Beled Xawo BANS lavish weddings in order to stop youth from migrating and encourage them to marry

[AussieHustler]

So, they're not only banning the mehr amount, but the wedding reception, and housing cost? What's next? If Xalimos don't want to marry a Farah, they're going forced them to get married? What's the punishment if you don't follow these "laws"?

Xalimos marry converts for an apple meher with no reception at all and some pay their own fares to Syria to become a jihadi bride, if the religious people construct religious arguments based on qaala laah iyo qaala rasuula laah banning lavish weddings, most xalimos will abide by.

 

[Bohol]

Then it's pure ignorance to just have sex and leave it to god. What the hell are these women and men deficient in common sense ? If you wish to have sex then by all means barrier yourself especially if it's out of wedlock

Mistakes happen , if it happened by accident I would force her to abort the fetus. I am too young to be a father yet.

 

[SenseSays]

Mistakes happen , if it happened by accident I would force her to abort the fetus. I am too young to be a father yet.

How would you do that?

 

[Bohol]

@SenseSays By making it clear if she decides to keep it I will have no part in the baby's life and I will deny being the father.
No girl wants to raise a baby without a father, so she will do it.

 

[Thegoodshepherd]

Absolutly terrible idea. They just lifted a limit on birth rates in a country where population growth is pushing people to the edge of physical subsistence. You literally could not come up with a worse idea!

Who the hell advises these people?

 

[Bahal]

Absolutly terrible idea. They just lifted a limit on birth rates in a country where population growth is pushing people to the edge of physical subsistence. You literally could not come up with a worse idea!

Who the hell advises these people?

 

[John Michael]

They divorce due to incompatibility hastened through sexual lust, where western people take atleast 3 years to get to know each other, in the religious community sex is sacred therefore it's much more difficult for a couple to maintain chast for that long. After infatuation and lust is exterminated through the catapulting heat of a few weeks in honeymoon bliss, they find they no longer desire sex as much, thus the lust stage has ended their courtship is now in question. The reality of marriage is starting to kick in. This is the crucial stage when conflict and divorce is a likelihood to arise. Had they gotten to know each other for longer within a few months their flaws would have emerged long ago. And their pain would have ended no divorce no guilt and certainly no waste of financial recourses.

Most people who practice the western way of dating including testing out partners and living in are more likely to divorce actually.

 

[TheLibertarianQuiche]

I thought soldiers take 250/mo each. Is it more than that?

I meant there's no need to hire one in PL. You are safe.

 

[TheLibertarianQuiche]

As an official you have to. There have been a many targeted killings taking places, the victims always being prominent officials and businessmen. Typically perpetrated by ASWJ and you know who.

In Garowe most don't see a need. My great-aunt lives next door to Ali Haji Warsame (He was education minister in 2015 idk whether he still is) and he had no armed guards. But if you live Bosasso and Galkacyo then there is a need if you are a cabinet official or someone worth targeting.

 

[SenseSays]

LOL. That is true. And they also want to get married to anyone who is promising them a trip to the west. They should just ban Somali immigration and no country should accept any more Somalis.

The trip to the promised land is the ultimate goal walaalow, no country is going to close the gates for our people.

 

[EternalLightX]

In Garowe most don't see a need. My great-aunt lives next door to Ali Haji Warsame (He was education minister in 2015 idk whether he still is) and he had no armed guards. But if you live Bosasso and Galkacyo then there is a need if you are a cabinet official or someone worth targeting.

Haha the promised land PL,

 

[TheLibertarianQuiche]

Haha the promised land PL,

Are you PLer or...

 

[EternalLightX]

Are you PLer or...

Yeah I am :/ you've got a problem with it ? I'm going there on the 20th of Jan yaaaaay

 

[Transparent]

Yeah I am :/ you've got a problem with it ? I'm going there on the 20th of Jan yaaaaay

what part?

 

[Transparent]

Yeah I am :/ you've got a problem with it ? I'm going there on the 20th of Jan yaaaaay[/QUOTE]

which city

 

[EternalLightX]

which city

Garowe I do not know the cities tbh with you it will be my first time going there.

 

[TheLibertarianQuiche]

Yeah I am :/ you've got a problem with it ? I'm going there on the 20th of Jan yaaaaay

I was going to be in Garowe at that time no joke but stuff doesn't work out the way you wanted it to.

I changed my date to April.

 

[EternalLightX]

I was going to be in Garowe at that time no joke but stuff doesn't work out the way you wanted it to.

I changed my date to April.

What happened ? Is it due to the drought ?

 

[TheLibertarianQuiche]

What happened ? Is it due to the drought ?

I go back to school on the 31st of Jan. No time.

 

[Transparent]

i was gonna go qardho this year but my gramps advised against it .We have a huge family back home on my dad's side and because there was drought they would all beg us for money and shit