to be fair the ones back home belong to the guys back home, but yeh they are priceless and i put thier worth over 10k and they can decide thier priceThats the Western ones sxb, never go near them. Im referring to the ones back home
to be fair the ones back home belong to the guys back home, but yeh they are priceless and i put thier worth over 10k and they can decide thier priceThats the Western ones sxb, never go near them. Im referring to the ones back home
no its too late to change now, i realised i made a huge error@geeljire madaxweyne Can you change up the syntax on the answers they confused the shit outta me.
no its too late to change now, i realised i made a huge error
no is the correct answer if your a self respecting somali manCan you tell me what is the correct answer?bls
no is the correct answer if your a self respecting somali man
pretty much yeahSo would that be....
Yes we're not (racist for not willing to pay mahr for Somali girls.)
or
No we are (racist for not willing to pay mahr for Somali girls.)?
pretty much yeah
i just realised how much i messed up
I've decided not to pay a single mahr for a somali girl if they ask am automatically moving on with an Eritrean baddie or oromo women even a harari buety like mudane Ahmed gurey reason being is
Somali women don't take mahr from ajnabis and clean their ajnabi husbands behind and get surprised when their treated worse then a hooker who at least gets paid then they get abused and discarded and blame somali men and their parents
If your not taking mahr from ajnabi men you shouldn't take it from us and you shouldn't accuse us of racism when we demand equal treatment at least be fair towards us all
10 close relatives, nikah in house or mosque, pay attendees 10 bucks, everyone goes home. You go home with your wife and live happily ever after. The wedding shouldnt be "the happiest day" of a womens life. Everyday of her marriage should be something she looks forward to and is happy with.Meher is an obligation don't know if your ****posting or serious but don't let online world become your reality. Outside of the UK this isn't a reality.
Now weddings are another matter. I will never understand why I should pay to feed and entertain other people to the point it makes me much worse off financially. We are not white upper middle class why do the Somali people in the west spend so much on weddings? When it's just an anxious nervous day for you? If your relatives wanna have a good time tell them to hit the club on their own dime.
This incel sounds familiar, is this geeljire sanbur alt account??
You talk like you can choose bro, reality is you will take whats given to you :siilaanyosmile:
There is a reason why fathers are tasked with marrying off their daughters between 15-19. They dont have any wisdom and will destroy herself. It is wajib on the father to find a suitable man and marry his daughter to him and secure her future and wellbeingIf a boy wants to have a halal reltionship they put obstacles, but if that same boy wants netflix and chill theyre all for it. Fitnada dumar ayaa ka dambeyo. Countless chicks aan shukansadey, they were head over heels, but when i go in for the kill wey cararan. They dont want marriage these females, they only want fitna
no its too late to change now, i realised i made a huge error
@Luciddreamer
Sxb, brother @Geeljire sanbuur is a lost cause even I as an incel healer have lost hope that he will ever recover. But brother @geeljire madaxweyne have been a roller coaster. I even joined his munaafiqiin the Cushitic movement so I could succeed with his healing. Every time we make progress, he lapses again into inceldom and now I’ve been told that he spends his weekends on a mafrish owned by ina Sanbuur. My last attempt is to organise him a GoFundMe account for his meher and burn that mafrish. Soo duceey and jeebka gacanta gelli, donate generously innagaa tol u ah ninkani.
lool why are you crying and throwing insults at me sahib your using shaming language to silence me its not gonna work, i do have money but am unwilling to pay becosue of the hypocritical double standards somali men face none of my points were challenged or debunkt, i just met a barrage of insults.@Luciddreamer
Sxb, brother @Geeljire sanbuur is a lost cause even I as an incel healer have lost hope that he will ever recover. But brother @geeljire madaxweyne have been a roller coaster. I even joined his munaafiqiin the Cushitic movement so I could succeed with his healing. Every time we make progress, he lapses again into inceldom and now I’ve been told that he spends his weekends on a mafrish owned by ina Sanbuur. My last attempt is to organise him a GoFundMe account for his meher and burn that mafrish. Soo duceey and jeebka gacanta gelli, donate generously innagaa tol u ah ninkani.
and i choose to pay one pound for mehr or one dollarsMeher is an obligation don't know if your ****posting or serious but don't let online world become your reality. Outside of the UK this isn't a reality.
Now weddings are another matter. I will never understand why I should pay to feed and entertain other people to the point it makes me much worse off financially. We are not white upper middle class why do the Somali people in the west spend so much on weddings? When it's just an anxious nervous day for you? If your relatives wanna have a good time tell them to hit the club on their own dime.
I am completely against monetary meher. A surah of the quran is enough. Marriage is not an exclusive vaction getaway that should be made hard to attain. It is a practice meant to curb fitna and immoral actions. Anyone who supports extravagant meher, he shall share in the sins of the fornicators.and i choose to pay one pound for mehr or one dollars