Underage Marriage

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

No I'm not deceiving I just haven't mention it because I'm still thinking about it. I will tell her when I make a decision.

Translation: You will tell her when you think she is too old to find another man.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Exactly this, I hope these two users are as vocal about their opinions in real life as they are on this forum. It’s a shame majority of men are cowards and would rather lie to women and then switch up years down the line wasting everyone’s time. If you want to do polygamy say it straight up instead of being deceitful and wasting everyone’s time.

I have grown to respect openly polygamous men, and I wish their marriages much happiness. Because the opposite of them is intolerable.

I cannot stomach these cowardly munaafaqs, who waste women's lives and rob them from the opportunity to experience true marriages.

 

[rin]

I don't even think these creepy men, would want their creepy friends with their daughters.
They have one rule for other people's daughters, and another rule for their own daughters.

this is a very common male mental illness. they have fornicate with women but want a pure and chaste wife, they party but want their wife to stay at home, they study but dont want an educated wife. also fathers telling their daughters to beware of males while having been the same type of man in their youth. i despise these hypocrites.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Look at all those polygamous tv shows. There are plenty of women who don't care about sharing. It's truly nauseating seeing this deception play out in real life, and the miskeen wives are sitting around, unaware of their husband's scheming behind their backs.

These wives are probably thinking about retirement plans and what they will do with the family's disposable income when the children are out of the house. Meanwhile, the loser oo qooqan, will take that money and spend it on another woman and set of children. This is the reward she gets for being a dutiful wife for decades.

Someone try to convince me that Islam permits long-cons. This is nothing more than extreme khiyaano.

 

[Nur_]

This is what you don't get! That kid in 10 years will say he was glad his dad had him even though he was too old. Exist with perfect circumstances or don't exists at all?

This makes zero logical sense. You can have that same kid, just do it earlier. At a reasonable time. This is the same as saying "My child will be grateful I brought them into the world but let them die of hunger age 4 because I didn't provide food"

 

[Devilsadvocate]

I have grown to respect openly polygamous men, and I wish their marriages much happiness. Because the opposite of them is intolerable.

I cannot stomach these cowardly munaafaqs, who waste women's lives and rob them from the opportunity to experience true marriages.

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[rin]

the loser oo qooqan, will take that money and spend it on another woman and set of children. This is the reward she gets for being a dutiful wife for decades.

one bigger problem is that most of the idiots deceiving their wives aren't even wealthy enough to take care of their second wives and treat them more like sex pit-stops. I read a report of wealthy Somali men marrying in Kenya and Somalia abandoning their second wives and only visiting them on trips to those countries leading them to fend for themselves. this is a big issue of women's rights.

 

[Nur_]

You are too kind and also new to the forum I think. Yusuf doesn't care about women, he sees women as a tool for his pleasure and a source of life. He sees his spawn as an extension of himself, so he wants to populate the world with mini-me's. Of course, because he thinks he's so special and that the world needs more of it.

I just feel bad for the poor woman who birthed him, the one who married him, and the ones who have to call him 'Aabbo'.

I'm rather new sis. I think I've been here for about 3 weeks? I'm not too sure what the lore is here. Thank you for letting me know. I need to read through the thread properly before talking to people.

 

[Nur_]

this is a very common male mental illness. they have fornicate with women but want a pure and chaste wife, they party but want their wife to stay at home, they study but dont want an educated wife. also fathers telling their daughters to beware of males while having been the same type of man in their youth. i despise these hypocrites.

This shocked me. I hear some friends tell me about their dad's youth. Their fathers were everything they do not want near their daughters. The irony is they would still behave the same way, just not towards their beloved daughter. Only another's.

 

[Nur_]

one bigger problem is that most of the idiots deceiving their wives aren't even wealthy enough to take care of their second wives and treat them more like sex pit-stops. I read a report of wealthy Somali men marrying in Kenya and Somalia abandoning their second wives and only visiting them on trips to those countries leading them to fend for themselves. this is a big issue of women's rights.

Exactly. In the west at least, having two wives on one salary is impossible. You cannot provide a good life for either. If you were to marry a 2nd wife back home (I.e somalia, kenya) then you may be able to provide for your children financially but how do you raise them? You don't live with them. You hardly call them. You can't call yourself a father that way.

 

[_Yusuf_]

Translation: You will tell her when you think she is too old to find another man.

Now you reverted to reaching! Take what I said at face value. thanks!

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

one bigger problem is that most of the idiots deceiving their wives aren't even wealthy enough to take care of their second wives and treat them more like sex pit-stops. I read a report of wealthy Somali men marrying in Kenya and Somalia abandoning their second wives and only visiting them on trips to those countries leading them to fend for themselves. this is a big issue of women's rights.

My heart breaks for our sisters in Kenya, demonic saqajaans ruin lives wherever they go. But of course, think they are so righteous and dignified.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Now you reverted to reaching! Take what I said at face value. thanks!

You know exactly what you are doing to your wife. I don't know how people like you sleep at night.

I just wish she could see what we see on here.

 

[_Yusuf_]

𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒​

Wow you just character assassinated me

 

[rin]

Exactly. In the west at least, having two wives on one salary is impossible. You cannot provide a good life for either. If you were to marry a 2nd wife back home (I.e somalia, kenya) then you may be able to provide for your children financially but how do you raise them? You don't live with them. You hardly call them. You can't call yourself a father that way.

also, it's truly unfair to leave one wife in a very impoverished and unstable country while another will have the standard of living of the west. You are basically condemning some of your children to poverty and a worse education.

 

[Nur_]

also, it's truly unfair to leave one wife in a very impoverished and unstable country while another will have the standard of living of the west. You are basically condemning some of your children to poverty and a worse education.

It is also predatory. These poor women only do this for stable income. No sane lady wants a husband that isn't around.

 

[_Yusuf_]

You know exactly what you are doing to your wife. I don't know how people like you sleep at night.

I just wish she could see what we see on here.

What hell are you on about. I take care of here and her and her close family. I do more then what is required of me and all I want is to maybe remarry in the future. That doesn't make me Satan.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

What hell are you on about. I take care of here and her and her close family. I do more then what is required of me and all I want is to maybe remarry in the future. That doesn't make me Satan.

You are a deceiver who has always known about his views and polygamous nature. And you've also, of course, told yourself you are a 'good man'.

I pray that she finds true happiness in this life and the next, for enduring you.

 

[_Yusuf_]

You are a deceiver who has always known about his views and polygamous nature. And you've also, of course, told yourself you are a 'good man'.

I pray that she finds true happiness in this life and the next, for enduring you.

I like to think I'm a good man, although that is for my creator to deicide