If yes, would you do the same to your children and do you think it's abuse.
Neither of my parents were beaten as children, except for my father at school by the teacher. My grandfather (AUN) believed it lowers the self esteem of children and makes them more stubborn and wild anyways. My father's side were softies anyways. I'm not having any children but personally I agree with spanking younger kids. I've seen that it's effective on extremely hyper children and in some ways it's better than the stupid western techniques like time out. Older children 10 and should never under any circumstances be hit. In my opinion.
My parents used guilt.
Neither of my parents were beaten as children, except for my father at school by the teacher. My grandfather (AUN) believed it lowers the self esteem of children and makes them more stubborn and wild anyways. My father's side were softies anyways. I'm not having any children but personally I agree with spanking younger kids. I've seen that it's effective on extremely hyper children and in some ways it's better than the stupid western techniques like time out. Older children 10 and should never under any circumstances be hit. In my opinion.
My parents used guilt.