a non somali women they dont have lives about it and even the out of wedlock kids tht are half somali tht come from them no1 says anything about lol i say every woman has a choice on who she marries. Of course if u wanna be safe a devil u know is better than the devil u dont know also yes there isnt a high success rate for ajanabi marriages but u cant stop a grown person when they make tht decision. Its on them. All these somalis talking shit just screams mental illness.

 

[Kisame]

I considered joining that live earlier but it seems they only wanted to argue with stupid ass fobs and niggas back home.

The only niggas this obsessed with Somali women are incels, fobs, and niggas back home.

Your avg westernized Farah that's mentally stable isn't stressing over some chick that married an ajnabi.

If your a Somali nigga that only has an interest in dating xalimos that only date Somali men than you have plenty of options. You can literally ignore the chicks that have a known past with non somalis. Ignoring this minority of women won't affect your dating pool at all.

Your dating pool as a man truly reflects you. If your a broke ass loser than the chicks in your range will most likely be broke ass losers.

 

[Geeljire lotus]

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I’ll be so honest, I have no hate for any Somali who decides to enter a IR relationship (might side eye them a bit) but for the most part I don’t care.

I think with Somali girls especially Im more agitated because they have more to lose in these relationships especially with madow men.

I’ll be honest I had a very close relationship with this one girl and she cut off me and her entire family because we disapproved on her marrying this guy from guinea bissau. She met him at her workplace and literally randomly decided to marry him 5 months after meeting.

We did our best, told her that he was too different and also he wasn’t expecting to be paying for everything so they went half on everything (wedding, apartment etc), she became a SJW and wore locs and talked about mother Africa and would talk in AA vernacular. She changed LITERALLY overnight!

She cut us all off for 3 YEARS until the pandemic and suddenly called to move into our aunts house. She literally looked like she aged 3 years, the mental and emotional stress this man caused her was out of this world.

I warn a lot of Somali women against ESPECIALLY madow men because 99% of the time it NEVER works out! Literally ever! If anyone can tell me one of those relationships that have lasted more than 5 years please let me know.

And what pissed me off the most is that US HER CLOSE ALLIES who loved and respected her she literally spit in our faces and only ran back because her dumb ass realized she made a mistake!

I’m afraid of marrying any type of ajnabi but madows are DEFO the worst to marry ESPECIALLY if your Somali!

This is just facts

 

[Kisame]

Yeah u say u dont care but this screams tht u do. Anyways i follow bonnet and shes been getting dragged on fob lives who talk about her and somali girls with non somali husbands all day. So i get why shes on live defending it but the thing is this is more of a control women think then anything. No1 gives a shit when abdi gets a non somali women they dont have lives about it and even the out of wedlock kids tht are half somali tht come from them no1 says anything about lol i say every woman has a choice on who she marries. Of course if u wanna be safe a devil u know is better than the devil u dont know also yes there isnt a high success rate for ajanabi marriages but u cant stop a grown person when they make tht decision. Its on them. All these somalis talking shit just screams mental illness.

The fobs and niggas back home deadass don't have anything going on with their lives.
They only give AF about women and that's it. It's truly a horrible mindset to have, and it's common across all broke ass niggas across the globe.

 

[Dibleyy]

Yeah u say u dont care but this screams tht u do. Anyways i follow bonnet and shes been getting dragged on fob lives who talk about her and somali girls with non somali husbands all day. So i get why shes on live defending it but the thing is this is more of a control women think then anything. No1 gives a shit when abdi gets a non somali women they dont have lives about it and even the out of wedlock kids tht are half somali tht come from them no1 says anything about lol i say every woman has a choice on who she marries. Of course if u wanna be safe a devil u know is better than the devil u dont know also yes there isnt a high success rate for ajanabi marriages but u cant stop a grown person when they make tht decision. Its on them. All these somalis talking shit just screams mental illness.

I guess I just feel irritated when I see women I like doing something stupid.

I agree with everything your saying for the most part and Somali women defo get the shorter end of the stick.

Honestly I don’t think I’d have much to say if the guy was caadan or arab but I think with madow I just dislike it so much.

 

[Unicorn]

The fobs and niggas back home deadass don't have anything going on with their lives.
They only give AF about women and that's it. It's truly a horrible mindset to have, and it's common across all broke ass niggas across the globe.

Veryy truee. Theyre 2 hyper focused on the very few xalimos with non somali guys. You would think it was a pandemic. They got no jobs. Also theyre not talking about them to give advice or warn them its just a karbash session

 

[Unicorn]

I guess I just feel irritated when I see women I like doing something stupid.

I agree with everything your saying for the most part and Somali women defo get the shorter end of the stick.

Honestly I don’t think I’d have much to say if the guy was caadan or arab but I think with madow I just dislike it so much.

Caadan and arab men dont have a big success rate with somali women either but i guess u mean they have a more traditional culture than madow men?? Like the madows in america for example are known for baby mamas and broken homes. Is tht wht u mean

 

[Dibleyy]

Caadan and arab men dont have a big success rate with somali women either but i guess u mean they have a more traditional culture than madow men?? Like the madows in america for example are known for baby mamas and broken homes. Is tht wht u mean

Kinda but it’s not just AA it’s other African men as well… I think when a lot of these Somali girls get into these relationships they often think like other ajnabi girls that they are seen as exotic and a prize only to realize the madow men feel superior to you which is what causes conflict and insult to her ego. (Or at least what I’ve observed)

Also it’s worse when that girl who grew up in a traditional Somali household is featurist whether they want to admit it or not, I saw a girl on tiktok talk about how her child has such a big nose and coily hair as if she didn’t choose him?!

And at the end of the day that child unlike other ethnicities is not going to be accepted by their Somali side (which is fucked up). It’s just not a good dynamic nor is it beneficial anyway you look at it.

 

[Nin123]

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I’ll be so honest, I have no hate for any Somali who decides to enter a IR relationship (might side eye them a bit) but for the most part I don’t care.

I think with Somali girls especially Im more agitated because they have more to lose in these relationships especially with madow men.

I’ll be honest I had a very close relationship with this one girl and she cut off me and her entire family because we disapproved on her marrying this guy from guinea bissau. She met him at her workplace and literally randomly decided to marry him 5 months after meeting.

We did our best, told her that he was too different and also he wasn’t expecting to be paying for everything so they went half on everything (wedding, apartment etc), she became a SJW and wore locs and talked about mother Africa and would talk in AA vernacular. She changed LITERALLY overnight!

She cut us all off for 3 YEARS until the pandemic and suddenly called to move into our aunts house. She literally looked like she aged 3 years, the mental and emotional stress this man caused her was out of this world.

I warn a lot of Somali women against ESPECIALLY madow men because 99% of the time it NEVER works out! Literally ever! If anyone can tell me one of those relationships that have lasted more than 5 years please let me know.

And what pissed me off the most is that US HER CLOSE ALLIES who loved and respected her she literally spit in our faces and only ran back because her dumb ass realized she made a mistake!

I’m afraid of marrying any type of ajnabi but madows are DEFO the worst to marry ESPECIALLY if your Somali!

She married a man from guinea bissau where one guy slept with 400 women these niggas are genetically not loyal

 

[Nin123]

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I’ll be so honest, I have no hate for any Somali who decides to enter a IR relationship (might side eye them a bit) but for the most part I don’t care.

I think with Somali girls especially Im more agitated because they have more to lose in these relationships especially with madow men.

I’ll be honest I had a very close relationship with this one girl and she cut off me and her entire family because we disapproved on her marrying this guy from guinea bissau. She met him at her workplace and literally randomly decided to marry him 5 months after meeting.

We did our best, told her that he was too different and also he wasn’t expecting to be paying for everything so they went half on everything (wedding, apartment etc), she became a SJW and wore locs and talked about mother Africa and would talk in AA vernacular. She changed LITERALLY overnight!

She cut us all off for 3 YEARS until the pandemic and suddenly called to move into our aunts house. She literally looked like she aged 3 years, the mental and emotional stress this man caused her was out of this world.

I warn a lot of Somali women against ESPECIALLY madow men because 99% of the time it NEVER works out! Literally ever! If anyone can tell me one of those relationships that have lasted more than 5 years please let me know.

And what pissed me off the most is that US HER CLOSE ALLIES who loved and respected her she literally spit in our faces and only ran back because her dumb ass realized she made a mistake!

I’m afraid of marrying any type of ajnabi but madows are DEFO the worst to marry ESPECIALLY if your Somali!

Wait a minute

 

[Nin123]

The fobs and niggas back home deadass don't have anything going on with their lives.
They only give AF about women and that's it. It's truly a horrible mindset to have, and it's common across all broke ass niggas across the globe.

Again who wants this gaal boy opinion on Somali matters. Once you leave Islam you automatically not Somali.

 

[Unicorn]

Kinda but it’s not just AA it’s other African men as well… I think when a lot of these Somali girls get into these relationships they often think like other ajnabi girls that they are seen as exotic and a prize only to realize the madow men feel superior to you which is what causes conflict and insult to her ego. (Or at least what I’ve observed)

Also it’s worse when that girl who grew up in a traditional Somali household is featurist whether they want to admit it or not, I saw a girl on tiktok talk about how her child has such a big nose and coily hair as if she didn’t choose him?!

And at the end of the day that child unlike other ethnicities is not going to be accepted by their Somali side (which is fucked up). It’s just not a good dynamic nor is it beneficial anyway you look at it.

Wow a somali girl married madow and is shocked her kid doesnt look like her lol thts crazy but ive seen so many girls think like this. They dont care about how genetics work. There was one mixed black girl youtuber tht gave birth with a full black guy and soon as she saw her baby shes like "baby looks ugly.he doesnt have light eyes he looks like u"XD but yeahh the kid wont be accepted as somali. People complain about how somali fathers kids is somali however i think tht its a blessing tht we have tht culture cuz a lot of cultures dont believe a mixed kid is part of their ethnicity. They dont care about the father for example white guys,japanese(most asians) they will never accept tht kid due to fathers ethnicity.

 

[Angelina]

Honestly this might sound Cuunsuri but the issue is that a lot of the issues that many Somali women complain about when it comes to Somali men, madow men are also known to have it in spades. It doesn’t make sense for you to run to a community whose men also have many of the issues we talk about but x2. I’ll be honest, I haven’t seen many successful marriages between Somali girls and Non Somali madows unless they were North Sudanese or Eritrean. Keyword here is many since I do know two Somali women married to West African Muslim men who do seem to have a good marriage thus far and May Allah continue to bless their marriage but unfortunately, I’ve also seen and heard of a dozen not too great ones.
Thats not to say that there aren’t many good madow men, but it’s due to the fact that many madow men who do get with Somali women tend to have this weird fetish towards Horner women and have this mentality that lighter or narrower features are better. You can’t build with self haters and they’ll put you thr ringer the same way they do so with many of the women of their background.


In saying that, we as a community need to learn to mind our own business. We don’t own random Somali women and people will make mistakes. There is no point holding that against them since Allah knows the divorce rates aren’t even low amongst us as well, but I do think that it’s important to let young Somali girls know, the grass is not greener especially when entering a community whose issues mirror our own on a grander scale.

My post isn’t to sound cunsuri or to generalize. I understand that people are individuals and many people won’t actually fit in to my generalization. I can only go off on what I’ve seen.

 

[Keep it a boqol]

Was the guy at least muslim?

I have a relative who i’m really close with who’s dating a gaalo woman. She’s not muslim and it’s been hard on his family.

It’s really hard seeing someone you genuinely want the best be so torn between choosing someone the want a relationship vs long time family members and values/religon.

 

[Killamenace78]

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I’ll be so honest, I have no hate for any Somali who decides to enter a IR relationship (might side eye them a bit) but for the most part I don’t care.

I think with Somali girls especially Im more agitated because they have more to lose in these relationships especially with madow men.

I’ll be honest I had a very close relationship with this one girl and she cut off me and her entire family because we disapproved on her marrying this guy from guinea bissau. She met him at her workplace and literally randomly decided to marry him 5 months after meeting.

We did our best, told her that he was too different and also he wasn’t expecting to be paying for everything so they went half on everything (wedding, apartment etc), she became a SJW and wore locs and talked about mother Africa and would talk in AA vernacular. She changed LITERALLY overnight!

She cut us all off for 3 YEARS until the pandemic and suddenly called to move into our aunts house. She literally looked like she aged 3 years, the mental and emotional stress this man caused her was out of this world.

I warn a lot of Somali women against ESPECIALLY madow men because 99% of the time it NEVER works out! Literally ever! If anyone can tell me one of those relationships that have lasted more than 5 years please let me know.

And what pissed me off the most is that US HER CLOSE ALLIES who loved and respected her she literally spit in our faces and only ran back because her dumb ass realized she made a mistake!

I’m afraid of marrying any type of ajnabi but madows are DEFO the worst to marry ESPECIALLY if your Somali!

Is that the Xaar play girl who remembers ?

 

[Unicorn]

Is that the Xaar play girl who remembers ?

Fill me in. What happened?

 

[Kisame]

Again who wants this gaal boy opinion on Somali matters. Once you leave Islam you automatically not Somali.

I'm here to raise the IQ level. If the forum was filled with dumbass niggas like you than people would leave.

Also you definitely felt offended when I said this was a broke nigga thing.

Step your money up broke ass nigga

 

[Dibleyy]

Fill me in. What happened?

I tried to find the video but couldn’t, so basically these girls were talking about sexuality within marriage and she basically said her man can do whatever and that she’s into anything, she looked the girl up and down and said she’d let her man shit or piss on her if that was his fetish and she’d be into it too lol

 

[Unicorn]

I tried to find the video but couldn’t, so basically these girls were talking about sexuality within marriage and she basically said her man can do whatever and that she’s into anything, she looked the girl up and down and said she’d let her man shit or piss on her if that was his fetish and she’d be into it too lol

Excuse a moi ?? ...lord have mercyy eughh