Would u marry a girl who is..

[Caartan Boos]

Hm I can’t put my finger on it. Hard question but ig I’d have to say no. I still hold my virginity to this day sxb, and as Handsome as I am it was no easy task

end of the day I am not gonna pay thousands to taste the fruit of which another man plucked a long time ago free of charge .

This is why I call for a universal mehr calculator based on education, virginity, and Islamic knowledge.
Obviously girls who’ve committed zina should get married, but they sure as shit better not mention anything more than 2k
And the clean college educated girl who follows deen is valued at 20-25k, and an even prettier one maybe 30 k

Facts fam, I saved myself from zina, and haram activities with girls, and Alhamdulillah I’m a virgin, but it doesn’t mean I won’t consider a sister who’s committed zina but repented and is righteous, so her deen is more important to me not her past, before I used to have a mentality that I only want a girl whose a Virgin, but now I don’t care, I will marry her if she’s righteous.

 

[Muji]

Works both way. Nothing more deceitful than a male hoe who chases after any woman he sees. We have plenty of them.

 

[Caartan Boos]

Some of the comments here are so unforgiving. How do you all expect Allah to forgive you 5 times a day when you cant forgive someone for the sin she has committed against herself?. Lets hope and pray your daughters don't turn our to be one.
Allah will forgive anyone for any sin. He says so in his book repeatedly who are yall to deny that right to anyone? If there is any girl out there reading this never give up on the mercy of Allah.Ever.

Yes correct sister, But we should avoid such destructive major sins, especially zina, what a humiliating death to die whilst committing zina and being resurrected like that on yawmul qiyamma, May Allah forgive us and protect us from his anger Ameen, we should hasten to get married, unfortunately not all Somali youth have strong family to do that, maybe no father in their life, but we should still try Insha’Allah

 

[Odkac WRLD]

Works both way. Nothing more deceitful than a male hoe who chases after any woman he sees. We have plenty of them.

Personally when I chase after women it’s with respect, and a 87% success rate

 

[Muji]

Personally when I chase after women it’s with respect, and a 87% success rate

If you have an 87% success rate then it definitely doesn’t show any respect.

 

[Odkac WRLD]

If you have an 87% success rate then it definitely doesn’t show any respect.

Well, no. If I pursue a woman, not interested I drop it. If I see any red flags I drop it. I treat them like equals, sometimes even betters
If I take a girl out to eat I’ll handle the bill and car ride I am a gentleman and always shown respect and decency to all women no matter what, even when the same decency isn’t reciprocated by some people hmmm.

 

[Muji]

Well, no. If I pursue a woman, not interested I drop it. If I see any red flags I drop it. I treat them like equals, sometimes even betters
If I take a girl out to eat I’ll handle the bill and car ride I am a gentleman and always shown respect and decency to all women no matter what, even when the same decency isn’t reciprocated by some people hmmm.

respectful men don’t have to call themselves respectful.

 

[Karim]

If you committed Zina there are two ways to achieve full repentance:
Punishment of 100 lashes for umarried fornicators OR by stoning if the offender is married once.

You can't just SAY I repented, No. You have to taste either one of the punishments I mentioned above if you have committed such loathsome sin.
@Halimo-2018 @Muji

 

[Mahacagalla]

Yeh as long as it was in the past and she moved on from that type of lifestyle.

 

[Muji]

If you committed Zina there are two ways to achieve full repentance:
Punishment of 100 lashes for umarried fornicators OR by stoning if the offender is married once.

You can't just SAY I repented, No. You have to taste either one of the punishments I mentioned above if you have committed such loathsome sin.
@Halimo-2018 @Muji

thanks @Karim but I’m not promoting zina.

 

[VixR]

These answers are precisely why you’ll be none the wiser in most cases. Of course, everyone is a virgin.

 

[Halimo-2018]

If you committed Zina there are two ways to achieve full repentance:
Punishment of 100 lashes for umarried fornicators OR by stoning if the offender is married once.

You can't just SAY I repented, No. You have to taste either one of the punishments I mentioned above if you have committed such loathsome sin.
@Halimo-2018 @Muji

Says which sheikh? Are you a shiekh?

 

[Karim]

Says which sheikh? Are you a shiekh?

I DIDN'T say it. Take it from our prophet's esteemed Hadith narrated by Imam Muslim (Sahih Muslim):

Prophet said: "Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said: Receive (teaching) from me, receive (teaching) from me. Allah has ordained a way for those (women). When an unmarried male commits adultery with an unmarried female (they should receive) one hundred lashes and banishment for one year. And in case of married male committing adultery with a married female, they shall receive one hundred lashes and be stoned to death". [Reported by Imam Muslim].

 

[Halimo-2018]

I DIDN'T say it. Take it from our prophet's esteemed Hadith narrated by Imam Muslim (Sahih Muslim):

Prophet said: "Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said: Receive (teaching) from me, receive (teaching) from me. Allah has ordained a way for those (women). When an unmarried male commits adultery with an unmarried female (they should receive) one hundred lashes and banishment for one year. And in case of married male committing adultery with a married female, they shall receive one hundred lashes and be stoned to death". [Reported by Imam Muslim].

Of course thats one way of repenting. It is not the only way. Don't push people away from repenting.Peace

 

[Mahacagalla]

These answers are precisely why you’ll be none the wiser in most cases. Of course, everyone is a virgin.

I found people to be pretty honest about this actually.

 

[VixR]

I found people to be pretty honest about this actually.

I certainly would. But don’t argue for its own sake. You and I both know common sense would dictate that not to be the norm.

 

[Mahacagalla]

I certainly would. But don’t argue for its own sake. You and I both know common sense would dictate that not to be the norm.

Yeah that’s what I thought but in my experience people have been open about this

 

[blade99]

She did zina in the past.
Personally i cant be with such woman. She opened her legs for free

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