Would you consider a wife who previously went to shisha?

[AussieHustler]

i love it when @Mehmet shows up 10/10 insightful posts

@embarassing



low blow.

@Mehmet

Do you agree with @SOMALIKNIGHT when he accuses a Somali girl for smoking shisha as un-Islamic and he never fasted a single day during Ramadan in his life? It is Ok an observant Muslim girl to marry him, but the chick who once smoked shisha and fasts now doesn't deserve to be married by blokes like him? Give me some Uber religious edicts Sxb. You gotta love the religious knowledge of these guys.

 

[Lum]

You defend every evil under the sun and make excuses for murderers and rapists, calling them our "Muslim brothers and sisters" even when they clearly don't hold such views about you.

Where was the brotherhood in Libya and Yemen?

Also madows are vile creatures who are slaves of cadaan, who do their bidding. In South Africa, Somalis are singled out for attacks, in Kenya, they abuse and kill and abduct Somalis in NFD.

The wisdom of the Prophet pbuh is here for all to see. Any nation who appoint a woman over them, will never prosper.

Finally, I have never defended men who commit zina. All zaniyaal deserve punishment in this life and the next. You use all your energy trying to undermime Islam and Somalinimo, while trying to make excuses for the enemies of our people.

May Allah swt guide you

“The Sunnah is to write the entire phrase “sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam,” since it is a kind of supplication, and supplication is worship, (in one’s writing) just as it is in one’s speech. So to abbreviate it using the letter SAAD or the word SAAD-LAAM-‘AYN-MEEM is not a supplication nor is it worship, whether it occurs in speech or writing. For this reason, this abbreviation was not used by the the first three generations, those that the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam) testified to their goodness.”

 

[Aladdin]

All the girls from my community that weres shisha smokers were getting their back blown by varies man, that's just my experience. yes, hate to judge people but I don't wanna lose, I don't want another man's left over. this "don't judge" and accept everything, is a western invention. This is just the devaluation of our qiimo and culture. us Somali men know to never lower the bar and given in to their demands.

 

[A_A]

I've seen grannies smoking shisha, I don't think that's a deal breaker.

 

[A_A]

wow this thread is YIKES

 

[Samaalic Era]

“The Sunnah is to write the entire phrase “sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam,” since it is a kind of supplication, and supplication is worship, (in one’s writing) just as it is in one’s speech. So to abbreviate it using the letter SAAD or the word SAAD-LAAM-‘AYN-MEEM is not a supplication nor is it worship, whether it occurs in speech or writing. For this reason, this abbreviation was not used by the the first three generations, those that the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam) testified to their goodness.”

Walal, this is a minor issue. We need to address major issues at hand such as shirk,zina etr

 

[Lum]

Walal, this is a minor issue. We need to address major issues at hand such as shirk,zina etr

Who committed shirk or zina? What I said is not a minor issue.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Who committed shirk or zina? What I said is not a minor issue.

It is sxb. Writing pbuh is not problem. Just give your views on what the OP posted

 

[Lum]

It is sxb. Writing pbuh is not problem. Just give your views on what the OP posted

I don’t take that opinion

 

[Geeljire Sandheer]

My friend told me he has ended talking to someone he was seriously considering marrying after he got information that she was previously went to shisha places a few years ago. He always talked positively of her and even had jecel and now he feels like he was lied to. False appearances. He held back his tongue because it is Ramadan.

I definently think he did the right thing and I promised him I would find him another woman but another friend of ours said he was too harsh and that she had changed and became more religious.

I think you have to have high standards. No one really changes and even if they do, the damage is already done. No one wants a mother who went to shisha

If she goes shisha shes a ty simple as that who would even consider marriage with a woman who smokes a big pipe that's not a woman that's a gangster

 

[AishaBarri]

People do not change. This girl sounds like a reformed . Whoever knowingly marries one, deserves whatever shitty life he signed up for.

There plenty of young,religious Somali women back home to marry from. There is no shortage

Didn't realize there was a correlation between shisha and being a . Ppl take off their clothes for shisha

 

[Samaalic Era]

Didn't realize there was a correlation between shisha and being a . Ppl take off their clothes for shisha

Girls who do shisha also sleep around. You think they do shisha and nothing else

 

[Sakiin]

Don't lie about the deen. What does islam say about Nationalism? Like really what does it say?

What does Islam say about brotherhood amongst Muslims?

What has an innocent Arab woman or child done to you? Or an Arab man who minds his own business?

Did the Prophet S.A.W not say that a Arab is not superior to a black man or a white man and vice versa?

So again why lie about the deen?

Since when have I undermined Islam, right now between the two of us who is lying about the deen?

You have a sickness, May Allah guide you. You seriously need to educate yourself on the gravity of nationalism.



Abu Dharr reproached Bilal about his mother, saying, “O son of a black woman!” Bilal went to the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and he told him what he said. The Prophet became angry and then Abu Dharr came, although he was unaware of what Bilal told him. The Prophet turned away from him and Abu Dharr asked, “O Messenger of Allah, have you turned away because of something you have been told?” The Prophet said:


Have you reproached Bilal about his mother? By the one who revealed the Book to Muhammad, none is more virtuous over another except by righteous deeds. You have none but an insignificant amount.

Wallah you need to repent about what you said about Madow people. That is not in accordance with our deen. Why do you ignore the countless hadiths that makesit clear that it is sinful to mock Allah's creation. Like do you sit there and makeup parts of the deen and cherry pick what you like?

The believers are nothing else than brothers. So make reconciliation between your brothers, and fear Allah, that you may receive mercy.” (Al-Hujurāt, 10)

This sister owned this thread.

Laakin please dont tell me you're going to marry an ajanabi, we need you for our somali gene pool lol

 

[Geeljire Sandheer]

Girls who do shisha also sleep around. You think they do shisha and nothing else

Lol exactly no one goes shisha to smoke flavours they go to socialize with new friends of the opposite gender

 

[Samaalic Era]

This sister owned this thread.

Laakin please dont tell me you're going to marry an ajanabi, we need you for our somali gene pool lol

You stance will change sooner rather than later.
Ajnabis are no friends of ours

 

[Samaalic Era]

Lol exactly no one goes shisha to smoke flavours they go to socialize with new friends of the opposite gender

Thats the truth. Somehow, many folks here are unable to grasp that truth

 

[Sakiin]

In the west 80% of Somalis have been to shisha bars. So the chances of you finding that perfect squeaky clean woman is rare.

Living in the west, being young and not religious leads to a lot of us making the wrong life decisions.

As a man if your friend finds that the girl is well mannered, she gets along well with her family members and there is a connection between them....he should overlook things. He is the man, the leader of the house....he can be a steady guide for her.

 

[AishaBarri]

Girls who do shisha also sleep around. You think they do shisha and nothing else

Yes.

What about men who smoke in general. Do the same rules apply?

 

[Geeljire Sandheer]

Thats the truth. Somehow, many folks here are unable to grasp that truth

There in denial sxb kkk feminism made everyone so defensive of women yet none of these guys would let their own women go to shisha

 

[Struggle]

Ikhawani honest to God stay away from Shisha Smoking s. My theory is very simple. Stay away from Shisha smoking girls, girls that were raised by single mothers (those that were raised by single dads are fine by me) and Feminists.