Trying to be understanding: what do you as a Somali women or man wish the other gender understood about you?

[Bashi]

I respect her rights. Its not like I will chain her to the bed and say you cant go. I would just say go.....just dont come back here

It was sarcasm. You can't stop them from cheating because they are Independent

 

[Golden Barbie]

Men need to know we’re not putting on makeup to impress them we really aren’t that desperate ! We are doing it for ourselves.

 

[Jaydaan]

Men need to know we’re not putting on makeup to impress them we really aren’t that desperate ! We are doing it for ourselves.

sure you are. Hey Im not posting sexy pics for mens validation as well is next. women put most of their effort and energy to look good for us and we appreciate that

 

[Golden Barbie]

sure you are. Hey Im not posting sexy pics for mens validation as well is next. women put most of their effort and energy to look good for us and we appreciate that

I’m putting on makeup during quarantine while I’m just sitting on my couch. It just makes me feel put together, I’m not doing it for men

 

[Jaydaan]

I’m putting on makeup during quarantine while I’m just sitting on my couch. It just makes me feel put together, I’m not doing it for men

You never know if a man knocks on the door. It could be a neighbour who may have got your post by mistake. You always have to be prepared. i know how women think lol

 

[Halimak]

Married person going on solo trip is only for one reason....to cheat in peace

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[Golden Barbie]

You never know if a man knocks on the door. It could be a neighbour who may have got your post by mistake. You always have to be prepared. i know how women think lol

Who knocks people during quarantine

 

[Basra]

Like how could we better understand your perspective and what you go through? Like something you are afraid to say. But you are more than welcome to say it here.

I’m not judging!

I am not judging but i am judging

 

[__08]

Men need to know we’re not putting on makeup to impress them we really aren’t that desperate ! We are doing it for ourselves.

Facts.

 

[__08]

I am not judging but i am judging


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Haha

 

[Marcus]

I just want you to be Muslim, know how to cook and clean. I'm your husband not your friend.

It's not a tall order.

 

[__08]

I just want you to be Muslim, know how to cook and clean. I'm your husband not your friend.

It's not a tall order.

Fair enough.

 

[The_memesiah9]

1. Stay faithful/loyal
2. stay fit and healthy
3. educate yourself, so we can have intellectual discussion on many topics or so your knowledge can be to help
4. Be supportive and obey whatever i see except for if I say something that is against the Deen

That is what I want from a wife

 

[Desert Flower]

Married person going on solo trip is only for one reason....to cheat in peace

No. It’s for travelling. Don’t be simple minded. I’m still my own person at the end of the day. I’m not a control freak and expect the same energy from my spouse.

 

[Happy_]

I‘d want him to be my cheerleader, when I come home from work I want him to cater to me. When he sees I‘m in a bad mood, I want him to know just by looking at my waji and immediately do anything to cheer me up. No buuq, no calaacal nothing. That is all. Guys, is it too much, will I stay single for life?

 

[Octavian]

I‘d want him to be my cheerleader, when I come home from work I want him to cater to me. When he sees I‘m in a bad mood, I want him to know just by looking at my waji and immediately do anything to cheer me up. No buuq, no calaacal nothing. That is all. Guys, is it too much, will I stay single for life?

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i am sure that you will find something in the slave markets of libya

 

[Happy_]

i am sure that you will find something in the slave markets of libya

why? I‘m not asking for much, i dont want money and gifts. Tho i‘d like it. I just want his attention, affection and time.

 

[Odkac WRLD]

Respect and accept my dominion in the home, and I will give you the best life I can provide. Isn’t so hard to understand.

 

[Jaydaan]

No. It’s for travelling. Don’t be simple minded. I’m still my own person at the end of the day. I’m not a control freak and expect the same energy from my spouse.

Why wouldn’t you want to travel with your spouse and experience exotic places together? Surely that adds to the journey

 

[Desert Flower]

Why wouldn’t you want to travel with your spouse and experience exotic places together? Surely that adds to the journey

Who said I wouldn’t? What’s with the assumptions?