Being nationalistic is not kufr because prophet Mohamed(pUH) cried on eve that he was fleeing Mecca and said it was most beloved place to himVery true, Me and @Kaafiye preach this all the time and we get hate for it in return. For me to preach for Somalis in the west to marry eachother, support eachother and work as a unit & network etc, is somehow considered kufr nationalistic, racist or women hating. For unexplained reasons.
Its seems many Somalis are rather contempt with being poor ,underachieving and exploited by foreigners since it service their individualist mindsets.