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[Cambar]

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[wonyluvr]

How tall is he?

 

[wonyluvr]

Lemme plan your wedding

 

[Cambar]

5'11 to 6'0 but i feel like he has a background

 

[rayxn3]

5'11 to 6'0 but i feel like he has a background

What kind of a background?

 

[Cambar]

What kind of a background?

like a haram background but i feel like it's still there

 

[Hodan from HR]

Personally, I prefer to judge the person they are in ththe present. The past iss in the past. If he is vulnerable and tells you his past, give him a chance but if he hides is not open about it, I wouldn't trust him.

 

[Kalsoon]

Does he want to get your family involved? Or are you the one wanting that? If he has a background, do you think he has fully moved on from that lifestyle?

 

[Sophisticate]

A discordant lifestyle indicates a possible misalignment of values, and the continuity of past behaviours may loom overhead. You might even use it against him to score points in an argument. If you decide to take him on, you’d better accept him, warts and all; if you have issues with his past, it’s best to reconsider. That said, it doesn’t mean people are incapable of change or growth; it just gives you a moment to pause. If there is evidence of addictive behaviour or struggles with self-control, that’s a major red flag.