Not really. Since how do you know he wasn’t giving them money? Don’t get me wrong, I’m the first to criticize this arrangement since Somalis definitely abuse polygamy, but getting someone deported and then mentioning his wife is struggling is crazy. Have you stopped to think that maybe she’s struggling because you deported her money source?
Who exactly benefitted from him being deported? And how does someone get deported for polygamy, it's not like they were legally married?
Sometimes you have to show an example in order to warn the others. Siyaad styleNot really. Since how do you know he wasn’t giving them money? Don’t get me wrong, I’m the first to criticize this arrangement since Somalis definitely abuse polygamy, but getting someone deported and then mentioning his wife is struggling is crazy. Have you stopped to think that maybe she’s struggling because you deported her money source?
Self awareness is surely lacking indeed.
it doesn’t matter. If you’re legally married and have nikkah with another woman, you’re still breaking the law
I know this 70 something yr old somali man who married divorced multiple women in his younger years. He has a total of 32 children yet has no relationship with any of his children. This old fool is in denial and says good children are calaf. He has been tested with all his children becoming caasi and it's the mothers that made the children hate him. All your 32 adult children are caasi???!
I doubt this story,there’s no way all his 32 kids are caasi to him either you heard this story from someone or you made it up
No self reflection and no accountability.
He had never apologized to his children for his deadbeat ways. Each time he divorced a woman, he divorced the children he had with her as well. Some of his ex wives remarried and some didn't but they all raised the children well surprisingly. His 19 daughters are all highly educated and hold great positions in the diaspora. I knew he was problematic when old fool called his grandson from his cardiologist daughter a wecel. Reason; she married a fellow cardiologist Lebanese man and didn't bother to ask for his permission.
Imagine being so bitter and in denial of how you failed to establish a relationship with your children, and now you resort to badmouthing your grandchildren.
Recently, he got diagnosed with a terminal illness. None of his 32 children visit him and none will shed a tear when he dies as he is a stranger to them. Such is the fate of halal sperm donors..
They reap what they sow
Not really. Since how do you know he wasn’t giving them money? Don’t get me wrong, I’m the first to criticize this arrangement since Somalis definitely abuse polygamy, but getting someone deported and then mentioning his wife is struggling is crazy. Have you stopped to think that maybe she’s struggling because you deported her money source?
Self awareness is surely lacking indeed.
ii waad sheekada
The moral of the story is that YOU are the plague that has destroyed communitiesThe plague that has destroyed our community is poverty ridden geriatric Somali men who start multiple families. And of course the retarded women who open their legs for these men. Halal babymommas!
As a woman, your purpose is to marry the man with the most resources and wealth. What brought you to an uncle that is actively avoiding his 6 other kids??. There was this Somali uncle in my neighbourhood. I always thought that he was a great father to his kids until he married a woman (whilst being married to the mother of his kids). That made me report him to the police and now he got deported alhamdulilah. The old wife is now struggling to take care of her kids and his new wife is living as a single mom too cause he left her pregnant. The moral of the story is - these men are not shit.
We’re no better than the AAs who produce bastards. In fact, I’m sure most of you are legally bastards whose parents fooled the system into giving them more ceer.
This dysfunction is also tied to the high criminal rates in the community. The young Somali male seeks out criminal male leadership because his father is piping some maid in xamar instead of raising him like how a parent should.
How can we create a high trust society if openly cheating on your life partner is accepted? Scamming the state whilst claiming to be a righteous Muslim? War ilaahi yaqaan. Sometimes I think dad inkaarsan ba tihin bc why do we see the same dysfunctional pattern in every country you migrate to?
Mac salam
So how did you reporting him help anything apart from making it worse?The plague that has destroyed our community is poverty ridden geriatric Somali men who start multiple families. And of course the retarded women who open their legs for these men. Halal babymommas!
As a woman, your purpose is to marry the man with the most resources and wealth. What brought you to an uncle that is actively avoiding his 6 other kids??. There was this Somali uncle in my neighbourhood. I always thought that he was a great father to his kids until he married a woman (whilst being married to the mother of his kids). That made me report him to the police and now he got deported alhamdulilah. The old wife is now struggling to take care of her kids and his new wife is living as a single mom too cause he left her pregnant. The moral of the story is - these men are not shit.
We’re no better than the AAs who produce bastards. In fact, I’m sure most of you are legally bastards whose parents fooled the system into giving them more ceer.
This dysfunction is also tied to the high criminal rates in the community. The young Somali male seeks out criminal male leadership because his father is piping some maid in xamar instead of raising him like how a parent should.
How can we create a high trust society if openly cheating on your life partner is accepted? Scamming the state whilst claiming to be a righteous Muslim? War ilaahi yaqaan. Sometimes I think dad inkaarsan ba tihin bc why do we see the same dysfunctional pattern in every country you migrate to?
Mac salam
Doesn’t make sense since a man being legally married and cheating and having a side family in America is legal. Bigamy in which you have a marriage license for both is illegal.
Are you mad? You said you got a man deported just because he married a second woman in your neighbourhood and you are saying yourself both women are worse off today.
