Why “the male loneliness epidemic” is lowkey good (sorry)

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3rdchild · suugo dottore
You're a cruel person. I'm not sure you're a good person behind that clown-like persona, not going to lie.

Women also report higher rates of loneliness and mental issues. There is a trend in the West and East Asian countries.

To celebrate that people suffering is evil. I thought we wanted the best for everyone, and that also becomes good for ourselves, the children, and the general society.

Many high-achieving people are probably lonelier than poor people. The thing is, rich people have more resources to mask that truth, so they drown themselves in hedonism and escapism from the fact that they are lonely. When you talk to them, you will quickly see that it is a cheap veneer, where they truly long for human connection and human impact. Lower-income people, on the other hand, are usually very social. They have families earlier, they have more kids, they are usually communally oriented, meaning they interact with generations of people. Wealthier people don't have that in the West. They are highly individual and barely speak to their neighbors, even.

Poor people have an important factor for human survival, interdependence. Rich people have less of this.

So in my opinion, the only people you talk about are usually the middle-income guy. The guy who is not a so-called bum. That does not mean there are no poor people who are lonely, or rich people with good social lives and connections, but we're talking in general. But this thing we call modernity is making all sections more lonely. The idea that money fixes loneliness is stupid. It's like the guys who think only money will bring good women in.

The suicide rate in richer countries is higher for a reason. Wealthier people are more dependent on drugs to alter their mental state from depression and anxiety.
Erey "bum" doesn't refer to the poverty itself, rather it refers to the behaviours and mindsets that land you in the position, which is why "bummy" as an adjective isn't synonymous with "poor" or "disadvantaged" but rather its meaning is closer to "lazy", Lower income doesn't mean straightaway you are a bum, only if you are not seeking a way out of the situation does the word apply
 
Erey "bum" doesn't refer to the poverty itself, rather it refers to the behaviours and mindsets that land you in the position, which is why "bummy" as an adjective isn't synonymous with "poor" or "disadvantaged" but rather its meaning is closer to "lazy", Lower income doesn't mean straightaway you are a bum, only if you are not seeking a way out of the situation does the word apply
The key term here is loneliness and associating that with bums... And she also associated bums with people financially incapable, right?

I understand a rich person can be a bum, to me, at least. But I am actually responding to that OP woman, not steelmaning a position she does not have, sxb.
 

The truth seeker

Get Rich or Die Tryin'
You're a cruel person. I'm not sure you're a good person behind that clown-like persona, not going to lie.

Women also report higher rates of loneliness and mental issues. There is a trend in the West and East Asian countries.

To celebrate that people suffering is evil. I thought we wanted the best for everyone, and that also becomes good for ourselves, the children, and the general society.

Many high-achieving people are probably lonelier than poor people. The thing is, rich people have more resources to mask that truth, so they drown themselves in hedonism and escapism from the fact that they are lonely. When you talk to them, you will quickly see that it is a cheap veneer, where they truly long for human connection and human impact. Lower-income people, on the other hand, are usually very social. They have families earlier, they have more kids, they are usually communally oriented, meaning they interact with generations of people. Wealthier people don't have that in the West. They are highly individual and barely speak to their neighbors, even.

Poor people have an important factor for human survival, interdependence. Rich people have less of this.

So in my opinion, the only people you talk about are usually the middle-income guy. The guy who is not a so-called bum. That does not mean there are no poor people who are lonely, or rich people with good social lives and connections, but we're talking in general. But this thing we call modernity is making all sections more lonely. The idea that money fixes loneliness is stupid. It's like the guys who think only money will bring good women in.

The suicide rate in richer countries is higher for a reason. Wealthier people are more dependent on drugs to alter their mental state from depression and anxiety.
You hit the nail on the head this consumerist society is destroying peoples mental health

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Aseer

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Your insults just show that I’m right.
*You delude yourself into believing your right
I asked for an explanation for somali men since “tough times create good men”. Disprove my point if I’m wrong instead of crying or shut up
No theres nothing for me to "Disprove" thats like asking me to speak to a wall. Honestly one click on your post history is more than enough to understand the type of person you are and I dropped arguing with your type along time ago after I figured out how your minds work, what a miserable person you are I truly pity you.
 
*You delude yourself into believing your right

No theres nothing for me to "Disprove" thats like asking me to speak to a wall. Honestly one click on your post history is more than enough to understand the type of person you are and I dropped arguing with your type along time ago after I figured out how your minds work, what a miserable person you are I truly pity you.
*You’re
Apparently, you pity me and “dropped arguing” with my “type” yet you responded with a whole paragraph. A whole paragraph of nothing.

Weak times didn’t create tough men in the Somali community. It created embarrassments. That doesn’t make me a coon you nacas. Look at Somalia
 
It’s only a good thing because “the lonely” men in question are the BUMS who refuse to fix themselves up + improve their life, and now these are the ones finally being weeded out because people (women in particular) are no longer forced to interact with/coddle to their needs.

Women especially do you notice that men these days are starting to yearn more and more for the ages where women had 0 autonomy, in fact they’re going as far as to travelling to broke countries where they can simulate this experience by finding the most desperate of women they can woo financially. The thing is the fact they do ts is proof these men don’t want to fix themselves and attract women in a genuine and wholesome manner because deep down that’s not what they are interested in, they’re not interested in actual love and genuine connection they are looking for power and dominance over women no matter how ugly, dumb and repulsive they are so they can “buy” the power they don’t have back home

it’s unfortunate that over human history this has been the way to do things, women never really had a choice who to be with due to arranged marriages, r*pe (sighh) etc so because of that, historically men never had to focus on being attractive and attracting women

this is why we have a shortage of 1. Beautiful and 2. Actually genuine and good men

Now we’re in an era where women actually have a choice, yall make the most of it :mindblown: You should be happy everytime you reject a bum because this is the power women have been seeking all along not sure why hookup culture is being touted as “female empowerment” our true power is by being PICKY!!!!!

TIME TO EVEN THINGS OUT!!!!!
Back in the day men who were unmarried used to be put on the frontlines, this sounds really bad but there is no option for society to rid itself of undesireable men today..
 
You're a cruel person. I'm not sure you're a good person behind that clown-like persona, not going to lie.

Women also report higher rates of loneliness and mental issues. There is a trend in the West and East Asian countries.

To celebrate that people suffering is evil. I thought we wanted the best for everyone, and that also becomes good for ourselves, the children, and the general society.

Many high-achieving people are probably lonelier than poor people. The thing is, rich people have more resources to mask that truth, so they drown themselves in hedonism and escapism from the fact that they are lonely. When you talk to them, you will quickly see that it is a cheap veneer, where they truly long for human connection and human impact. Lower-income people, on the other hand, are usually very social. They have families earlier, they have more kids, they are usually communally oriented, meaning they interact with generations of people. Wealthier people don't have that in the West. They are highly individual and barely speak to their neighbors, even.

Poor people have an important factor for human survival, interdependence. Rich people have less of this.

So in my opinion, the only people you talk about are usually the middle-income guy. The guy who is not a so-called bum. That does not mean there are no poor people who are lonely, or rich people with good social lives and connections, but we're talking in general. But this thing we call modernity is making all sections more lonely. The idea that money fixes loneliness is stupid. It's like the guys who think only money will bring good women in.

The suicide rate in richer countries is higher for a reason. Wealthier people are more dependent on drugs to alter their mental state from depression and anxiety.

You just wasted your time typing all that nonsense cuz none of that is what I said :snoop:At all. My whole post was specifically criticizing men who use money to buy company+women….:comeon:

I’m not reading the rest cuz you clearly didn’t read what I said tf, I really wonder about the psychology behind putting all that energy in responding to something you DIDNT EVEN READ? I don’t understand yall mfs honestly :mindblown:
 
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. And she also associated bums with people financially incapable, right?

I understand a rich person can be a bum, to me, at least. But I am actually responding to that OP woman, not steelmaning a position she does not have, sxb.
Nigga go to school you didn’t even READ my post, if you don’t wanna read it that’s your choice but why tf are you wasting your time arguing about shit you didn’t even read???
 
You just wasted your time typing all that nonsense cuz none of that is what I said :snoop:At all. My whole post was specifically criticizing men who use money to buy company+women….:comeon:

I’m not reading the rest cuz you clearly didn’t read what I said tf, I really wonder about the psychology behind putting all that energy in responding to something you DIDNT EVEN READ? I don’t understand yall mfs honestly :mindblown:
Ehm, and you wonder why I call you a clown.:mjlol:
 
Nigga go to school you didn’t even READ my post, if you don’t wanna read it that’s your choice but why tf are you wasting your time arguing about shit you didn’t even read???
You're ignorant, ngl.

If we made a poll, do you think, unironically, people would think you or I need more education?:damn:
 

Shimbiris

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You're a cruel person. I'm not sure you're a good person behind that clown-like persona, not going to lie.

Women also report higher rates of loneliness and mental issues. There is a trend in the West and East Asian countries.

To celebrate that people suffering is evil. I thought we wanted the best for everyone, and that also becomes good for ourselves, the children, and the general society.

Many high-achieving people are probably lonelier than poor people. The thing is, rich people have more resources to mask that truth, so they drown themselves in hedonism and escapism from the fact that they are lonely. When you talk to them, you will quickly see that it is a cheap veneer, where they truly long for human connection and human impact. Lower-income people, on the other hand, are usually very social. They have families earlier, they have more kids, they are usually communally oriented, meaning they interact with generations of people. Wealthier people don't have that in the West. They are highly individual and barely speak to their neighbors, even.

Poor people have an important factor for human survival, interdependence. Rich people have less of this.

So in my opinion, the only people you talk about are usually the middle-income guy. The guy who is not a so-called bum. That does not mean there are no poor people who are lonely, or rich people with good social lives and connections, but we're talking in general. But this thing we call modernity is making all sections more lonely. The idea that money fixes loneliness is stupid. It's like the guys who think only money will bring good women in.

The suicide rate in richer countries is higher for a reason. Wealthier people are more dependent on drugs to alter their mental state from depression and anxiety.

Waryaaaaa! Enough! Stop expending your wonderful intellect on such threads and go back to writing treatises on Bronze Age Nubia and the Horn's antiquity and medieval periods! You are too high IQ to be sailing in such smooth-brained waters.

Hungry Dinner GIF
 
Waryaaaaa! Enough! Stop expending your wonderful intellect on such threads and go back to writing treatises on Bronze Age Nubia and the Horn's antiquity and medieval periods! You are too high IQ to be sailing in such smooth-brained waters.

Hungry Dinner GIF
The last couple of days have been a downgrade, huh :dead:

Me and @caanoshaah got a thing. She writes BS, I try to amuse myself at her expense. Though this thread was kind of more serious, very topical on my side, at least.
 
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