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Consistent indeed, we must be, and anyone accusing you of being a feminist by raising the grooming issue, is someone operating in the dark, and lost as to what grooming entails. To truly understand the grooming issue, one must visit Asia, particularly Thailand, Indonesia etc, where one would see paedophiles, mostly of European older men, who have fallen off the sideways in their native countries, not only grooming young boys and girls, but entire families.Somalis back home don’t understand the concept of grooming, dugsi macaalins back home routinely marry their students, so obviously, Fahima isn’t going to realize she’s being groomed.
What I’m going to say is controversial and I’m not means okay with this, I think it’s disgusting that this ajnabi who was invited to teach took advantage, but the only reason why it’s being seen as a national scandal
Is because he’s ajnabi.
If it was a ducsi macaalin or a Somali teacher and us girls started to talk about ‘grooming’ we’d be called Western Feminists and we’d be given long lectures about how 14 yr olds are allowed to get married Islamically, therefore they’re old enough to not be preyed upon ect.
My point is, let’s be consistent and call a spade a spade.
Not helpful, mate.Its normal for somalilander woman to be obsessing over old bald cadaan men, it stems from the "we are british protectorate" indoctrination by edna & her likes .
Literally, imagine if he was Somali she would rip him to shreds for “abuuze”
This lady is the biggest hypocrite
No she is not. Somali adeer wants you as a nurse and a slave while this guy added to her life. He brought her to america gave her education and probably paid for her rent and schooling here so I can see why she married him. What a catch
This lady is the biggest hypocrite
Sounds rather transactional, does it not? Worldly gains justify all, and nothing else matters. I used to scoff at some elements of the Asian cultures for their predilection of the material world, thinking ours was finer, but it is as if we have sunk to a level even lower than theirs. Or am I pontificating from Eiffel tower?No she is not. Somali adeer wants you as a nurse and a slave while this guy added to her life. He brought her to america gave her education and probably paid for her rent and schooling here so I can see why she married him. What a catch
Sounds rather transactional, does it not? Worldly gains justify all, and nothing else matters. I used to scoff at some elements of the Asian cultures for their predilection of the material world, thinking ours was finer, but it is as if we have sunk to a level even lower than theirs. Or am I pontificating from Eiffel tower?
May we rid poverty of our all!
True, we are conditioned to suspect there being a tale where an anomaly is being detected.His net worth is in the millions, so some women, particularly those who hail from that region, are congratulatory. However, they forget that it is ethically wayward for a Founder of a School which is a pipeline from abject poverty to Ivy League, to marry his former student. Even if he did not groom her like it is alleged, it looks bad, according to optics. However, no one would indeed care if you changed his ethnicity to Somali. I notice cadaan men get the reputation of having a predatorial or sexualizing element to their 'philanthropy' in the developing world. Likely because this frequently happens, but I'm sure it's not always the case. And if this happened in America, where a poor cadaan girl from a working-class background. A little Annie type was privileged to attend a parochial school that granted her access to elite institutions riding a full scholarship and she went from the headmaster’s star student to spouse that people would have something to say. I mean you shouldn’t marry Daddy Warbucks and there is something odd by him going along with it. I suppose people don't care.
True, we are conditioned to suspect there being a tale where an anomaly is being detected.
I have not seen material data to suggest ill-intentions on the part of Mr Starr, and with his family connection to the region, I am hesitant to even remotely presume perversion on his part, not just to his pride, but to other students at his mercy, but I ask myself: would Fahima married Jonathan, had she been of an affluent family, or even residing in a good country?
groomed?
Nothing but a classic case of a girl just getting her bag
A man defending his kin? The good ol' classic, kkk
In all honesty, most people here would have indifferent opinions if it were one of their own chasing the bag
One day will Jonathan Starr become the first gentleman of Somaliland? She appears very politically ambitious and wants to be President in the future. I don't know how receptive they are to female leadership let alone from Reer Joe Starr but they may become progessive. Who knows?
You know what, having just caught clips of her on her twitter, it does not look like she is the foolhardy sort to be groomed. She is a force of nature, and if anything, he might have been a target, as some suggested.I do not agree with slander, either. I think a major concern is her being a former student. She is an adult and can do as she pleases. I do not think she would have married him if she had come from a wealthy background, and it might have proved more challenging if she had been born and raised in the West.
And truth be told, there is a bit of a 'sugar daddy' practice in our culture.Many prefer well-off men and may be able to overlook the hurdle of sizable age gaps or ethnic differences (provided they share the same religious beliefs) in the service of self-interest/ material gain.
You know what, having just caught clips of her on her twitter, it does not look like she is the foolhardy sort to be groomed. She is a force of nature, and if anything, he might have been a target, as some suggested.
And truth be told, there is a bit of a 'sugar daddy' practice in our culture.
It’s always transactional except had she married older Somali guy she would be the one carrying all it most of the baggage. A lot of times in those cases the girl is blatantly being used to his advantage with no regard to her well being. So yes she won so does he. Allah says in the Quran men are the providers and protectors of women for a reason.Sounds rather transactional, does it not? Worldly gains justify all, and nothing else matters. I used to scoff at some elements of the Asian cultures for their predilection of the material world, thinking ours was finer, but it is as if we have sunk to a level even lower than theirs. Or am I pontificating from Eiffel tower?
May we rid poverty of our all!