Wife in UAE seeks divorce because Husband is too nice.

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I don't believe a sane person would seek divorce because they were treated with great dignity and respect as a human being should. I believe that she might of come from an abusive background and associates negative energy with love and lack of it as the opposite. I hope she seeks therapy :)
 
She’s used to abuse. Belongs to the school of “If he doesn’t beat you, does he really love you?”

Likely saw it in her family home, normalized it, and misinterprets it as love.
Western women who grew up in a 'liberal' household say the same shit.
Maybe not to this extreme but u know damn well this isn't about abuse
:comeon:
 
Inquisitive, you are a one trick pony and as soon as I saw this article I was able to predict the argument you will present.

You have no idea of female biological disposition and you are fueled mostly by your dislike of women. Not arguing with your wife, helping her and being kind is indeed good treatment and is part of the Sunnah. That was how our beloved prophet S.A.W treated his wives.

You are using this article, about a woman who was probably raised in a dysfunctional household as an example as to why you shouldn't be loving towards a woman.

The whole treat them mean, keep them keen mantra illustrates a man's deep rooted low self esteem and is very childish. Grow up.

Orrr, how about the guy not turn into a shit-stained doormat?

I can understand the woman's frustration. His soft underbelly soy boy behaviour heavily contradicts her concept of 'masculinity'.

Horta wasn't it sexist to engage women as if they were overly fragile mystics? Is a straight no too much of a burden for her? Will she crack under pressure in a tiff over what sauce to use?

Isn't this why the 'nice guys' are hated in female circles?
 
Orrr, how about the guy not turn into a shit-stained doormat?

I can understand the woman's frustration. His soft underbelly soy boy behaviour heavily contradicts her concept of 'masculinity'.

Horta wasn't it sexist to engage women as if they were overly fragile mystics? Is a straight no too much of a burden for her? Will she crack under pressure in a tiff over what sauce to use?

Isn't this why the 'nice guys' are hated in female circles?

Nice guys are only hated by a minority of women or those who watched 50 shades of grey too much.
Don't generalize. I'll take a nice guy over a "bad/or those who love to call themselves alpha :mjlol:" anyday anytime.
The world is full of challenges. we don't need one at home.
 
Nice guys are only hated by a minority of women or those who watched 50 shades of grey too much.
Don't generalize. I'll take a nice guy over a "bad/or those who love to call themselves alpha :mjlol:" anyday anytime.
The world is full of challenges. we don't need one at home.

Gaabey, not nice as in have an extra scoop of chocolate.

I'm talking about a whole different type here 'baayo.
 
Khaleeji Times is a Dubai UAE publications and the “good, caring and innocent victim”, mr nice guy has been outed as an Emirati guy and the “horrible & qumayo” woman only as “a Gulf national”.

When Part 2 to this story reveals her identity to be from Qatar, some here will still believe it. With their skyscrapers and billions of dollars, these guys still think like us. Somaliland Vs Puntland Vs CirfiidLand. This is their Fadhi Ku Dirrir.
 
I suspect she's struggling to articulate her feelings and confuses being spineless with being kind. I strongly doubt she has experienced or witnessed actual abuse.

Women that experience domestic abuse are more likely to tolerate and select abusive partners, but that doesn't mean they won't tolerate genuine kindness.
 
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