Yes, you can. It's better that way. Somalis don't take the mehr seriously. It's a debt the man must pay and it's dambi if he doesn't pay it. Most Somali women wee uu cafiyaan but the mehr is binding.
Btw what you're planning to do is dambi too and unless you're asking for a low mehr I doubt that your hefty mehr will suddenly skip his memory.
Btw what you're planning to do is dambi too and unless you're asking for a low mehr I doubt that your hefty mehr will suddenly skip his memory.