Would you warn a brother if he plans on marrying a ex-qumayo?

Does your wife have to gabadh bikro ah?

  • Yes man of course

  • Yes but if not, I will accept if she repented

  • No I don't care she does not even have to be Muslim

  • No I don't care about her previous sins

  • I don't know (I have never used my gus)

  • I will never get married ( I hate myself)


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The stigma that is attached to this is silly if they have repented their sins are all negated who are you then ughh
"Hurr duurh, only god can judge me" no, you absolute brain-dead xoolo, there are consequences and social repercussions to our actions.

A promiscuous past shows that the person has low impulse control and can't delay gratification, that is reason enough to avoid people with a "past".
Not to mention having multiple sexual partners negatively impacts your ability to pair-bond with future spouses. That faulty, bullshit-reasoning doesn't work on people with a functioning brain nayaa.
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Samaalic Era

QurboExit
"Hurr duurh, only god can judge me" no, you absolute brain-dead xoolo, there are consequences and social repercussions to our actions.

A promiscuous past shows that the person has low impulse control and can't delay gratification, that is reason enough to avoid people with a "past".
Not to mention having multiple sexual partners negatively impacts your ability to pair-bond with future spouses. That faulty, bullshit-reasoning doesn't work on people with a functioning brain nayaa.
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Just because a killer repents doesn't bring the dead back life

Tho0t Lawyers are working overtime sxb :drakelaugh:
 
Just because a killer repents doesn't bring the dead back life

**** Lawyers are working overtime sxb :drakelaugh:
100% sxb, repenting doesn't erase what you did. I don't judge women with a past, but it fucking infuriates me when they get on some moral high-horse and try to excuse their shit behaviour with flimsy, bullshit logic.
Quote all the hadiths you want, it wouldn't magically grow back your hymen:manny:
 

Yahya

2020 GRANDMASTER
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If you marry a woman form the west, unless she comes from a respectable family then she has most likely done something in her life.

I'd rather the woman be honest about things from the get go. But a woman that sleeps wiht lots of men will never be marriage worthy.

Most of yall that want ajnabi women. They definitely got a history.


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Samaalic Era

QurboExit
@Samaalic Era most of the men on sspot openly talk about them committing zina but suddenly they act all pious when they mention their futur wife.
When it comes to Zina, the Qur'an states that the pure are for the pure and vice versa. Zina in men blinds them

It is a debt that will catch up to you. Some men and women believe they can deceive Allah swt but engaging in Zina and then plan their repentance but little do they know what lies ahead

The Prophet pbuh mentioned one of the worldly curses of Zina is poverty among 2 other things
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Yahya

2020 GRANDMASTER
VIP
When it comes to Zina, the Qur'an states that the pure are for the pure and vice versa. Zina in men blinds them

It is a debt that will catch up to you. Some men and women believe they can deceive Allah swt but engaging in Zina and then plan their repentance but little do they know what lies ahead

The Prophet pbuh mentioned one of the worldly curses of Zina is poverty among 2 other things
:yacadiim:
2 words.....


Child support. Most men lose their money for 18 yrs due to zina.


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