At what age would you like to have children?

[AishaBarri]

Says people who want everyone to be only career focused.

True but it takes a lot longer to get established these days. Without a stable career = no money. And by the time people are ready they’re apparently too old. That’s the dilemma

 

[Marsh]

i'd say mid to late twenties
i've noticed that lots of somali couples have children early on in the marriage so it can honestly depend on when you get married

I wonder why that is

 

[Gambar]

You will never really be ready to have kids you just have to go with it.

 

[Marcus]

I want to be young when my kids reach adulthood. Don't want them to be overburden with having an old dad.

 

[sambuusi]

I wonder why that is

maybe because some of them don't really put importance on the stability of the relationship before getting straight to it and adding children to the equation (at least from what i've seen personally)

 

[Ayaanle__]

I need 10 children before I reach 30 that should give you an idea

 

[Marsh]

I want to be young when my kids reach adulthood. Don't want them to be overburden with having an old dad.

Its a hard thing to balance you want to have the money and stability to give them a good life which takes time but you want to be young to see them have children and not hinder thier lives with you becoming old.

 

[Radical]

Anti natalism as well? Man you're fully lost.

That argument could be made for every era of human history.

Easy with the labels, antinatalists hate kids all together and support the extinction of the human race

I'm not against the idea of having kids and haven't even firmly stated my position on that subject so I don't know where you're getting that from, I'm saying adopting is more morally benificial but I also support the idea of doing both

 

[Sol]

28 at the latest

 

[a y a n]

24/25
adopting a bunch of daughters from India in Hindu regions to both save themselves from eternal jahannam and torture in Hindu society
I’d be doing the world a favor

 

[Marsh]

maybe because some of them don't really put importance on the stability of the relationship before getting straight to it and adding children to the equation (at least from what i've seen personally)

I was thinking not using protection but that could be it

 

[Gedogyal]

28+. I don’t want a lot of children anyways.
I want to live my life (travel, work etc) before I can take care of another human being.

Plus I want my children to have the best life possible, which I dont think I can give them in my early-mid 20’s.

Oh and I’d like to adopt too

 

[Yukon_Niner]

No idea if I'm gonna be honest, probably not but on the off chance I change it's most likely gonna be 27 and above.

 

[Ayaanle__]

For the people who want to be childless won’t you get bored of the empty house.

 

[sambuusi]

I was thinking not using protection but that could be it

that too of course lmao
some somalis think it's normal to have children young too

 

[Marcus]

For the people who want to be childless won’t you get bored of the empty house.

They're mad, when they reach 45, they'll visit the fertility doctor with regret.

They say they want to live and travel, but shit gets boring fast. You can see the whole world in 2 years.

 

[a y a n]

Or from China, or south east Asia, they all involve in a bit too much infanticide and child abandonment

me and my adopted daughters gonna turn up

 

[Marcus]

18 to 20 my grandfather had his first child when he was 15 he went on to have 18 children allah u naxaristo he was great man always did right to his kin and fought in wars when our clan was threatened may allah give the highest level of jannah

If you want to be an Uber driver for a career

 

[Jungle]

The earlier the better. Old guy with a bunch of infants running around without adult kids, thats not me

 

[Ayaanle__]

They're mad, when they reach 45, they'll visit the fertility doctor with regret.

They say they want to live and travel, but shit gets boring fast. You can see the whole world in 2 years.

They are copying the cadaans