Are there a lot of childless Somali men that married single moms?

[Cartan Boos]

Don't forget, that Somali men back home, would cover for each other, as 'Dumaal', if there was a widow/divorce. But in the West, they want to neglect their wives, and then when their wives are single, scare Somali men away. OK then, don't complain if your children's stepdaddy is Abu Tyrone or Abu Ginger.

instead trying fix the issue they whining on the internet how bad singel mothers are for society, if u worried that much u must have answer for it instead of forever whining, i hate these people truly cancer, they never try fix anything just whine and argue

 

[Angelina]

people divorce it's normal shit, instead of fixing singel motherhoodcrisis by helping them remary u niggas are ruining it by stigmazation it and making them imossible for them to remarry thus having more fucked fatherless kids, if so then u low iq

Very low IQ.

The bar is in hell. No woman is saying a young unmarried man should consider a women that has kids. In fact the vast majority of single mothers probably prefer men who understand fatherhood to create a blended family with.

What we’re saying is, don’t insult them, don’t belittle them and don’t mock men who are okay with marrying one. Stop trying to treat them as a some sort of social pariah. And the issue is that these men also believe that men with kids should also avoid them and get a ‘fresh woman’. It’s the dehumanizing language of us women being little more than products. We’re either new shiny toys on shelves or second hand goods. It’s nasty Wallahi and any single woman who has never married feels sickened by it as well.

Dont get me started on how they’re increasing the social issues that we have as well. We have high divorce rates and tbh as Somalis we always have which is probably why divorced women always remarried. Imagine having a surplus of young 25 yr old divorced women remaining single for life? That will be detrimental for society, because let’s be real, many men are predatory as we’ve seen with that Dawah guy case, they’re still going to try and get sexual access to a young and attractive single mother causing even more fitnah.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

instead trying fix the issue they whining on the internet how bad singel mothers are for society, if u worried that much u must have anwer for it instead of forever whining, i hate these people truly cancer, they never try fix anything just whine and argue

Funnily enough, the men with the nasty attitudes, are the ones more likely to be left/divorced. They are the ones who would benefit from their ex-wife having a new husband who can provide/protect their children.

Whereas men with healthy attitudes, are more responsible and can choose better and maintain a marriage better. We should let the doqons fall down the pit they dug for themselves.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Very low IQ.

The bar is in hell. No woman is saying a young unmarried man should consider a women that has kids. In fact the vast majority of single mothers probably prefer men who understand fatherhood to create a blended family with.

Facts, it makes more sense for divorced people to pool their babies together and create a new family unit.

What we’re saying is, don’t insult them, don’t belittle them and don’t mock men who are okay with marrying one. Stop trying to treat them as a some sort of social pariah. And the issue is that these men also believe that men with kids should also avoid them and get a ‘fresh woman’. It’s the dehumanizing language of us women being little more than products. We’re either new shiny toys on shelves or second hand goods. It’s nasty Wallahi and any single woman who has never married feels sickened by it as well.

Exactly. Most single people, don't want divorced/widows unless they are really into them. Simply because of the worry, fear and extra responsibility. That makes sense. But to speak of women, as if they are objects that are 'one time use', is so revolting. These freaks have c0rn fried brains.

Dont get me started on how they’re increasing the social issues that we have as well. We have high divorce rates and tbh as Somalis we always have which is probably why divorced women always remarried. Imagine having a surplus of young 25 yr old divorced women remaining single for life? That will be detrimental for society, because let’s be real, many men are predatory as we’ve seen with that Dawah guy case, they’re still going to try and get sexual access to a young and attractive single mother causing even more fitnah.

What's even more disgraceful is when they try to tie it to Islam, when the Prophet SAW, if I am not mistaken had only ONE virginal wife; Aisha (RA). They worship Dawah bros and redpill losers and not the Prophet (SAW), that is supposed to be their role models. Yaab

 

[Cartan Boos]

Funnily enough, the men with the nasty attitudes, are the ones more likely to be left/divorced. They are the ones who would benefit from their ex-wife having a new husband who can provide/protect their children.

Whereas men with healthy attitudes, are more responsible and can choose better and maintain a marriage better. We should let the doqons fall down the pit they dug for themselves.

it truly sad how young muslim men imitate kafir ideology and act lost as if they don't have the best male role models prophet muhammed scw and other prophets, why do they follow these loser kuffar blackpilled? i truly don't understand, i think they worst then those non muslim who follow these losers bc they guineinely lost and don't have the right path unlike muslim men

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

it truly sad how young muslim men imitate kafir ideology and act lost as if they don't have the best male role models prophet muhammed scw and other prophets, why do they follow these loser kuffar blackpilled? i truly don't understand, i think they worst then those non muslim who follow these losers bc they guineinely lost and don't have the right path unlike muslim men

Every single one of their red/black pill role models, has come out lately, to insult them, ranging from racism (Tate), islamophobia to xenophobia (Podcast freak called Myron). This is what they deserve for following perverts, pimps and misogynists and not the Prophet SAW and other masculine men.

I recently posted a topic about a study that proved that active fathers create children that are more academically successful.

Children with active fathers have higher IQ levels

Children who spend time with their fathers have a higher IQ Children who spend large amounts of time with their fathers have higher IQs, according to a new study. “Children who spend large amounts of time with their fathers have higher IQs,” The Daily Telegraphreported. It said that...

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Just another one today, that theorises that active fathers help children push past fear. Now, compare that to the lack of fathers in certain communities, and it's easy to see why we have a growing population of weird men, who 'failed to launch'.

Active fathers create braver children

https://x.com/DontWorryBoutB/status/1809985856771424575

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[AbdiFreedom]

If you're going to divorce, do it before there are children. You should know before then if the person you married is trash. Somalis will have multiple kids and then end it when it's too late.

There's plenty of people who will marry single mothers/fathers.

 

[Cartan Boos]

Every single one of their red/black pill role models, has come out lately, to insult them, ranging from racism (Tate), islamophobia to xenophobia (Podcast freak called Myron). This is what they deserve for following perverts, pimps and misogynists and not the Prophet SAW and other masculine men.

I recently posted a topic about a study that proved that active fathers create children that are more academically successful.

Children with active fathers have higher IQ levels

Children who spend time with their fathers have a higher IQ Children who spend large amounts of time with their fathers have higher IQs, according to a new study. “Children who spend large amounts of time with their fathers have higher IQs,” The Daily Telegraphreported. It said that...

www.somalispot.com

Just another one today, that theorises that active fathers help children push past fear. Now, compare that to the lack of fathers in certain communities, and it's easy to see why we have a growing population of weird men, who 'failed to launch'.

it genuinely disheartening

 

[Cartan Boos]

If you're going to divorce, do it before there are children. You should know before then if the person you married is trash. Somalis will have multiple kids and then end it when it's too late.

There's plenty of people who will marry single mothers/fathers.

even if they have kids nothing bad about it, if u genuinely care about these issue u will not mock and insult the answer for it ''other men having no prop marrying and raising the kids''

 

[AbdiFreedom]

even if they have kids nothing bad about it, if u genuinely care about these issue u will not mock and insult the answer for it ''other men having no prop marrying and raising the kids''

Divorce is bad when kids are involved. Somalis need to stop normalizing that shit and end the marriage before kids come into the picture. It's a major reason for alot of the community's problems.

 

[Angelina]

If you're going to divorce, do it before there are children. You should know before then if the person you married is trash. Somalis will have multiple kids and then end it when it's too late.

There's plenty of people who will marry single mothers/fathers.

That’s not particularly true. There are various studies that show that some men are more abusive or start being abusive when the wife is pregnant.

You need to understand that abusers and predators like to get you at your weakest. Why start in the beginning when the wife is probably working, doesn’t have any kids and can easily just go back home and tell him to ‘F’ himself?

A cunning man will convince you to give up your job since ‘he can provide’, get you pregnant and then abuse you. A man that shows his hand will disrespect you from jump. But some people are more calculating than others.

 

[AbdiFreedom]

That’s not particularly true. There are various studies that show that some men are more abusive or start being abusive when the wife is pregnant.

You need to understand that abusers and predators like to get you at your weakest. Why start in the beginning when the wife is probably working, doesn’t have any kids and can easily just go back home and tell him to ‘F’ himself?

A cunning man will convince you to give up your job since ‘he can provide’, get you pregnant and then abuse you. A man that shows his hand will disrespect you from jump. But some people are more calculating than others.

Somali men are much less likely to abuse their wives compared to other communities. Somali men also do not control their wives by telling them to give up their jobs. Divorce in the Somali community primarily occurs due to being a deadbeat, unhelpful, toxic or unbearable negative emotions.

 

[Angelina]

Somali men are much less likely to abuse their wives compared to other communities. Somali men also do not control their wives by telling them to give up their jobs. Divorce in the Somali community primarily occurs due to being a deadbeat, unhelpful, toxic or unbearable negative emotions.

Abuse most definitely happens and it’s usually emotional abuse and neglect. Somali men don’t usually beat their wives so the abusive amongst them resorts to neglect and bullying. Also, I never said they stop their wives from working. It’s a case of convincing her to since ‘he’s got it’ and many women won’t mind if they have a provider husband but sadly that’s when some men start to show their true colors.

By the way, just because physical abuse isn’t seen as acceptable in our community doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen.

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[AbdiFreedom]

Abuse most definitely happens and it’s usually emotional abuse and neglect. Somali men don’t usually beat their wives so the abusive amongst them resorts to neglect and bullying.

You will get clues about someone's true colours within a few months. Someone who does not say please and thank you to waiters or someone who is short tempered with others will likely be the same with you. Or someone who does not hold the door for the stranger behind them. All of these behaviours will come out if you don't marry the person so quickly (Somalis always so this) or if you care about other important stuff beyond the person can make you laugh every 30 mins.

 

[Angelina]

You will get clues about someone's true colours within a few months. Someone who does not say please and thank you to waiters or someone who is short tempered with others will likely be the same with you. Or someone who does not hold the door for the stranger behind them. All of these behaviours will come out if you don't marry the person so quickly (Somalis always so this) or if you care about other important stuff beyond the person can make you laugh every 30 mins.

That requires extensive dating. Some people are raised conservatively and tend to marry within 6-8 months meeting once a week or every two weeks and talking on the phone. Very easy to keep up a facade.

 

[AbdiFreedom]

That requires extensive dating. Some people are raised conservatively and tend to marry within 6-8 months meeting once a week or every two weeks and talking on the phone. Very easy to keep up a facade.

You can be raised conservatively and still do the 1-2 year talking stage. You should have met with the person in-person at least 50 times for hours each before marrying them. Red flags will come out, usually within the first 3 months of regular, consistent meetings.

 

[Angelina]

You can be raised conservatively and still do the 1-2 year talking stage. You should have met with the person in-person at least 50 times for hours each before marrying them. Red flags will come out, usually within the first 3 months of regular, consistent meetings.

No, more than a yr is insanity. NO.

 

[AbdiFreedom]

No, more than a yr is insanity. NO.

No, it's being smart. Somalis speaking for weeks or a few months has proven to be a complete failure. The approach should change. You will see red flags way before 1 year anyway. People talk less than 5 times and then wonder why the man emotionally abused them. Let's be real here. Somalis don't vet properly and don't take any accountability for it.

 

[Rayaale]

She’s not exactly lying. I’m happy that Somali culture doesn’t stigmatize divorcees and widows. This probably has a lot to do with our nomadic roots, which often emphasize community support. However, I can’t help finding these kinds of tweets tone-deaf

It’s about the stigma which is non-existent in our community,you should see how South Asian and Arab women go through when they are divorced they are untouchable and in some cases they get even disowned by their own family.

 

[Angelina]

No, it's being smart. Somalis speaking for weeks or a few months has proven to be a complete failure. The approach should change. You will see red flags way before 1 year anyway. People talk less than 5 times and then wonder why the man emotionally abused them. Let's be real here. Somalis don't vet properly and don't take any accountability for it.

That’s silly. White people date for 5 yrs AND cohabit and still have high divorce rates!