Who do i choose?

[Sophisticate]

I’m not juggling. I think you should have different options when you date before committing to one.

And that, friends, is why I'm single. I don't have the heart to play doubles. Singles only. How come you don't have oneitis?

 

[Kingjames]

And that, friends, is why I'm single. I don't have the heart to play doubles. Singles only. How come you don't have oneitis?

You can’t just go with the first one you see. You got to explore to find out what’s out there. You should try it out.

 

[Sophisticate]

You can’t just go with the first one you see. You got to explore to find out what’s out there. You should try it out.

I am but a delicate rose with killer thorns. Serial dating isn't for me. Too many options mean too much confusion. Being just a friend is a decent starting point - zero commitment and there are no guarantees it will ever lead to courtship. It allows you to screen/vet too.

 

[Kingjames]

I am but a delicate rose with killer thorns. Serial dating isn't for me. Too many options mean too much confusion. Being just a friend is a decent starting point - zero commitment and there are no guarantees it will ever lead to courtship. It allows you to screen/vet too.

What if when you decide to date that ”friend”, he finds somebody else?

 

[Sophisticate]

What if when you decide to date that ”friend”, he finds somebody else?

There are always risks. The behavior of others can't be controlled but I have sway over my response. All I can hope for is the best. Whatever will be, will be.

 

[Mohsin]

The religious one you are man did you want mother of your kids going clubs aren't you somali what the hell are you

 

[Kingjames]

The religious one you are man did you want mother of your kids going clubs aren't you somali what the hell are you

I’m a “modern” Somali.

 

[Kingjames]

UPDATE: As most of y’all know I met up with #1 on a date today. The date was very good and we had a lot of fun.
When we where going to pay for the food I jokingly said “ Since it’s our fourth date why don’t we split the check?”. She looked at me and said “ woooow I didn’t know you where like that” . Does this girl believe I’m going to pay for everything we do?

Was I disrespectful for asking in the first place?

 

[Zailah]

UPDATE: As most of y’all know I met up with #1 on a date today. The date was very good and we had a lot of fun.
When we where going to pay for the food I jokingly said “ Since it’s our fourth date why don’t we split the check?”. She looked at me and said “ woooow I didn’t know you where like that” . Does this girl believe I’m going to pay for everything we do?

Was I disrespectful for asking in the first place?

Whose idea was it for the 4th date

 

[Kingjames]

Whose idea was it for the 4th date

She texted me and asked to hang out today.

 

[Zailah]

She texted me and askes to hang out today.

She should’ve paid then in my opinion.

 

[Kingjames]

She should’ve paid then in my opinion.

Yeah, but it seemed like she was already expecting me to pay and she seemed highly offended when I asked to split.

 

[Zailah]

Yeah, but it seemed like she was already expecting me to pay and she seemed highly offended when I asked to split.

It’s also pretty stupid not to carry money around when in times like this. Each to their own anyway

 

[Kingjames]

The funny thing is we where just talking about how broke we are as students and she can’t even offer to help.

 

[Zailah]

The funny thing is we where just talking about how broke we are as students and she can’t even offer to help.

Ironic there

 

[lone]

Do a threesome with them and bounce.
Women are a distraction.

 

[agnes]

The first girl is a more of a match for you.

 

[Dooyo]

The second one. She'll most likely stick with you through thick and thin.

 

[agnes]

The second one. She'll most likely stick with you through thick and thin.

True, but he doesn't deserve the second girl.

 

[Dooyo]

True, but doesn't deserve the second girl.

Ahh. True, true. Stick with the first one, buddy.