Today a lady ran away from a man who were going to introduce each other

[Vanessa]

Did he disclosure that he has a weakness on his legs?

 

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

Did he disclosure that he has a weakness on his legs?

He had difficulty walking and had balance issues after. Shock has an affect on the body, this was the effect for him. He has no previous problems with his legs. He experienced pain hours after. I don't know now.

 

[Regg]

He didn't deserve that. He is a hafiz and is on his deen to the maximum level. Very kind brother. It's a cruel world. She is actually at the same level as him in looks

You mentioned that he has a disability so it sound like she didn’t know and was put off by it. I know it sound harsh but you should always let a woman know that a person has a condition before telling him so that way, he won’t find out about rejections until one is happy to marry him.

 

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

You mentioned that he has a disability so it sound like she didn’t know and was put off by it. I know it sound harsh but you should always let a woman know that man has a condition before telling him so that way, he won’t find out about rejections until one is happy to marry him.

He has no disability. He experienced shock.

 

[Mercury]

either hes short or she find him unattractive and didn't have the guts to say No

 

[Regg]

He has no disability. He experienced shock.

Consolidate and tell him that he’s not the only one that experience being dejected. Nothing hurts a man except being rejected by a woman and hearing their loved ones pass away.

 

[Amirah]

Men aren't meant to be the more attractive one in the relationship. People forget women are supposed to be the fairer sex. God made them beautiful for a reason. That being said, women have every right to find a man that fits their beauty standards. Just don't be rude about it and you'll be good. Pulling stunts like affects anyones self-esteem and is straight up disrespectful.

I can always count on you to sound like you transported straight from the 14th century. Every single time without a fail! Lol

 

[Mercury]

He's not ugly. He is 5/10. Average. He almost had paralysis. I feel so bad. He couldn't move. This was the worst I have ever seen after matching people. I don't think I want to be involved anymore. My own heart stopped, I cannot imagine what was going on in his body. Please don't laugh at this brother.

how you gonna get paralysis from getting rejected by a girl

 

[Amirah]

How can you agree to meet someone in public and then run away like an animal? She didn't even say hello to him. She looked at him from a distance and ran away from the direction she came from. This is the most shocking thing I have ever witnessed. The two sisters she came went after her. There are too many who was waste time and are not serious. I cannot describe the face he had. He had trouble walking after due to weakness.

If the roles were reversed here and a girl posted this and said a guy ran away fast from the girl I tried match him with, I can almost swear on my life 8/10 responses here would’ve had zero sympathy! Instead it would’ve turned into a joke of she’s ugly lol or she’s must’ve been around the block and he recognized her....blah blah! This forum is filled to the brim with jaded incels and misogynists. It’s toxic and exhausting.

 

[Jaydaan]

I feel for him. I did the same to a calico. But in my defence I was 20 and had the maturity of a 13 year old. It’s a cold world out there. Her loss

 

[Mercury]

All people have feelings

rejection is part of life he should seen it as her loss and move on with his day

 

[dr.leorio]

I can always count on you to sound like you transported straight from the 14th century. Every single time without a fail! Lol

Some of us are just more realistic on how the real world works. Less than 1 billion people live in western societies. That is less than 13% of the world population. You've got to be straight up delusional or so detached to how most people live to make a statement like that. Nice try though

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

If the roles were reversed here and a girl posted this and said a guy ran away fast from the girl I tried match him with, I can almost swear on my life 8/10 responses here would’ve had zero sympathy! Instead it would’ve turned into a joke of she’s ugly lol or she’s must’ve been around the block and he recognized her....blah blah! This forum is filled to the brim with jaded incels and misogynists. It’s toxic and exhausting.

Look we aren’t talking bout that tho stop derailing geez

it goes both ways if it was a weel who did it I would certainly clap back at him stop being a victim

stop making things hypothetical

 

[Amirah]

Some of us are just more realistic on how the real world works. Less than 1 billion people live in western societies. That is less than 13% of the world population. You've got to be straight up delusional or so detached to how most people live to make a statement like that. Nice try though

Wait...what?? What does that have to do with...ya know what nvm

 

[Amirah]

Look we aren’t talking bout that tho stop derailing geez

it goes both ways if it was a weel who did it I would certainly clap back at him stop being a victim

stop making things hypothetical

Lol good to know you can be impartial.

 

[Hali]

rejection is part of life he should seen it as her loss and move on with his day

valid point.

 

[Onyxbrainster]

I've been rejected before. It sucks for a while, but I have moved on. It's apart of life. Not everyone is gonna like you.

 

[Jaydaan]

If the roles were reversed here and a girl posted this and said a guy ran away fast from the girl I tried match him with, I can almost swear on my life 8/10 responses here would’ve had zero sympathy! Instead it would’ve turned into a joke of she’s ugly lol or she’s must’ve been around the block and he recognized her....blah blah! This forum is filled to the brim with jaded incels and misogynists. It’s toxic and exhausting.

Nah most of us would say it’s just wrong. If you already agreed to meet someone, I think you should just do it. If the person is not for you for whatever reason you can say it later on to them on the phone

 

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

This is not about rejection. This is the way he was rejected. No one experienced this type of rejection. She ran away. She didn't hide or peek from the corner. She ran after eye contact. This is a different type of rejection

 

[Vanessa]

He had difficulty walking and had balance issues after. Shock has an affect on the body, this was the effect for him. He has no previous problems with his legs. He experienced pain hours after. I don't know now.

I assure you, your friend will find a good wife inshaallah.