don't prject yourself onto usIt seems to be a pandemic now? Most people are terrified of talking to someone new. When it comes to approaching women, this terror is multiplied by 100. In America it seems men have become women and women are becoming men. This scary part is that since so many fathers leave their family, men will adapt feminine traits unconsciously. They can only prevent this by taking conscious actions e.g. being in control of their emotions (stoic), not crying in front of people, being a provider if they want a family etc.
I have a problem with being too comfortable around women
Freemixing is haram, one day I wish to be too shy to talk to women
until then I have to keep myself restrained