Maybe it's fear that motivates them People who use others are afraid that if they don't they'll be losing out on a golden opportunity to "gain" something for nothingPeople in this day and age tend to look at other people as products to get and consume and throw away. Its a sad reality .. It's important parents to teach their children how to love and treat each other with respect and dignity. in order to change this negative attitude that people have towards on another.