Twin flames

[Basra]

You never seize to amaze me with how you make deep stuff sound so simple
It makes a lotta sense my dear Agatha

Loool don't you love this dog? A canine version of me

r u dhulbahante?

 

[Hali]

I think the word you’re looking for is chemistry
Twin flams kulahaa

 

[BobSmoke]

r u dhulbahante?

I'm not dblock but I f*ck with them.

Your jinns are getting complacent ayaamahan

 

[Amirah]

I'm wondering if you guys believe there is such a thing called twin flames. Like a person that you mutually just connect on every level, basically a mirror soul. Like-minded in morals and goals and a sense of patience for eachother to grow.
An undeniable intense attraction
A type of connection rooted in love and authenticity for that person that you can almost feel their presence and energy when that person is away and you can tell that other person is feeling the same.
You feel at home with that person and vice versa.
That connection you have with that person that make sense of why the previous relationships failed.

Does such a thing exist or is this just some lightskin nigga shit?

Yeah it exists, experienced it twice.

 

[Lostbox]

I think the word you’re looking for is chemistry
Twin flams kulahaa

I was thinking the same thing

 

[Sophisticate]

You never seize to amaze me with how you make deep stuff sound so simple
It makes a lotta sense my dear Agatha

Loool don't you love this dog? A canine version of me

I won't lie the notion of a twin flame sounds esoteric. It seems like it could be weaponized by someone to justify maltreatment or staying in an unhealthy situation. Since the construct of the twinflame is meant to be one that is somewhat tumultuous.

Do I think its possible to meet someone that is scarily similar (not pretending through mirroring but authentically so) and makes you feel safer and more secure than others? Yes. I don't think they would need a label. Perhaps you can call it a highly compatible person that gets you. And is willing to let you get them (less guards).

 

[Amirah]

r u dhulbahante?

Basra where have you been? Why don’t you post your pictures anymore like this

Hahaha



.......not

Those were the fun days....these days you’re serious

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Fell for the "soul-mate" meme. Buckle up sxb, you're in for a wild ride, RIP

 

[jabsveg276]

I'm wondering if you guys believe there is such a thing called twin flames. Like a person that you mutually just connect on every level, basically a mirror soul. Like-minded in morals and goals and a sense of patience for eachother to grow.
An undeniable intense attraction
A type of connection rooted in love and authenticity for that person that you can almost feel their presence and energy when that person is away and you can tell that other person is feeling the same.
You feel at home with that person and vice versa.
That connection you have with that person that make sense of why the previous relationships failed.

Does such a thing exist or is this just some lightskin nigga shit?

it exists, their is probably someone in the world who's perfect for you BUT

their are 8 billion people on this earth, itll be hard to find that person

 

[Basra]

I'm not dblock but I f*ck with them.

Your jinns are getting complacent ayaamahan

 

[BobSmoke]

I won't lie the notion of a twin flame sounds esoteric. It seems like it could be weaponized by someone to justify maltreatment or staying in an unhealthy situation. Since the construct of the twinflame is meant to be one that is somewhat tumultuous.

Do I think its possible to meet someone that is scarily similar (not pretending through mirroring but authentically so) and makes you feel safer and more secure than others? Yes. I don't think they would need a label. Perhaps you can call it a highly compatible person that gets you. And is willing to let you get them (less guards).

I was thinking the same thing too.

I was stumbling upon this thing on IG and I fell in that rabbit hole searching on YouTube about this topic.
I have a person in my mind that kinda fits the criteria. I dunno, it kinda made sense but I was just brushing it off as hopeless romantic tendencies
Do you know any remedy to cure the person that is a bit of a hopeless romantic. I could some help

 

[Desert Flower]

I'm wondering if you guys believe there is such a thing called twin flames. Like a person that you mutually just connect on every level, basically a mirror soul. Like-minded in morals and goals and a sense of patience for eachother to grow.
An undeniable intense attraction
A type of connection rooted in love and authenticity for that person that you can almost feel their presence and energy when that person is away and you can tell that other person is feeling the same.
You feel at home with that person and vice versa.
That connection you have with that person that make sense of why the previous relationships failed.

Does such a thing exist or is this just some lightskin nigga shit?

No. I think that’s some hoky poky BS. I think there are many people you can build a life with. I look at relationships in a pragmatic manner.

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[AbdiS]

OP is hallucinating.

You're not going to experience the time when you thought twins could read each others minds again, waryaa.

Childhood memories are made into dust, unfortunately.

 

[Sophisticate]

I was thinking the same thing too.

I was stumbling upon this thing on IG and I fell in that rabbit hole searching on YouTube about this topic.
I have a person in my mind that kinda fits the criteria. I dunno, it kinda made sense but I was just brushing it off as hopeless romantic tendencies
Do you know any remedy to cure the person that is a bit of a hopeless romantic. I could some help

Remove less from hopeless romantic and add ful. You must start off with using adjectives that indicate you are operating from a place of strength. Optimism is wonderful just temper it with sound judgement and proper expectation management. This notion of the ‘only one’ is an encumbrance. There are various potentials out there. And I am sure the degree to which you like them may vary considerably. A good enough one that is equally yoked, emotionally mature, responsive and at the same stage in life is the best option. Good luck, bro.

 

[BobSmoke]

Remove less from hopeless romantic and add ful. You must start off with using adjectives that indicate you are operating from a place of strength. Optimism is wonderful just temper it with sound judgement and proper expectation management. This notion of the ‘only one’ is an encumbrance. There are various potentials out there. And I am sure the degree to which you like them may vary considerably. A good enough one that is equally yoked, emotionally mature, responsive and at the same stage in life is the best option. Good luck, bro.

I appreciate your kind words Agatha.

Equally yoked is that word I was looking for.

My oxytocin high has worn off now. I got back to my senses after suppressing my old simp ways.

I haven't been this charmed for a long time and I'm usually the avoidant hot and cold type who makes girls catch feelings only for me to push them away when I feel them getting too familiarised with me even though me liking them a lot for their personalities.

I think it's just learned behaviour of being betrayed and coming to accept this as the norm, leading to keeping my walls high.

But yeah, I think I found someone who's personality and looks makes perfect sense to me and vice versa. We both play hard to get but we both melt in each others hands. The more vulnerable we both get, the more we want each other. Everything I want in a woman, I see it in her. I keep getting this irresistable urge to breed her.

Best part is that she is a xalimo with a limited edition mindset.

I haven't told her how I really feel about her so I'm just spilling my guts here so that I can feel relieved. Deep down, I know it's mutual. I can see it in her face and I can hear it in her voice how she feels about me.

We're not in official relationship tho and I'm technically still seeing other girls just to kill time until she brings up the talk of getting serious. Then I might drop all my other links for her

Long story short
Muzmatch is

 

[Desert Flower]

I appreciate your kind words Agatha.

Equally yoked is that word I was looking for.

My oxytocin high has worn off now. I got back to my senses after suppressing my old simp ways.

I haven't been this charmed for a long time and I'm usually the avoidant hot and cold type who makes girls catch feelings only for me to push them away when I feel them getting too familiarised with me even though me liking them a lot for their personalities.

I think it's just learned behaviour of being betrayed and coming to accept this as the norm, leading to keeping my walls high.

But yeah, I think I found someone who's personality and looks makes perfect sense to me and vice versa. We both play hard to get but we both melt in each others hands. The more vulnerable we both get, the more we want each other. Everything I want in a woman, I see it in her. I keep getting this irresistable urge to breed her.

Best part is that she is a xalimo with a limited edition mindset.

I haven't told her how I really feel about her so I'm just spilling my guts here so that I can feel relieved. Deep down, I know it's mutual. I can see it in her face and I can hear it in her voice how she feels about me.

We're not in official relationship tho and I'm technically still seeing other girls just to kill time until she brings up the talk of getting serious. Then I might drop all my other links for her

Long story short
Muzmatch is

She's waiting for you to tell her this. She won't bring it up (especially if she's the type of girl you've described above). If you're sure she's feeling you, then show/tell her you're serious and want out the game.

 

[Sophisticate]

I appreciate your kind words Agatha.

Equally yoked is that word I was looking for.

My oxytocin high has worn off now. I got back to my senses after suppressing my old simp ways.

I haven't been this charmed for a long time and I'm usually the avoidant hot and cold type who makes girls catch feelings only for me to push them away when I feel them getting too familiarised with me even though me liking them a lot for their personalities.

I think it's just learned behaviour of being betrayed and coming to accept this as the norm, leading to keeping my walls high.

But yeah, I think I found someone who's personality and looks makes perfect sense to me and vice versa. We both play hard to get but we both melt in each others hands. The more vulnerable we both get, the more we want each other. Everything I want in a woman, I see it in her. I keep getting this irresistable urge to breed her.

Best part is that she is a xalimo with a limited edition mindset.

I haven't told her how I really feel about her so I'm just spilling my guts here so that I can feel relieved. Deep down, I know it's mutual. I can see it in her face and I can hear it in her voice how she feels about me.

We're not in official relationship tho and I'm technically still seeing other girls just to kill time until she brings up the talk of getting serious. Then I might drop all my other links for her

Long story short
Muzmatch is

Hot-and-cold games are an emotionally infantile effort to protect oneself from being harmed. I agree with @Desert Flower. If you do not tell her where you stand, she will never truly know. Clarity is best. At least you'll know where you stand and you can proceed from there.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Hot-and-cold games are an emotionally infantile effort to protect oneself from being harmed. I agree with @Desert Flower. If you do not tell her where you stand, she will never truly know. Clarity is best. At least you'll know where you stand and you can proceed from there.

You're sending this poor man to his death

 

[Sophisticate]

You're sending this man poor man to his death

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
But really, what does he have to lose. When you aren't so attached to the outcome (i.e. their response) you'll be fine. It's not like one has to create a story about their worthiness or be too ego encapsulated in the event they are rejected. Maybe God has different plans.

 

[BobSmoke]

Hot-and-cold games are an emotionally infantile effort to protect oneself from being harmed. I agree with @Desert Flower. If you do not tell her where you stand, she will never truly know. Clarity is best. At least you'll know where you stand and you can proceed from there.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
But really, what does he have to lose. When you aren't so attached to the outcome (i.e. their response) you'll be fine. It's not like one has to create a story about their worthiness or be too ego encapsulated in the event they are rejected. Maybe God has different plans.

I'mma let her know in my own way and then give her space.

If she's not with the program, I'm gonna have to keep her distant.

Being more blunt is definitely not gonna help especially with her. She likes the feeling of being curious and discovering new things and I like to give her something to be curious about and feed her tid bits.