Why do Somalis discuss marriage at a young age

[Bahal]

Kids aren't mature enough to be getting married and having babies

 

[gurey]

So you expect a male to be a virgin until he is nearly 30?

Absolutely nothing wrong with marrying early. Late teenage hood brings about intense feelings of the other sex yet as Muslims we aren't suppose to have girlfriends or boyfriends. Marrying young is nice because it gives you a chance to grow with someone and if you have kids you will be able to take care of them until they reach a good age and you'll still years on you.

This guy has the right idea.

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Kids aren't mature enough to be getting married and having babies

kids having kids is a disaster


btw who would wanna get tied down in there prime years sxb

 

[waraabe]

kids having kids is a disaster


btw who would wanna get tied down in there prime years sxb

Some people get married cuz they are horny

 

[Mohamud]

kids having kids is a disaster


btw who would wanna get tied down in there prime years sxb

We ain't even talking prime years fam. Prime is 25 plus. We're talking pre prime. Arguably the most important years of one's life.

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Some people get married cuz they are horny

or they cant some

 

[Bernie Madoff]

We ain't even talking prime years fam. Prime is 25 plus. We're talking pre prime. Arguably the most important years of one's life.

nahhh breh 18-25 is prime years where you enjoy yourself and focus just on yourself.


When you got a career going then think of marriage then sxb

 

[Mohamud]

Nah prime is when you're body is physically and mentally at its peak. Essentially you can do the most AND you have the resources to have actual fun. If prime is simply centres on enjoyment, that age range is still pretty much just a tier above high school with more financial stability (if you work).

Prime's male years are 25 plus. At least when you have a legit job and career then your true fun and exploration years should be that 24-28 window. Maybe even 30 if you're one hell of a late bloomer.

 

[Mohamud]

Not gonna lie being a male makes this easier. No societal expectations to really get married before we wanna. It's bullshit but wallahi that's none of my business and imma ride this out

 

[Zuleikha]

Marriage and kids is not going to stop you studying and having a career though.


I am also against young marriage not because they haven't got their life sorted but they immature and irresponsible.

You got 20 something year old divorce with couple of kids because they both want their own way

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Didn't you ask men to f*ck.u

No, I quoted a biggie track, now your turn, why did you make that thread about mens derrière again? Kkkk

Don't worry, I'll wait.