Why am I not getting much matches on Bumble or Tinder?

[Abdalla]

No, I literally know 5 people personally that have married other Somalis off that app.

I get why you wouldn’t like it, but in the age of people being addicted to their phones, lack of Somali community and people mostly getting to know each other online rather than events as men are too afraid to approach women then what do you expect?

Why are you defending Muzmatch, did you get married through muzmatch?

Its a bold statement, but I will confidently claim that Muzmatch created more zina than marriages.

 

[𝕃𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕙]

I spend most my time at home or at work. So not in the suuq.

I'm fully grown adult who pays my own bills. So not ciyaal.

So you're just shaqo la'aan?

 

[Angelina]

Why are you defending Muzmatch, did you get married through muzmatch?

Its a bold statement, but I will confidently claim that Muzmatch created more zina than marriages.

No way?

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The thing is, as Somalis we don’t have a leg to stand on as we have a culture of youngesters having to find their own spouses. In a world in which people are too afraid to speak to other gender and a rise in people being not as social, add in globalization since we have Somalis from America marrying Brit’s and Canadians marrying Scandis, then off course apps are going to gain traction.

 

[The alchemist]

You can never find a gem of a female on dating apps. There is a negative correlation. Tinder is only to meet up and laying down the pipe. Don't kid yourself, kid.

 

[Abdalla]

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The thing is, as Somalis we don’t have a leg to stand on as we have a culture of youngesters having to find their own spouses. In a world in which people are too afraid to speak to other gen and a rise in people being not as social, add in globalization since we have Somalis from America marrying Brit’s and Canadians marrying Scandis.

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The people I know have ulterior motives when they use muzmatch and they match with people that are not seeking marriage as well.

 

[reer]

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The thing is, as Somalis we don’t have a leg to stand on as we have a culture of youngesters having to find their own spouses. In a world in which people are too afraid to speak to other gender and a rise in people being not as social, add in globalization since we have Somalis from America marrying Brit’s and Canadians marrying Scandis, then off course apps are going to gain traction.

theres a difference between faraxs and xalimos finding spouses. a hooyo can find her son a wife from her clan/subclan or friends. but for xalimos i understand it might be harder.

 

[Angelina]

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The people I know have ulterior motives when they use muzmatch and they match with people that are not seeking marriage as well.

I think it depends on your intentions and how you’re able to weed out the weirdos.

 

[Angelina]

theres a difference between faraxs and xalimos finding spouses. a hooyo can find her son a wife from her clan/subclan or friends. but for xalimos i understand it might be harder.

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[Angelina]

sorry @The alchemist

I @ you by mistake.

 

[Abdalla]

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I think it depends on your intentions and how you’re able to weed out the weirdos.

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[Abdalla]

@Odious Delirium i saw what you wrote

 

[Angelina]

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[Khaem]

I mean... I'm not ugly. I'm average looking. But I figured I might get SOME matches. Dafuq!

I read somewhere that girls are only swiping right on 5% - 10% of guys. Is that really true?

Go to the gym and work on your body.
If you wanna meet girls a better way, go outside and meet them. These apps are nothing but a few same group of people hooking up with each other whilst the majority are endlessly swiping with hope making the company money.

 

[Khaem]

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It’s mostly surface level though. You’re not going to find out about the family rep amongst their community and stuff like that. People can hide a lot from other ajnabis.

 

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I’ll dm you her voiceclip, cussing you out in Pashto.