What vibe do somalispot users give off

No, do not believe you; you are a natural flirt, mate, have the skill to chat up the ladies, and could see you shooting the breeze with canab & yasmeen.
Are we talking about the same @Javelin? That kid ain’t a flirt. In fact he gives me arranged marriage vibe.

I also imagine him spending most his time during the weekends at the local mosque learning about Hanafi fiqh. He gives me student of knowledge but laid back and isn’t over zealous vibe.

So Yh, he’s too much of an Akhi to flirt. Arranged marriage it is or the famous β€˜can I get your fathers number Ukhti’ looool.
 
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Sorry mate, we did not mean to leave you out. Here is you in your 'Hello ladies, come to papa, I know my way to a lady's heart. How you dooooing'.
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I believe the ladies and I would disagree with your assessment, but in real life it’s.

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appreciate the love bruh.
I haven't spoken to a woman for months now just focusing on my grind.
Women are a waste of time at the moment for me.
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I think debating/discussing important issues concerning our society and humanity at large is important.

but the idea of making friendships with females and conversing over bs, while their actual crush in real life are either too busy or disinterested in their shenanigans.

I find that to be disrespectful to one’s own manhood, with the exception, a girl taking a serious interest in you or if she reminds of of a female relative.
 
OP gives me aristocratic Victorian gentleman vibes. The way he articulates himself is very β€˜proper’ and rather old fashioned.

@malab I can imagine her going for a pumpkin spice latte with her blonde boyfriend. I also imagine her to be beautiful. That’s the vibes she gives off.

@Sophisticate gives me well.. sophisticated and classy vibes. Rather bookish as well.

@Audrey Hepburn Gives me witty and confident vibes. Oozes class as well and a voice of reason on this forum.

@El Nino and @Keep it a boqol give me typical Somali boys vibe. Like the types I grew up with. Funny, laid back and confident. Basically normal Somali guys.
 
Natural flirt? How so do I actually come across like that
Mate, here is what I am referring to: the way you connect with the ladies, draw them into your sphere, gain their confidence, subtly charm, and even manage to invite them into your DM, that takes some skill. Did you notice how most young men here have not got a clue as to how best engage the ladies, mostly arguing for no reason, cussing and cursing insofar as some even in threatening, if peacocky posture. You may not recognise it yet, but you do have a way with the ladies. Explore it.
I really haven't courted anyone for months I might start if things go according to plan in a few months time.
What are you busy with?
 
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Are we talking about the same @Javelin? That kid ain’t a flirt. In fact he gives me arranged marriage vibe.

I also imagine him spending most his time during the weekends at the local mosque learning about Hanafi fiqh. He gives me student of knowledge but laid back and isn’t over zealous vibe.

So Yh, he’s too much of an Akhi to flirt. Arranged marriage it is or the famous β€˜can I get your fathers number Ukhti’ looool.
I'm not hanafi πŸ˜‚

And this is unironically a more accurate description of me minus the arranged marriage :dead:
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I think debating/discussing important issues concerning our society and humanity at large is important.

but the idea of making friendships with females and conversing over bs, while their actual crush in real life are either too busy or disinterested in their shenanigans.

I find that to be disrespectful to one’s own manhood, with the exception, a girl taking a serious interest in you or if she reminds of of a female relative.
No I just in general don't talk to women in informal settings of my own volition (excluding sspot) and I definitely don't believe in friendships between men and women. The only time I do talk to women informally is if I'm trying to court them and right now im not because i know it will be a distraction but if needed I can be really charming and chat up a lass. I don't see myself above flirting it comes naturally if your smooth with it but I definitely do not do that on sspot @π’‹π’–π’†π’”π’–π’•π’ˆ :drakewtf:
 
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Natural flirt? How so do I actually come across like that :farmajoyaab:

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Canab??? She's the archetype of woman that I dislike the most I don't even interact with her and yasmeen is a divestor gaal as far as I'm aware regardless I dont chat the ladies up πŸ’€ (Anyways sspoters don't count)

I really haven't courted anyone for months I might start if things go according to plan in a few months time.
Canab disappeared lol
 
Mate, here is what I am referring to: the way you connect with the ladies, draw them into your sphere, gain their confidence, subtly charm, and even manage to invite them into your DM, that takes some skill. Did you notice how most young men here have not got a clue as to how best engage the ladies, mostly arguing for no reason, cussing and cursing insofar as some even in threatening, if peacocky posture. You may not recognise it yet, but you do have a way with the ladies. Explore it.
Most of the guys on here are retarded/weirdos and are bitter probably because they lack confidence/low self esteem or just trolls πŸ’€
If most of them dropped the bitterness they would do fine.

I just engage when I'm approached its not hard to be charming especially if you already know that they like you.
I don't even approach women. 80% of women I have courted approached me. I just don't entertain it anymore currently just focusing on myself at the moment aswell as future projects and plans.

What are you busy with?

Working and studying mainly, teaching, gym, gaming (recently just got back into that) and I just came back a few days ago from traveling.
 
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hinters

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Everybody on Somalispot are the outcasts and weirdos of the Somali community, normal Somali people who are also sspot users don't exist, so everybody gives off weird vibes.
 

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Keep it a boqol

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@Keep it a boqol and @Bari🐍 and @Man with a garuun give incel vibes. Those three are well know incels.
OP gives me aristocratic Victorian gentleman vibes. The way he articulates himself is very β€˜proper’ and rather old fashioned.

@malab I can imagine her going for a pumpkin spice latte with her blonde boyfriend. I also imagine her to be beautiful. That’s the vibes she gives off.

@Sophisticate gives me well.. sophisticated and classy vibes. Rather bookish as well.

@Audrey Hepburn Gives me witty and confident vibes. Oozes class as well and a voice of reason on this forum.

@El Nino and @Keep it a boqol give me typical Somali boys vibe. Like the types I grew up with. Funny, laid back and confident. Basically normal Somali guys.
it’s funny that the forums β€œmost misandrist male hating feminist β€œ @Angelina is defending me. According to @malab#2 and @HabarSteven12 im a balding incel πŸ˜‚
 

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