We should stop hating on Somali men foreal

I can't BELIEVE I'm saying this, but wallahi I cringe whenever I see Somali sisters bashing Somali men left, right, and center. I'm guilty of doing this in the past and I regret the comments I've made. I won't lie it stemmed from low self-esteem and having bad dating/talking stages with Somali guys. We are becoming a laughing stock among ajanabis now. You never be seeing Cadaan or asian women dragging their men all across social media like that. wtf is happening to the black/african community we look like crazy femcels hating on our own men. These gender wars gotta stop! And I'm even more disappointed 30 + year old somali ladies married to faraxs participating in these things when they are sleeping next to a Somali man every night. A total joke. I'm prepared to be called a pick me for this, but at the end of the day it's called growth and I'm becoming more mature now.The only men that will ever love us the most and be there for us is Somali men at the end of the day (IM CRINGING TYPING THIS!!) cause we share the same ethnicity and culture. Even though I'm open to marrying any Muslim man I know damn well a Pakistani man will never place me above Pakistani women. This is food for thought. And also Somali men gotta stop shitting on their own women online. These ajanabi women still make fun of y'all and your features. Let's do better as people.
 
Ajanabis do not like us Somalis I'm serious. I was speechless when I heard the things they say about us saying our men treat us bad and that we are obsessed with islam and wahabi this and that. I recently learned that Somali sisters are being married off to converts in the U.K. and they are being mistreated. Somali parents need to start get involved more and doing match making services to connect Somalis. This has to stop.
 

exposedmeat

i do it anyway i like
they can't that's part of their personality if they get rid of that they'll basically be left with ''seeking validation from others'' plus that's what fuels these pathetic gender wars
 
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Baarisiyomoos

buuq iyo balaayo 🫧
I agree completely. We shouldn’t involve ajnabi people in our inter gender conflicts because it makes us look like we don’t respect each other, and by consequence, ourselves. We can disagree and argue at times but we should NEVER air out our problems to non somalis, it makes us look weak.

It’s kinda how the joke about somali women being viewed as “cheap and clean” and just about anyone can move to us started. I know I’m not with a Somali guy, but even I can acknowledge that it’s overall favorable and easier to stick with your own ethnicity, if it doesn’t work that way it’s not such a big deal, though.

I disagree with East Asian women not slandering their men though, most of them marry whites and there was some East Asian comedian making jokes about their d*** size :ileycry:

Also the whole “somali women/men marrying ajnabis/reverts” thing isnt as common, and most of us do marry other somalis. It’s just that when it happens it’s a big scandal or a big deal so everyone talks about it. Out of all the somalis in my city that my family knows (a lot), only 2 of them married ajnabis.
 
I love Somali men. We are so lucky to have them, I love everything about them. I know they have their issues (many) but who doesn’t right? From now on I’m team Somali men.....❤️
 
I agree completely. We shouldn’t involve ajnabi people in our inter gender conflicts because it makes us look like we don’t respect each other, and by consequence, ourselves. We can disagree and argue at times but we should NEVER air out our problems to non somalis, it makes us look weak.

It’s kinda how the joke about somali women being viewed as “cheap and clean” and just about anyone can move to us started. I know I’m not with a Somali guy, but even I can acknowledge that it’s overall favorable and easier to stick with your own ethnicity, if it doesn’t work that way it’s not such a big deal, though.

I disagree with East Asian women not slandering their men though, most of them marry whites and there was some East Asian comedian making jokes about their d*** size :ileycry:

Also the whole “somali women/men marrying ajnabis/reverts” thing isnt as common, and most of us do marry other somalis. It’s just that when it happens it’s a big scandal or a big deal so everyone talks about it. Out of all the somalis in my city that my family knows (a lot), only 2 of them married ajnabis.
I definitely agree with you. One thing you’ll never see me do is bash Somali men around non Somalis. It’s honestly weird and it’s not even funny.
 

Baarisiyomoos

buuq iyo balaayo 🫧
I definitely agree with you. One thing you’ll never see me do is bash Somali men around non Somalis. It’s honestly weird and it’s not even funny.
Me neither. What good do I gain from that. Inadvertently making fun of my father, brother, cousins, uncles, etc., making us all look bad in front of non somalis who already aren’t too fond of us. So stupid lol
 
I agree completely. We shouldn’t involve ajnabi people in our inter gender conflicts because it makes us look like we don’t respect each other, and by consequence, ourselves. We can disagree and argue at times but we should NEVER air out our problems to non somalis, it makes us look weak.

It’s kinda how the joke about somali women being viewed as “cheap and clean” and just about anyone can move to us started. I know I’m not with a Somali guy, but even I can acknowledge that it’s overall favorable and easier to stick with your own ethnicity, if it doesn’t work that way it’s not such a big deal, though.

I disagree with East Asian women not slandering their men though, most of them marry whites and there was some East Asian comedian making jokes about their d*** size :ileycry:

Also the whole “somali women/men marrying ajnabis/reverts” thing isnt as common, and most of us do marry other somalis. It’s just that when it happens it’s a big scandal or a big deal so everyone talks about it. Out of all the somalis in my city that my family knows (a lot), only 2 of them married ajnabis.

Yeah these gender wars are seeping into mainstream social media and other communities are seeing and even taking part in Somali men/women bashing. It's such an ugly look. Yeah that's what I mean they are still our men. I just think a lot of Somali women unfortunately have been hurt by their fathers and they project it onto the rest of the community. Therapy needs to be promoted more. I heard uk people tell me this that they have mosques and marry reverts off to Somalis I have no clue if there is any truth to this lol
 
they can't that's part of their personality if they get rid of that they'll basically be left with ''seeking validation from'' plus that's what fuels these pathetic gender wars

They will call us pickmeishas if we say anything that goes against what some of the sisters say. I've seen this first hand. That word is being misused to the max. A pick me in my eyes is a lady that sits quietly and defends problematic views, but calling out toxicity is pick me behaviour?? Make it make sense
 
Ajanabis do not like us Somalis I'm serious. I was speechless when I heard the things they say about us saying our men treat us bad and that we are obsessed with islam and wahabi this and that. I recently learned that Somali sisters are being married off to converts in the U.K. and they are being mistreated. Somali parents need to start get involved more and doing match making services to connect Somalis. This has to stop.
If you’re from the U.K. just go Brixton, you’ll see Somali women with Jamaican revert men. Eww even the white reverts creep me out , I remember once there were three reverts who wouldn’t leave me and my sister alone. Two were black and one was white.. they were handing out those leaflets about Islam on the street. One of them approached me and asked for my fathers number I was like no thanks not interested , the other revert proceeded to boast about having a “Somali wife” i was like ok? I kept moving to the side so I could leave but they both kept following me .The third revert kept trying to go near my sister and ask her stuff too. I had to get aggressive and say leave us alone! Because they were trying to follow us home. That same day I saw a Somali women with a ginger white revert and a bunch of kids trailing behind her 🙃
 
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Yeah these gender wars are seeping into mainstream social media and other communities are seeing and even taking part in Somali men/women bashing. It's such an ugly look. Yeah that's what I mean they are still our men. I just think a lot of Somali women unfortunately have been hurt by their fathers and they project it onto the rest of the community. Therapy needs to be promoted more. I heard uk people tell me this that they have mosques and marry reverts off to Somalis I have no clue if there is any truth to this lol
I’m from U.K. unfortunately it’s true. The mosque is called Brixton mosque 🕌 in south London. I’ve been there , there are many Pervy reverts searching for Somali women.
 
You never be seeing Cadaan or asian women dragging their men all across social media like that. wtf is happening to the black/african community we look like crazy femcels hating on our own men.
Asian women are far worse than Xalimo's when it comes to bashing men of their race :mjlol:



Also, there is no such thing as a femcel unless she is a level 1 or 2 in looks.
 

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