To those against physical discipline and dhaqan celis

Demanding respect as a parent from your child must be xanuun lol gahhhgahhhhm.


The hooyo sounds half ciyaal mataalo herself ''aniga ma ii hamjamaysa'' instead of saying hanjabaysa🤣

No father would have put up with this shit lol. his presence alone would strike fear into that yariis girl's heart

aabo la'aan inay mesha ka jirto way iska cadahay.


🤣Can't lie shit sounds very rehearsed though especially when she said '' i'm calling the police'' it's 2023 some parents use their kids to gain clout i would not be surprised if it's staged.

No father would run to social media if this shit happned.

There's no point in putting your underaged child out there for the world to see u🤣why would you show the world that you failed as a parent?gahhhhhhdamn
 
no I'm talking about what @Gacmeey said. All of them that say this threat was carried out on them can't all be lying :farmajoyaab:

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Accounts with the name ''Ajanabi slayer'' and ''Karbaash'' is a valid source. They all say it, you are right.

You can now rest assured believe girls put bisbaas in their private area.
 

yasmeen

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A case of the telly bringing up kids, and parents realising their eventual failure a tad bit late.


Yours is an interesting take. The issue of 'boundaries' is a worthy topic of discussion, perhaps as time permits. In the interim, could you elaborate re: boundaries for kids?

In my book, a child has neither privacy, nor boundaries, nor special space in the family home. They should, and must as they turn 15+.

Monitoring your child and respecting their privacy isn’t mutually exclusive.

Whether you like it or not, they are human beings who feel the same thing you feel. Privacy is a right for everyone no matter the age. Every human being feels violated when their privacy is encroached upon. The little girl just wanted to be left alone in her room. You can discipline a child without having to resort to extreme measures like the people in here are echoing.

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There are gentler methods to disciplining a child and winning them over.
Keeping in mind, we are not some 'cadaan' suburban liberals on a parallel universe.

And yet cadaan children are the most well behaved children next to indhoyaars? Why do you think that is?

The parents are conscious about how their child feels and act accordingly. This, in turn, builds trust and a secure bond between the child and the parents.

They don’t blindly go into having children without understanding how child development works. They care about the outcome of their children. It is a fact that this gentle approach to parenting is what nurtures children into being obedient, respectful, honest, and kind.


Postscript:
You sound like one of my liberal friends after a long bender; how many glasses of that fine wine have you downed this fine Sun. morn (kaftan)?

Hahahhha I haven’t started yet but I will right now. 😂
 
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And yet cadaan children are the most well behaved children next to indhoyaars? Why do you think that is?

Hm? From what I've noticed, they tend to be quite bratty and dysfunctional, to be honest. Especially as teenagers. But I'm not suggesting hitting them as any kind of solution to that. One interesting way to alleviate hyperactivity, tantrums and teenage mood swings is feeding them carnivore (yes). Once all the sugar ups and downs are gone kids become weirdly calm and more well-adjusted and alongside this parents, imho, do need to establish a sort of hiearchy.

Don't speak down to them or yell and do feel free to explain your decisions but still maintain an air of "I'm the parent. Respect me and listen when I speak." a commanding presence is needed. A lot of these cadaans command very little respect from their kids because they seem to forget this last bit. Imho, kids are a lot like animals like dogs and wolves. They'll consistently test your boundaries and if they notice you're weak and keel over for them it's over.
 
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yasmeen

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You are right, should’ve never been recorded. I’d really like to know what she thought this would achieve


What are these “boundaries”? This child refused to come down for diner and when the mother enters the room, the child throws a tantrum about privacy. Should the mother just left the child alone and respect her “privacy” even though the child is clearly not respecting the mother? What is the limit to these boundaries and do they even have limits? What happens when the child’s boundaries infringe on the ability of the mother/father to parent

Read my reply to 𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈. I am too lazy to answer this again lol.

Physical discipline is not abuse but there is a fine line. I was physically disciplined and so was every other kid I know and we turned out fine


Normal people do not say that they turned out fine then in the next breath salivate over child abuse. The fact you are okay with it shows that it has impacted you in a negative way and altered your best judgement. It reveals that you think it is normal and absolutely something that belongs in civil society.
 
Considering the behavior of some of these bratty kids; dhaqan celis should instead be called doqon celis, which fits perfectly with how Somalis back home view them as well.

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Boondocks was that show:ftw9nwa:

Have you seen this one?

Of course! It's absolutely legendary. I wanted to beat that little nigga even while watching as a little nigga myself! On another note, one of my favorite bits from the Song of Ice and Fire books is:

A great oaf,” said the Queen of Thorns. “His father was an oaf as well. My husband, the late Lord Luthor. Oh, I loved him well enough, don’t mistake me. A kind man, and not unskilled in the bedchamber, but an appalling oaf all the same. He managed to ride off a cliff whilst hawking. They say he was looking up at the sky and paying no mind to where his horse was taking him.

And now my oaf son is doing the same, only he’s riding a lion instead of
a palfrey. It is easy to mount a lion and not so easy to get off, I warned him,
but he only chuckles.
Should you ever have a son, Sansa, beat him frequently
so he learns to mind you. I only had the one boy and I hardly beat him at all,
so now he pays more heed to Butterbumps than he does to me.
A lion is not a
lap cat, I told him, and he gives me a ‘tut-tut-Mother.’ There is entirely too
much tut-tutting in this realm, if you ask me. All these kings would do a deal
better if they would put down their swords and listen to their mothers.”

(Butterbumps is their court jester)

Always sends me good.

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