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Tiktok girl responds to my previous thread on Tiktok live asking why ppl don’t like Somali girls in Interracial relationships?
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"Honestly this might sound Cuunsuri but the issue is that a lot of the issues that many Somali women complain about when it comes to Somali men, madow men are also known to have it in spades. It doesn’t make sense for you to run to a community whose men also have many of the issues we talk about but x2."
This isn't really a Somali thing either. Self haters from other ethnic groups tend to do the same thing when it comes to dating. Every ethnic group has women like this.
That's why I've always felt like it was pointless to give AF about chicks that marry out. No point in giving AF about a chick that might judge you way more harshly compared to other men.
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I had a friend who recently did that. She’s catholic and wears a big cross here and there so idek the sincerity of itBuddy needs to fake convert her and call It a day.
Somalis seeming to going towards having one of the largest pools of unmarried people in their 20s and early30s amongst Muslims in the West. And they’re arguing over a couple of xalimos marrying ajanabis
She looked at her like " ur into tht??
" lol this reminds me of an interview tht yung miami had with trina where she tells trina she likes golden showers and trina is like "you do..?." lmao True, but another thing people forget in these situations is that half of the time it isn't related to self hatred or having issues with the opposite gender of one's ethnic group. Many people don't walk into IR relationships previously anticipating that they'll marry out. It's just that we live in a new world that places emphasis on love and romance and people often meet people at work, school or through others and then 'fall in love', fall in love or attraction or whatever you name it and also adopt a love conquers all mindset even if they initially feel that marrying a foreigner is alien. I've met girls whose dating history is only Somali men, then they meet an ajnabi at work who says all the right things and ticks most of their boxes with the only issue being that they're ajnabi. Then they tell themselves that the most important thing is character deen and being into the person and I know it's the same for the men as well.
Hence why, personally I think people especially Somalis need to learn the art of minding their own business. You cannot raise a whole generation of kids outside of Somalia, let them sit in a classroom filled with ajnabis, befriend them, work with them and live a life in which when in public 90% of those they're around are ajnabi and not expect them to think of some Somalis who are Muslim as being potiential partners.
The amount of Somalis that I know that are between the ages of 28-33 is staggering. We are worrying about the wrong thing. I know of Somali fathers who just want their daughters married who are even softening when it comes to IR marriages and these youngsters are harking on about interracial marriages. When you have odeys telling their daughters please just marry I don't care about his qabil, heck he can be ajnabi but must be Muslim, then people need to understand what time it is.Somalis seeming to going towards having one of the largest pools of unmarried people in their 20s and early30s amongst Muslims in the West. And they’re arguing over a couple of xalimos marrying ajanabis
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"I don’t live in darkness, darkness lives in me."
The irony of Somali girls with madow men is that they aren’t even their first pick. They just settle for a Somali girl. Those guys constantly bash their own women and praise the females that have lighter skin features (white, Latinas, etc).
Leave the lil monkey nigguh alone, his only 17, he already has a higher IQ than those who browse tiktok all day.
Somalis seeming to going towards having one of the largest pools of unmarried people in their 20s and early30s amongst Muslims in the West. And they’re arguing over a couple of xalimos marrying ajanabis
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It's the "grass is greener on the other side" type of mentality. An important thing that often gets overlooked is that things just aren't the same. A woman always has more to lose in a relationship than a man. It's like comparing a millionaire who bets a few thousand on red versus a paycheck-to-paycheck wage slave doing the same, the risks just aren't the same.
You may not like it or may call it unfair, but it is what it is. Especially once children are involved, it puts the woman in a very vulnerable position, and avoiding those situations is better than to fix it.
The way some dudes online reaction, and especially the worst excesses of it are people who spend their free time stalking and harassing women who have married outside their community are just low life behaviour.
It is not bad to advocate for marrying within our community, it gives both you and your parents peace of mind because they know what theycan expect. Both sides generally live by the same religious and cultural rules, which affect expectations, treatment, and problem-solving mechanisms. A marriage has always been a union between families, and seeking counsel or support from the spouse’s family which is normal, which becomes hard or almost impossible in a interracial relationship.
Social media has intensified gender and political differences across all social and ethnic groups, so many people, even on this forum, walk around with a preconceived notion of how the opposite sex behaves. It's hard to shake off because, for some, it justifies certain behaviors. On the opposite sides it makes people propagadize other ethnicities races or woman, ergo AA with hornes or the fact that SK men are loved while being the most insane misogynist.
If you believe that all women will cheat given the chance, are promiscuous, or embody other negative stereotypes, you might think that being sexist and misogynistic is a virtue. You may see yourself as simply warning your brothers about potential dangers, which can lead to promoting a "red pill" style of transactional relationships.
Protective jealousy is, for a good reason, an important concept in Islam. You should believe that Somali women are the diamond standard among all women. So, when one marries, shouldn't we want her to at least get someone who is on her level? Providing for a woman and her family is normalized in our community, while many interracial relationships lack that, for example. If she marries an African American or Bantu man and gets 1/10 of what she deserves, leaving her deeply unhappy, the examples of such marriages failing should serve as a red flag for the women you care about.
You may not like it or may call it unfair, but it is what it is. Especially once children are involved, it puts the woman in a very vulnerable position, and avoiding those situations is better than to fix it.
The way some dudes online reaction, and especially the worst excesses of it are people who spend their free time stalking and harassing women who have married outside their community are just low life behaviour.
It is not bad to advocate for marrying within our community, it gives both you and your parents peace of mind because they know what theycan expect. Both sides generally live by the same religious and cultural rules, which affect expectations, treatment, and problem-solving mechanisms. A marriage has always been a union between families, and seeking counsel or support from the spouse’s family which is normal, which becomes hard or almost impossible in a interracial relationship.
Social media has intensified gender and political differences across all social and ethnic groups, so many people, even on this forum, walk around with a preconceived notion of how the opposite sex behaves. It's hard to shake off because, for some, it justifies certain behaviors. On the opposite sides it makes people propagadize other ethnicities races or woman, ergo AA with hornes or the fact that SK men are loved while being the most insane misogynist.
If you believe that all women will cheat given the chance, are promiscuous, or embody other negative stereotypes, you might think that being sexist and misogynistic is a virtue. You may see yourself as simply warning your brothers about potential dangers, which can lead to promoting a "red pill" style of transactional relationships.
Protective jealousy is, for a good reason, an important concept in Islam. You should believe that Somali women are the diamond standard among all women. So, when one marries, shouldn't we want her to at least get someone who is on her level? Providing for a woman and her family is normalized in our community, while many interracial relationships lack that, for example. If she marries an African American or Bantu man and gets 1/10 of what she deserves, leaving her deeply unhappy, the examples of such marriages failing should serve as a red flag for the women you care about.
FYI guys this tiktok girl you’re talking about was married to a Somali guy. She married the way she was expected to marry but it didn’t work out so I can see how it’s annoying to see Somalis ripping into her marriage and she is still it seems happily married. People need to leave her alone.
Somalis are annoying as hell. We can disagree with certain things and prefer our people to marry within, but you can’t police people nor can we predict what’s great for people individually.
Somalis are annoying as hell. We can disagree with certain things and prefer our people to marry within, but you can’t police people nor can we predict what’s great for people individually.
Why do these women make marrying ajnabi men their entire personality? It reminds me of ex muslims, who instead of living their lives, can't keep islam out of their mouths. Maybe because deep down they subconsciously know the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
I won't leave him alone. I want to bully him off this forum. This fucking ape became an incel at 15 years old. Bro didn't even give life a chance
."he already has a higher IQ than those who browse tiktok all day"
You know for a fact this is a lie. Al shabab and al Qaeda Convince niggas with his IQ level to become suicide bombers. That's how stupid he is.
The women here won't like this but it's not my problem unlike Somali men(who date for many reasons like other black men due to seeing other options as more submissive (not true)), when Somali women(more often than not these women have good jobs etc), date out its usually due to low self esteem like other black/brown women this is common in ethnic women however, Somali women are the only ones who think madow men and ones that have little to nothing to offer is an upgrade(i know the reason for this but i'll remain civil for now).
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