Ummah forum "Being against marrying outside your culture is xaraam and a plot by nationalists"

[Abdalla]

A simple google effort of "Somali Sisters, Ummah Forum" produced a link, and in the first page-thread, all kinds of non-somalis were negatively commenting including one who said Somali girls dress in modest hijab but are bad in private. How does he know? Stranger yet enough some no brainer dude relates how some Somali idiot told him he is okay with non-somalis marrying Somali women from his family but not allowing those same women to marry a Somali tribe different from his.

You took this topic personal and you should not. You also confuse two issues, one larger than the other. The kinship Somalis feel towards each other, and the choices some young and adult Somali females make for themselves, to which most Somalis disagree with because of how they see themselves as better and for each other. Many ethnic groups and races see themselves that way, so Somalis are not alone.

By all means, any woman who wants to marry a non-Muslim, a Muslim, that is her prerogative. One thing that same woman can not question is the right of Somalis to despise such marriages. Or that same woman going around and maligning Somalis for her choice no one else approves of.


You can read the comments below here.


http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?242715-Calling-Out-to-All-Somalis

kkkkkk what a sad, sad thread. The Somalis in that thread were spineless as f*ck.

ehhh quick tip for revert brothers, due to many more practicing somali sisters and so many men being out of their tree on qat, somali communties tend to be much more open to allowing their daughters to marry non somalis.

SMH

 

[Burhan]

That thread is filled with posts ranging from mild back-handed compliments to straight up insults. And here is me thinking the Somali-bashing was a relatively new phenomenon. Waa wax dhintay.

And in 2009 era too hahaha. We are the favorite -go-to people for insults for whatever reason. When trump went to one of those states in America during campaigning, he brought up Somalis and how bad they are to the cheers of his deplorables. His adminstration will be making Somalis an example of what they promised and delivered. We are easy targets for everybody.

 

[Bonjour]

It is his right as a Muslim. Somalis also marry second, third and fourth wives too. The more the merrier!

Kkkkk true, how else will they increase the ummah.
Go forth and multiply

 

[Ferrari]

Exactly. These guys are forgetting that fathers are somehow not allowed to look out for the best interests of their kids. Would you wanna risk the high possibility that your daughter would end up divorced with children? The xayawaan foreigners who marry Somali girls and divorce them at a whim can just move on with his life and never really have to see her again. But the girl's family is gonna be the ones who have to pick up the pieces and try to help her get back on her feet.

You are 100% right! As a father you have to know that her mistakes will also effect you just as it will effect her so why not do yourself a favor and make sure you don't say yes to shady reverts? Afterall, if the father says no, that marriage will not happen. It is so sad how a grown ass man can overlook these simple facts.

 

[Prince of Lasanod]

@Amun

How do you feel about this?