Women are truly desesperate when they reach a certain age unmarried

Aegon

The Conqueror, King of all Westeros
My cousine is honestly a pretty girl, working hard, being in the deen ect but she never bother to look for a husband even if people used to tell her this all the time when she was much younger.

Now, she is 30y and is really afraid of the idea of ending up alone, she is register in multiple muslim marriage app and talk about finding a husband practically all the time, honestly i do think she is capable of getting married within 6 months of knowing somebody
 
My cousine is honestly a pretty girl, working hard, being in the deen ect but she never bother to look for a husband even if people used to tell her this all the time when she was much younger.

Now, she is 30y and is really afraid of the idea of ending up alone, she is register in multiple muslim marriage app and talk about finding a husband practically all the time, honestly i do think she is capable of getting married within 6 months of knowing somebody
Wht about her seems desperate??
 

AbrahamFreedom

🇨🇦🇷🇺✝️ E-V32 indigenous Black Nova Scotian
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No, most are not desperate but your cousin is likely one of the many Somali women not worthy to be a wife though, especially to a good, providing husband. Like there are many bad Somali men, there are many bad Somali women too. They are nothing like the over 60 hooyos. Being on the deen and being pretty doesn't matter when you have other negative traits like toxicity or narcissism or being disrespectful. You'll always find young, taken overweight and unattractive but amazing Somali women with good husbands; they're all over the place.
 

Aseer

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The best time to marry is in your 20s if you pass that stage and get into your 30s you will most likely have a harder time settling down and by that point you only have yourself to blame, people can cope and deny this reality all they want but thats just how it is.
 

Aegon

The Conqueror, King of all Westeros
The best time to marry is in your 20s if you pass that stage and get into your 30s you will most likely have a harder time settling down and by that point you only have yourself to blame, people can cope and deny this reality all they want but thats just how it is.
For a women or a men ?
 
Maybe she finally sees she's worthy and capable enough to be a good wife and mother. Everyone feels ready at different times. Some people rush before knowing themselves while others are cautious since they're aware of their shortcomings. And they don't want to marry wrong and get divorced. Those kind of people tend to work on themselves then look for a spouse.

She might have even been too shy to look for it or show that she's interested until now. People get more self confident as they grow and know themselves.

It's unkind of you to be assuming all that about her. If you really care about her be empathetic and help her in a genuine way.
 
My cousine is honestly a pretty girl, working hard, being in the deen ect but she never bother to look for a husband even if people used to tell her this all the time when she was much younger.

Now, she is 30y and is really afraid of the idea of ending up alone, she is register in multiple muslim marriage app and talk about finding a husband practically all the time, honestly i do think she is capable of getting married within 6 months of knowing somebody


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Espaa_

Ku sali nabiga {scw}
If its written its written. Its a rizq from Allah not everybodys going to get. She gotta be patient and make lots of dua. Last case scenario she could always be a passport bro and go back to the motherland and entice a man with a western passport. I heard it always works like a charm :mjlaugh:


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3LetterzMM

LG gang we gon slide for my nigga 🤐🥷
A lot of these women are naive in the sense that they think they can take their sweet time finding the right man for marriage women well into their 30s and even 40s I see run around thinking their dream man is sat down growing old waiting for her little do they know men are impatient much more than women we will settle for less than our dream girl just to get the damn thing done and have a wife. Even if she’s a straight knockout with an amazing body the age is too big of an obstacle for one no dude is marrying a girl older than him so her options lessen every year on top of that when it comes to marriage dudes are looking for more than just a hot girl a lot of em want kids for example which becomes less likely the older she gets. What these girls also don’t understand is by 30 majority of the god fearing dudes are already married these guys have been abstaining from sex their whole life a lot of em don’t even masturbate so it’s insane to think they are gonna put marriage off for a second longer than they have to.

Like an overworked lawyer provided by the govt ur cousin is gonna have to settle and it’ll most likely not be to her advantage. Only dudes available at her age have at least one big flaw whether it’s a low salary high body count plain ugly a bad/weird/boring person partakes in vice or doesn’t believe in god. Right now it’s really a matter of what she’s willing to settle on ask her which of these things bother her the least.
 

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