Somali women are spoilt. We let you go to weddings 3am at night, we don't stop you from having jobs, we don't stop you having a car to drive, we don't make you cook food for your in laws, we don't stop you seeing your parents, we don't stop you having friends over etc just take one look at how Arab and Asian men treat their women or how Cadaans are so mistrusting of their partners, you should be grateful. Even in divorce we give you space, ninka Cadaanka will probably cut his property into half just to keep his possessions and in other communities you will be practically seen as a Midgaan if you're divorced.