What are you guys looking for in a spouse?

[Lostbox]

Nice list but what do you bring to the table?

They provide a partner, encouragement end support, some you can talk to, a companion for the good and bad times. Someone you can laugh with and all the other bullshit.

The worst one are so useless. They think all they need are their existence and their hole, couldn't get more self-absorbed

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

you’re BALD how old are you sir

I’m not just got a big forehead

everytime I pull up my hair it shows how f*cked my hairline is

but when I get a cut and line up you know im stutinn

 

[inflorescence]

Great list wallahi I hate socially awkward niggas that can’t form a sentence it’s one thing to be quiet and mysterious it’s another thing to have no charm. Unattractive.

True.. Though I dont like mysterious people. They’ll make me go into overthinker mode with me trying to decode their motivations

 

[pirater]

It is really important for me to marry outside my clan, Don't want to date my cousin

so Rahanweyn and Hawiye Queens where ya at

 

[Xaruun]

12. Buys me flowers randomly

Why?

 

[pirater]

These are good criterias usually a lot of tall men I see prefer shorter women so that’s interesting

short women are so tiny. Like you were that height as a child. They look like children. I want her to be tall enough for me not to break my neck but still able to wear high heels if she wants with me. so 5'10 - 6ft is a great height. And taller women are just superior and gorgeous

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

you’re BALD how old are you sir

I’m 14 I’m not balding

 

[inflorescence]

They hating on me uff

watch out for the people who think your list is unreasonable. They’ll be all up in your thread urging you to accept guys who dont fit into your list at all

 

[BobSmoke]

Both physical and personality traits. What I’m looking for in a man is :

1. On his deen
2. At least 4 inches taller than me or more (I’m 5’5 so at least 5’9)
3. Smart and likes to read books
4. Good with kids
5. Strong but gentle
6. Humble and kind to others
7. Not balding
8. Can dress well
9. Has a good relationship with family
10. Isn’t misogynistic
11. Can build things with his hands
12. Buys me flowers randomly
13. Is my age or older, but not by more than 5 years. If he’s younger than me I don’t want him rah!
14. Nice teeth
15. Quiet and secretive yet firm and isn’t a pushover, is a leader

If you fit most of this criteria call me what do you guys look for in a spouse?

Hard to obtain such a man unless you are more charming than a mf.


My list: minimum requirement

Originality in her ways
Makes up her own mind without needing her friends approval.
Easy to vibe with but hard to get
Open and vulnerable with me
Introverted for the most part
Empath
Got dreams and ambition
Gotta be atleast decent looking in the face
Good spirit about her.
No track record from the streets

It may not seem much but it's a tough list.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

True.. Though I dont like mysterious people. They’ll make me go into overthinker mode with me trying to decode their motivations

I love a good puzzle

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

I’m 14 I’m not balding

My bad!

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Hard to obtain such a man unless you are more charming than a mf.


My list: minimum requirement

Originality in her ways
Makes up her own mind without needing her friends approval.
Easy to vibe with but hard to get
Open and vulnerable with me
Introverted for the most part
Empath
Got dreams and ambition
Gotta be atleast decent looking in the face
Good spirit about her.
No track record from the streets

It may not seem much but it's a tough list.

My list isn’t even that hard most of it is personality traits and the rest is don’t be bald, have nice teeth and be taller than me by a bit is that too much to ask for??

 

[Celery]

Personality — not argumentative or fighting about everything. Stable. Not up and down and moody. Basically well mannered.

looks —fair skinned and average face without makeup. On thicker side but not fat. 5”8 to 6”00.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

watch out for the people who think your list is unreasonable. They’ll be all up in your thread urging you to accept guys who dont fit into your list at all

You’re so right cause my list isn’t even that extensive I’ll find a man like this don’t worry

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Why?

Because I love romanticism

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

You’re so right cause my list isn’t even that extensive I’ll find a man like this don’t worry

Oh you are a girl

my bad thought u was a boy

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Personality — not argumentative or fighting about everything. Stable. Not up and down and moody. Basically well mannered.

looks —fair skinned and average face without makeup. On thicker side but not fat. 5”8 to 6”00.

Great list

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Oh you are a girl

my bad thought u was a boy

You read my list and you thought I was a man?

 

[inflorescence]

You’re so right cause my list isn’t even that extensive I’ll find a man like this don’t worry

Man literally said your list was difficult yet he said he was looking for an empath. Thats such a rare trait

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Man literally said your list was difficult yet he said he was looking for an empath. Thats such a rare trait

We can’t have standards according to some of them but they can ask for whatever they want It’s not fair