Why are Somali women against polygamy?

[ace mooha]

No thanks. Why would I be in a polygamous marriage when I can find guy that will kiss the ground I walk on? Only when I become fat ugly and insecure with a loose smelly vagina will I share a man. Even then I will have self respect.

You are a real one.

 

[dhegdheer]

Th feet kissing

I'll never accept polygamy

 

[VixR]

I didn't watch it. I'm not convinced anyone's worth marrying much less a polygamous marriage-ing. My ideal setup would be to live in some quaint, quirky digs of my own, in the metro area of an intellectually engaging city, working in the medical field, doing some good in the world, and hopefully leave something behind to quantify my existence.

 

[VixR]

In the West, when a man strays, the wife has a hand of sorts to deal in that unless she decides out, the man repents and rarely leaves her. It's a common meme here that a married man won't leave his wife and kids, and most women who mess with them expect and know this to be true. In Islamic societies, the man who strays may not only stray, but suddenly you could end up with so much more than an infidelity, a co-wife without even knowing it, without either of you knowing it. The monogamous marriage you thought you entered morphs into a polygamous one overnight. Unless she explicitly includes it in her contract, the Muslim woman doesn't have that consideration.

 

[Siddhartha]

In the West, when a man strays, the wife has a hand of sorts to deal in that unless she decides out, the man repents and rarely leaves her. It's a common meme here that a married man won't leave his wife and kids, and most women who mess with them expect and know this to be true. In Islamic societies, the man who strays may not only stray, but suddenly you could end up with so much more than an infidelity, a co-wife without even knowing it, without either of you knowing it. The monogamous marriage you thought you entered morphs into a polygamous one overnight. Unless she explicitly includes it in her contract, the Muslim woman doesn't have that consideration.

Tip of advice honey men don't like opiniated women just nod along

 

[VixR]

Tip of advice honey men don't like opiniated women just nod along

Lmao. You can take your insecurities elsewhere, I'm not interested.

 

[Siddhartha]

Lmao. You can take your insecurities elsewhere, I'm not interested.

Just some friendly advice, take it or leave it.

 

[VixR]

Just some friendly advice, take it or leave it.

Like I said, direct your insecurities elsewhere. If I ever decide there isn't enough quiet, mindless nodding in my life, I'll buy a bobblehead figure to place on my desk like a normal person.

 

[Siddhartha]

Like I said, direct your insecurities elsewhere. If I ever decide there isn't enough quiet, mindless nodding in my life, I'll buy a bobblehead figure to place on my desk like a normal person.

Don't complain when you're 35 and wondering why you got no man

 

[VixR]

Don't complain when you're 35 and wondering why you got no man

Lmao. Attracting men and cultivating good relationships isn't a problem for me. Again, thanks for your "worry", but you can direct your insecurities elsewhere.

 

[Siddhartha]

Lmao. Attracting men and cultivating good relationships isn't a problem for me. Again, thanks for your "worry", but you can direct your insecurities elsewhere.

 

[Aziza]

 

[waraabe]

See we have been too soft on our women while the Arabs and pakis have been training theirs

 

[VixR]

 

[SomaliSpotter]

Who would have thought Arab Bedouin women had feet fetish? You learn new things everything.

 

[The Cushitic One]

Look how happy they are. Somali women should follow their example.

The real question is cab you afford 2 mortgages? To support each wife emotionally and economically equally? If a man can not AFFORD more than one wife he islamically can not Marry.

 

[merka]

The real question is cab you afford 2 mortgages? To support each wife emotionally and economically equally? If a man can not AFFORD more than one wife he islamically can not Marry.

Why are you so materialistic?

 

[The Cushitic One]

Why are you so materialistic?

Not about being materialistic it's being REALISTIC... Clearly your stuck on the idea of having your cake and eating it. In islam you can only marry more than one wife if you can PROVIDE for them equally.

 

[merka]

Not about being materialistic it's being REALISTIC... Clearly your stuck on the idea of having your cake and eating it. In islam you can only marry more than one wife if you can PROVIDE for them equally.

Do you want to be my second wife? You'll be provided for as equally as my first.

 

[The Cushitic One]

:siilaanyolaugh:No the fourth wife would be best...