I can't BELIEVE I'm saying this, but wallahi I cringe whenever I see Somali sisters bashing Somali men left, right, and center. I'm guilty of doing this in the past and I regret the comments I've made. I won't lie it stemmed from low self-esteem and having bad dating/talking stages with Somali guys. We are becoming a laughing stock among ajanabis now. You never be seeing Cadaan or asian women dragging their men all across social media like that. wtf is happening to the black/african community we look like crazy femcels hating on our own men. These gender wars gotta stop! And I'm even more disappointed 30 + year old somali ladies married to faraxs participating in these things when they are sleeping next to a Somali man every night. A total joke. I'm prepared to be called a pick me for this, but at the end of the day it's called growth and I'm becoming more mature now.The only men that will ever love us the most and be there for us is Somali men at the end of the day (IM CRINGING TYPING THIS!!) cause we share the same ethnicity and culture. Even though I'm open to marrying any Muslim man I know damn well a Pakistani man will never place me above Pakistani women. This is food for thought. And also Somali men gotta stop shitting on their own women online. These ajanabi women still make fun of y'all and your features. Let's do better as people.