I plan to destroy these lavish weddings by setting a trend of a small family gatherings and thats it, no eves droppers or the back biters present and no pain in hiring a place just to destroy it hours later.
So you wouldn't have a large wedding?Good for you.
Well dating isn't allowed so what should they do?
This question is tricky and sensitive issue in modern day era. A question which I sadly have no answer for, one must either do something society totaly is abhorrent against or confirm to its message which may also impact the success of a marriage. If I could I wish all couples to wait and get to know each other I know sex is something which is heavily ingrained in our existence as humans. However we have control and reasoning something which most animals lack, therefore get to know eachother ensure you go out for meals and see if this person is not your temporary man but someone who is a potential for you permanently. Do not be afraid to asses him criticaly you do this in your academic studies why not when getting to know a person. And finaly assess his or her family as well they will be a part of you as well, thus they can make or break the relationship you have established with this person.
Yes that's halal as long as a mehram is present someone to keep an owls eye on the couple whilst they engage in their outings. Reminds me of victorian England where ladies would be guarded closely by their relatives when out to ensure she kept her uara of chastity.
Hmm I wouldn't feel comfortable with a mehram watching my every move it would dampen the whole experience for me. We're not animals we can control ourselves, however when feeling the heat of infatuation one can easily go into a basic instinct of desire and lust, with an unexpected and unanticipated kiss which you never knew could happen lol. I believe as long as your not tearing the clothes of eachother a simple peck on the cheeks to illustrate affection is acceptable.
I am surprised Qumayadii DhegDheer didn't show up yet
Have a nice weekend guys. All of you.
fuley
It's expensive and if no national healthcare is present it will never be implimented. Drugs cost money sadly money is something economicly deprived countries cannot afford to use.I don't think anyone is gonna listen... It's a shame birth control isn't easily available there
Why not just @ me?
True if your willing to have sex use protection unless the men choose to not do so out of ignorance. For instance no condom is more pleasurable ?Condoms are easily found in Hargeisa and most big Somali cities. Use a condom folks otherwise end up like the African Americans
with thousands of bastard children littered everywhere.
Then it's pure ignorance to just have sex and leave it to god. What the hell are these women and men deficient in common sense ? If you wish to have sex then by all means barrier yourself especially if it's out of wedlock
