Wallahi this is not normal behavior

[Angelina]

I know a lot of people are gonna hate hearing this, but we need to get rid of the rule where you are only Somali if your dad is. Dhaqanka iyo afka waxaad ka barataa hooyodaa. Most kids you see with Somali fathers and ajanabi mothers tend to be a lot close to the mother’s culture and forget about the fathers. Lineage is one thing but ethnicity is another.

I also noticed how these trolls go way too far. Making it seem like being Somali is ticket to jannah. They are too extreme whether that is harassing mix kids or being extremely racist to ajanabis when they make playful jokes against us(not saying that sometimes it is not justified).

The issue isn’t the rule, the issue is that these men are incels who are using a teenage boy as their punching bag and cautionary tale for young Somali women as some sort of threat of ‘if you don’t marry us and toe the line, we will dehumanize your offspring’. They also like to insinuate that these kids are bastards despite their parents being both Muslim and married Authobillah.

Even if you don’t think he is Somali, he still has Somali Reer Abti, he still has a Somali mother and mentioning it doesn’t mean he is fully Somali or that Somalis have to claim him whole sale, it is simply a biological fact, half of his family are Somali and nothing they can do can take that away nor can they hide behind the deen which they love to do. Bilal Al-Habeshi wasn’t even Habeshi, he had an Arab father but the Prophet s.a.w and the people around Bilal simply acknowledged his Habesha roots and these incels freaks of nature don’t even want people to acknowledge their own mothers. This isn’t Somali culture, this isn’t the deen, this is their own personal incel hang ups they’re inflicting on all of us.

Somalis have never had a rule that one can’t acknowledge their Reer Abtis even if someone is not seen as what their mother is. We have whole tribes called Habr so and so in reference to origin of mothers ect. What these incels are doing is Dhulm and an extreme version of Somali traditionalism and deen.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Wallahi it's insane. This phenomenon only exists online. I've some half-somalis family members and they have never witnessed this behaviour in real life. Let the niggas seethe. hope this kid will be successful so that his hooyo can live a luxury life while these niggas need to work for their entire life

Sadly they do it in real life too.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Whilst Somali women work hard to sell a positive image of Somalis online, there are a large and loud group of disgusting men who make enemies for us wherever we turn.

Walahi I am so sick of them.

When will see Somali men police other Somali men????

 

[Abu Hesi]

No need to claim him, he is Algerian.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

I don’t think somalis should attribute their weird mateguarding tactics to somali culture. This is just radicalized incels.

They’ve definitely been radicalized online especially tiktok

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I don’t think somalis should attribute their weird mateguarding tactics to somali culture. This is just radicalized incels.

They do it in real life to mixed Somalis with Somali mothers. This is the culture of these animals and I am sick of it. We are always shoveling their shit away from our name and flag but they have extreme diarhhoea of the mouth.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

They’ve definitely been radicalized online especially tiktok

Nope

They do it in real life and it is not a recent thing. All these ugly behaviours are passed on clearly. It does not exist in a vacuum online. Somali men, time to start being honest and hold your nasty friends and relatives accountable.

 

[Crook]

Sadly they do it in real life too.

Damn waxay jaabinayan niyadda ilmaha so sad wallahi

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Every video of qof oo Soomaalida amaana ama qof iska dhal ah, comment sectionkiisa waxaa fadhiya these shaytaans. Somalia and diaspora alike. Well done for ruining our reputation and country.

And the Somali men who are normal, are not doing a good job to counter the narrative. We all suffer from your evil actions and laziness in countering the hate.

 

[Abu Hesi]

That’s a lower division team not the EPL. Btw, the first Somali player in the EPL was Abdisalan

I remember him, he was supposed to be the next Patrick Vieira.

 

[crem]

They do it in real life to mixed Somalis with Somali mothers. This is the culture of these animals and I am sick of it. We are always shoveling their shit away from our name and flag but they have extreme diarhhoea of the mouth.

I feel like its some kind of ego boost for them.

 

[World]

Even if you agree with the premise that you aint a Somali without a Somali father, can't you just believe in that without spamming over social media whenever you encounter a mixed Somali?

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Damn waxay jaabinayan niyadda ilmaha so sad wallahi

The sooner we tell the truth, the better. I refuse to make excuses anymore. I cannot tell you how many hateful comments I see online targeted at a random ajnabi or half Somali who is just being friendly.

We suffer from a monstrous men culture.

 

[Varriris]

Whilst Somali women work hard to sell a positive image of Somalis online, there are a large and loud group of disgusting men who make enemies for us wherever we turn.

Walahi I am so sick of them.

When will see Somali men police other Somali men????

I think community leaders will do the opposite. I expect more of them to come out to address the ’problem’ of somali women marrying out. There is an entire demographic of male fobs who don’t have anyone to mate with and the fob girls marrying out and being visible online is driving them nuts. People like Jiheeye and certain sheikhs are adding fuel to the fire and justifying their envy.

I was watching a video of Sacid Rage the other day where he was talkign about a somali girl marrying an ajanabi for 0.25 cents (literally) and then after being divorced try to marry her clanmember but demanded 25k dollars, this is obvs a made up story but the crowd bought it. All of this breeds envy and allows these men to feel like their anger towards somali women is righteous, they are indeed being wronged by ’unfair standards’.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

Nope

They do it in real life and it is not a recent thing. All these ugly behaviours are passed on clearly. It does not exist in a vacuum online. Somali men, time to start being honest and hold your nasty friends and relatives accountable.

None of my friends would do something like this and harass young teens online like this I have half Somali friends we don’t treat them any different

 

[Devilsadvocate]

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[AppleCrumble]

I think community leaders will do the opposite. I expect more of them to come out to address the ’problem’ of somali women marrying out. There is an entire demographic of male fobs who don’t have anyone to mate with and the fob girls marrying out and being visible online is driving them nuts. People like Jiheeye and certain sheikhs are adding fuel to the fire and justifying their envy.

I was watching a video of Sacid Rage the other day where he was talkign about a somali girl marrying an ajanabi for 0.25 cents (literally) and then after being divorced try to marry her clanmember but demanded 25k dollars, this is obvs a made up story but the crowd bought it. All of this breeds envy and allows these men to feel like their anger towards somali women is righteous, they are indeed being wronged by ’unfair standards’.

Do you want to hear the irony? He himself married out

 

[Varriris]

Do you want to hear the irony? He himself married out

I know sis he’s a mad man.

 

[Grimmer]

The only thing this will lead to is women doing the opposite- I don't think these fobs can grasp the concept of the more you restrict something, the more people rebel/ run towards it, basic human psychology

I’m so glad I don’t run into these type of people in real life. It would be so awkward because they’ll assume I’ll agree with them.

 

[Angelina]

Whilst Somali women work hard to sell a positive image of Somalis online, there are a large and loud group of disgusting men who make enemies for us wherever we turn.

Walahi I am so sick of them.

When will see Somali men police other Somali men????

They won’t since many deep down see the existence of mixed kids of Somali women as a threat to their masculinity. This is what this stems from, male entitlement and the archaic thinking of women as property and the existence of a mixed child from the womb of a Somali mother is a calamity for many of these fobs, even the ones who have too much pride to bully the kid. That’s why they’re silent.

That is why I’m repulsed, the idea of women being objects that are won and conquered sickens me and this is what the obsession of mixed marriages is all about. I a woman who believes in women’s personhood and autonomy can never get behind Somalis paranoia of mixed unions, because this is thinking behind it. At its core, it’s deeply misogynistic.