When your parents grow old, will they move in with you?

Your home or retirement home?

  • My home, but not if my spouse disagrees

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • My home, only if I have kids that they can look after

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
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NaomiHoney

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I'd dedicate my life into becoming a full time carer for my parents if need be.
 

Axmed Xaji

Your non-biological father
I would get my adult kids, especially daughters to take care of them. I'd go see them once a week. Would be nice to have an ugly daughter that no one would marry so she could take care of my parents.
 
My mother asked me this very question
A few weeks ago, I told her of course
She could live with me, when she
Gets old.

She heard about people dumping their
Parents in old people homes.

This one guy, she said put his mother
in one, and refused other extended
family members, who wanted her
to live with them.

Sick wallahi, it seems like his
punishing her.
 

VixR

Veritas
:mjlol:34% of votes are emotionally unintelligent and irrational. Your spouse has to agree. Haye, drink to one hell of an eventful life!
 

EternalLightX

Queen of the light
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My own mother yes hell no to my husbands mother that would be awkward as hell, it would lead to divorce !!! Tbh most elderly move back to Somalia nobody stays here until 90 :/
 

VixR

Veritas
If my spouse doesn't agree then he has hit the road, my parents comes first.
Hayay! What happened to compromise? This dispensable my way or the highway attitude is just wrong! The ppl who voted that might as well not get married. You spouse should not be in competition with your parents and vice versa. They're not even in the same league.
 

Gibiin-Udug

Crowned Queen of Puntland. Supporter of PuntExit
Hayay! What happened to compromise? This dispensable my way or the highway attitude is just wrong! The ppl who voted that might as well not get married. You spouse should not be in competition with your parents and vice versa. They're not even in the same league.
I'm not comprising. My parents comes first even when it comes to my own life, spouses are disposal, parents irreplaceable.
 

VixR

Veritas
I'm not comprising. My parents comes first even when it comes to my own life, spouses are disposal, parents irreplaceable.
I get it, it's inherently true that parents are blood and bones, but disposability isn't the mindset for marriage, or its doomed from the start. It's a spouse and the possible parent to your child, not a boyfriend/girlfriend. The two should not be in conflict for your affection and care, and unless one or the other are horrible ppl, they won't be. If there's a shitty parent in the picture, its up to the child of that parent to recognize that and smoothe the situation over. If its your spouse that's the problem, you hash it out.
 
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NotMyL

"You are your best thing"
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I'm not comprising. My parents comes first even when it comes to my own life, spouses are disposal, parents irreplaceable.
You got sick mentality, people like you are better of single. Kulaha spouse is disposable, why marry someone who you think so low of
 
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