the problem is somalis are allergic to change they need to be force fed change
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He added too many steps at times and went and married the hooyos. I'll simply plant, wait for the harvest and abscond with the crop. Also, none of that IVF stuff to weirdly select for male only births. I am not gabarphobic. In fact, I will raise my daughters to believe they are better than my sons and convince the boys they're inherently dumber. Just for fun. Let's see what happens. I volunteer my seeds for a scientific experiment against their will.
Now that i think more about it you are gunning to become more like this guy
'Sperminator' who has fathered 78 children says he just 'can't say no'
New York college professor Ari Nagel, 44, has fathered 78 children and currently has 13 women pregnant. He appeared on The Dr. Oz Show and told how he just 'can't say no.'
I've seen and heard too many fed up family dynamics from them. The Aabo was the sole provider and financially abusing the mom. Constantly getting abused and beat down. Threatened with getting harmed if they do something to dishonour their family or not follow their ways. I have so many horror stories from them its crazy. Once you go out to the world and see how other people live you realize as a whole the human race is messed up. There's not one group of people that are exemplary at all or worth idolizing. Besides the prophet muhammad saw. Lastly they got the same issues we have whether poor or rich.
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This is so true. Countless times when some1 isnt mentally there the parents will rush them to marry. They have a superstition tht marriage will cure them. Its a big fat lie. Wht usually happens is they will soon divorce and if a child is born the kid will grow up with no stability. I used to think only our parents thought like this but nope even arab families think this way. This arab tiktoker was telling people to stop marrying their alcholic/mentally disabled sons to village girls back home.
they wanted it all just to say they got a man lol. it doesnβt take three kids to realise your man is a straight-up loser and deadbeat. the mothers donβt take any initiative to make the dads step up, instead, they keep enabling them. then they spoil their sons into becoming the same useless men while neglecting their daughters or forcing them to become mothers way before their time to their other children. sorry, but somali people arenβt great at parenting. iβve noticed they encourage their daughters to marry any man just because heβs muslim or somali. a lot of them are pick-mes who think having a family and a man is some kind of achievement and nobody is jealous of you. Iβll kill myself before I become a mother of a million bastards, fr even one is too much.
I believe westernized gen Z and millennial somali men will be the best fathers within our community. Simply because most of us grew up in the west and have seen the way successful men raise their children.
The men I'm worried about the most though are gen Z and millennial fathers raised back home
. The Gen X and Somali boomer fathers they were raised by are currently considered the worst fathers in our entire ethnic group. A lot of these young men were not taught how to raise successful children.I noticed that we share this custom with the peoples of the Horn of Africa and the Arabian Gulf, where men walk in front and women walk behind.
The Arabian Gulf also has this nomadic culture like ours, where men do not participate in domestic chores.
But today's golf generations are trying to change this habit and adapt to the new demands of modern life.
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Old thread i found on timojileec/arab Muslims talking about African womenβ¦.- Started by caanoshaah
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