Would you court a female partner who earns more than you and is also more educated?

[SociallyAwkwardFarax]

What happens if the women makes more money than you? Do you think she'll treat you less of a man?

I don't know about that, I guess it depends on how she was raised.

 

[Abdisamad]

Never
I must outshine her

Guys back home love fat women because being fat is an indication of wealth..

 

[Abdisamad]

I don't know about that, I guess it depends on how she was raised.

Exactly.. And in the end whether you make less or more than her doesn't say anything about if you'll have a successful marriage or not.. As I see it, it all boils down to chemistry and how much you love and respect one another... I believe as long as you have patience and treat each other in a respectful manner that's the key to a successful marriage.

 

[SociallyAwkwardFarax]

Exactly.. And in the end whether you make less or more than her doesn't say anything about if you'll have a successful marriage or not.. As I see it, it all boils down to chemistry and how much you love and respect one another... I believe as long as you have patience and treat each other in a respectful manner that's the key to a successful marriage.

I don't mind personally if she makes more money, it's more about whether she's cool with being with a guy that makes less. I'm just saying generally it's expected for a guy to have more money, some women might not feel comfortable being the 'breadwinner'.

 

[Abdisamad]

I don't mind personally if she makes more money, it's more about whether she's cool with being with a guy that makes less. I'm just saying generally it's expected for a guy to have more money, some women might not feel comfortable being the 'breadwinner'.

Our society is fast changing bro, so anything is possible in today's world..

 

[Dino]

I must admit I found it tough when I saw my pay check and co pared it with my wife. Doctors man make a lot of money.

but then, I realised i Still had the upper hand.

 

[Desert Flower]

Lool mid-life crisis

Nah I just wanted to try something new.. And I agree some of these guys are behaving very strange, a real man has confidence in himself and is not scared by a woman with a degree and job.

If I tease you it means I like you, sheekada la soco dee.

 

[Abdisamad]

If I tease you it means I like you, sheekada la soco dee.

 

[Abba Sadacha]

if she is chaste, and is a good Muslim, and can teach our future children the religion; why not? I am still the man, and the leader of the household, regardless of how much she makes.