THIS POST DISCUSSES SOME SOMALI PEOPLE, NOT MEANT TO GENERALIZE OR SHAME SOMALI PEOPLE. THERE ARE GOOD/BAD PEOPLE IN EVERY NATION/SOCIETY. IF THIS DOES NOT APPLY TO YOU, KINDLY MOVE FORWARD. I KNOW AND ACKNOWLEGE THAT IT DOES NOT APPLY TO ALL SOMALIS. SO DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME. I WANT TO HEAR FROM PEOPLE WHO CAN RELATE OR HAVE EXAMPLE TO SHARE. TROLLING/BANTER IS ALWAYS WELCOMED. THANK YOU.
What is with this new culture where both men and women go around trying to humble each other. It's not your JOB. Leave it Allah swt. It is very arrogant to go and do that even if the person is arrogant. If someone is arrogant about their education, guess what? They will either get over it, or get over it when they retire. Arrogant about looks? Father time will do the job. Arrogant about deen, money, status ect. all of it will end.
I noticed this nonsense online with some Somalis doing it to each other. I had a ex-friend who would do this and when I asked her why, she said because she didn't want to kiss the person's ass or bow down to them. I told her the option of being indifferent was an option. She was confused. This girl would go around telling more attractive woman (she was pretty but average pretty) that another attractive woman was better looking. If someone was more educated than her she would compliment someone with higher degree/career or a better College program. Has anyone met someone like this? Now looking back I think this ex-friend had to have been very arrogant to do this to other people. Granted sometimes the girls she did it to were cocky girls but sometimes it was girls who just were good looking. To this day I don't know why this person was like this. I know some Somali girls can be very competitive but this was next level and this same girl was very kind and supportive to non-Somalis friends of ours. Anyways, she was bullied badly but I didn't know her back then only heard about it.
Now I see the same thing online with Somali men or women (online you never know) calling others blm halimo if the girl is educated. Like I seen people target educated Somali girls. It so selfish and emotionally unintelligent, again I am not saying you should root for them or support them because they are Somali but can't you ignore them?? Like why? And I noticed Somali fobs don't do this neither do Somalis back home, its the diaspora. Why would you copy the racist trope the far right just to drag your own people? And the sad part is these same dudes and girls deep down know they want their daughters to be like that. This one Somali dude called the girls in America HOES and married a Somali girl back home (which I support), this same dude had 2 daughters and I asked him if he would want guys his age to say his daughters are hoes. How the f*ck is it our fault we were born in North America or Europe? AND why should we be punished for pursuing education when that is what our parents wanted. I don't get why our culture can be so hasid? I'm convinced they have adopted the Arab culture of treating women like slaves.
Whats embarrassing is how much they drag Ilhan Omar. I get the people in her riding, but Somalis in Somaliland even dragging her for what? You think she is the UN and can make a nation. Also she is "faquesh" to them so why/bed/demand the same "faquesh" to establish your nation. This is so embarrassing because you see Zionist pushing hate on her because they hate Somalis. I seen non-Somalis in America tell me that they think she is brave. You see all these other groups now running for elections because they seen her do it. Show me any other Muslim/Arab WITH THEIR HIJABS on like her. I dgaf if she doesn't wear it the right way, or even her poltics (that's another story). I do think she is too liberal but where was the smoke for Ahmed Hussein when he did this:
Anyways the hasidness imo applies to both genders and may even be worse with the men since they are killing each other. But what is the root of this behaviour. I have a new theory that poor nutrition causes cognitive issues. The ex-friend I was talking about might be autistic and might explain the odd behaviour. This short sighted culture that is very narcissistic might also be linked to emotional retardation, autism, adhd etc. Which is high in nomadic tribes. They hyper aggressiveness coming from camel herding, famine, and tribal wars for survival could be still in our minds. I just cannot accept it anymore and would rather be isolated than be around these people but I see it online too.
Also I should mention a lot Somalis mimic and mirror each other will marry around the same time, pick similar careers as their friends and compete. Their mothers even egg this on. Again that might be autism again, since mirrorring is in autism. What do you guys think?
For me all this has reaffirmed that the diaspora take on these attributes we had back home and applied it here. It is more toxic and odd here than back home. The anti-social, competitive, hot tempered nomad just comes off weird in this social climbing/networking, passive aggressive, fake nice, individualistic culture in the West. I cannot adapt either but I am not emotionally retarded though.
Am I the only one who sees this or has experienced with this?
What is with this new culture where both men and women go around trying to humble each other. It's not your JOB. Leave it Allah swt. It is very arrogant to go and do that even if the person is arrogant. If someone is arrogant about their education, guess what? They will either get over it, or get over it when they retire. Arrogant about looks? Father time will do the job. Arrogant about deen, money, status ect. all of it will end.
I noticed this nonsense online with some Somalis doing it to each other. I had a ex-friend who would do this and when I asked her why, she said because she didn't want to kiss the person's ass or bow down to them. I told her the option of being indifferent was an option. She was confused. This girl would go around telling more attractive woman (she was pretty but average pretty) that another attractive woman was better looking. If someone was more educated than her she would compliment someone with higher degree/career or a better College program. Has anyone met someone like this? Now looking back I think this ex-friend had to have been very arrogant to do this to other people. Granted sometimes the girls she did it to were cocky girls but sometimes it was girls who just were good looking. To this day I don't know why this person was like this. I know some Somali girls can be very competitive but this was next level and this same girl was very kind and supportive to non-Somalis friends of ours. Anyways, she was bullied badly but I didn't know her back then only heard about it.
Now I see the same thing online with Somali men or women (online you never know) calling others blm halimo if the girl is educated. Like I seen people target educated Somali girls. It so selfish and emotionally unintelligent, again I am not saying you should root for them or support them because they are Somali but can't you ignore them?? Like why? And I noticed Somali fobs don't do this neither do Somalis back home, its the diaspora. Why would you copy the racist trope the far right just to drag your own people? And the sad part is these same dudes and girls deep down know they want their daughters to be like that. This one Somali dude called the girls in America HOES and married a Somali girl back home (which I support), this same dude had 2 daughters and I asked him if he would want guys his age to say his daughters are hoes. How the f*ck is it our fault we were born in North America or Europe? AND why should we be punished for pursuing education when that is what our parents wanted. I don't get why our culture can be so hasid? I'm convinced they have adopted the Arab culture of treating women like slaves.
Whats embarrassing is how much they drag Ilhan Omar. I get the people in her riding, but Somalis in Somaliland even dragging her for what? You think she is the UN and can make a nation. Also she is "faquesh" to them so why/bed/demand the same "faquesh" to establish your nation. This is so embarrassing because you see Zionist pushing hate on her because they hate Somalis. I seen non-Somalis in America tell me that they think she is brave. You see all these other groups now running for elections because they seen her do it. Show me any other Muslim/Arab WITH THEIR HIJABS on like her. I dgaf if she doesn't wear it the right way, or even her poltics (that's another story). I do think she is too liberal but where was the smoke for Ahmed Hussein when he did this:
Anyways the hasidness imo applies to both genders and may even be worse with the men since they are killing each other. But what is the root of this behaviour. I have a new theory that poor nutrition causes cognitive issues. The ex-friend I was talking about might be autistic and might explain the odd behaviour. This short sighted culture that is very narcissistic might also be linked to emotional retardation, autism, adhd etc. Which is high in nomadic tribes. They hyper aggressiveness coming from camel herding, famine, and tribal wars for survival could be still in our minds. I just cannot accept it anymore and would rather be isolated than be around these people but I see it online too.
Also I should mention a lot Somalis mimic and mirror each other will marry around the same time, pick similar careers as their friends and compete. Their mothers even egg this on. Again that might be autism again, since mirrorring is in autism. What do you guys think?
For me all this has reaffirmed that the diaspora take on these attributes we had back home and applied it here. It is more toxic and odd here than back home. The anti-social, competitive, hot tempered nomad just comes off weird in this social climbing/networking, passive aggressive, fake nice, individualistic culture in the West. I cannot adapt either but I am not emotionally retarded though.
Am I the only one who sees this or has experienced with this?
