the problem is somalis are allergic to change they need to be force fed change
Deadbeat culture
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He added too many steps at times and went and married the hooyos. I'll simply plant, wait for the harvest and abscond with the crop. Also, none of that IVF stuff to weirdly select for male only births. I am not gabarphobic. In fact, I will raise my daughters to believe they are better than my sons and convince the boys they're inherently dumber. Just for fun. Let's see what happens. I volunteer my seeds for a scientific experiment against their will.
Now that i think more about it you are gunning to become more like this guy
'Sperminator' who has fathered 78 children says he just 'can't say no'
New York college professor Ari Nagel, 44, has fathered 78 children and currently has 13 women pregnant. He appeared on The Dr. Oz Show and told how he just 'can't say no.'
I've seen and heard too many fed up family dynamics from them. The Aabo was the sole provider and financially abusing the mom. Constantly getting abused and beat down. Threatened with getting harmed if they do something to dishonour their family or not follow their ways. I have so many horror stories from them its crazy. Once you go out to the world and see how other people live you realize as a whole the human race is messed up. There's not one group of people that are exemplary at all or worth idolizing. Besides the prophet muhammad saw. Lastly they got the same issues we have whether poor or rich.
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This is so true. Countless times when some1 isnt mentally there the parents will rush them to marry. They have a superstition tht marriage will cure them. Its a big fat lie. Wht usually happens is they will soon divorce and if a child is born the kid will grow up with no stability. I used to think only our parents thought like this but nope even arab families think this way. This arab tiktoker was telling people to stop marrying their alcholic/mentally disabled sons to village girls back home.
they wanted it all just to say they got a man lol. it doesnβt take three kids to realise your man is a straight-up loser and deadbeat. the mothers donβt take any initiative to make the dads step up, instead, they keep enabling them. then they spoil their sons into becoming the same useless men while neglecting their daughters or forcing them to become mothers way before their time to their other children. sorry, but somali people arenβt great at parenting. iβve noticed they encourage their daughters to marry any man just because heβs muslim or somali. a lot of them are pick-mes who think having a family and a man is some kind of achievement and nobody is jealous of you. Iβll kill myself before I become a mother of a million bastards, fr even one is too much.
I believe westernized gen Z and millennial somali men will be the best fathers within our community. Simply because most of us grew up in the west and have seen the way successful men raise their children.
The men I'm worried about the most though are gen Z and millennial fathers raised back home
. The Gen X and Somali boomer fathers they were raised by are currently considered the worst fathers in our entire ethnic group. A lot of these young men were not taught how to raise successful children.I noticed that we share this custom with the peoples of the Horn of Africa and the Arabian Gulf, where men walk in front and women walk behind.
The Arabian Gulf also has this nomadic culture like ours, where men do not participate in domestic chores.
But today's golf generations are trying to change this habit and adapt to the new demands of modern life.
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There are just as many terrible Somali women as there are terrible Somali men from what I see in the community. Many Somali men with unexpressed and avoidant issues and many Somali women have anger and personality disorders. Somali women I see in the community for example are very disagreeable compared to other women. You have to be generally agreeable in relationships and at the workplace to be successful.
Kulaha nin baadiyo joogo is lazy.
She has no clue how many kms he has to walk a day in that hot sun, with the threat of other clans/highway robbers etc. Different seasons, different journeys. A man would be away from his family for months looking for grazing for his livestock and selling/buying.
I know relative elders who used to travel for one year on foot whilst having no other sustenance than camel milk.
Anyways, another thread attacking and belittling Somali men. Alhamdullilah I have a great dad who worked hard for his family. He used to even work night shifts sometimes, and still drive me to school and pick me up. He would take my mum shopping, wait in the car(because she would always take ages, and a 1 hour shop would turn to 2/3 hours.) He would take me to soccer practice on his days off, and I used to chill in the living room with him on saturday nights whilst he chewed and he would
speak to me about Somalia,his youth and old somali stories.
He would take us on day trips during vacations, and make us visit relatives with him and remind us of the importance of maintaining ties of kinship.
Throughout my youth he was a shoulder i leant on for support and advice. And as an adult he is always the first person I confine in and speak to about any issues or thoughts on my mind.
A dad or a mum isn't a superhuman, they are not perfect, human beings all have different personalities. Some are closed off and reserved, but still love you under the cold exterior...others are social with their kids and Alhamdullilah I got a father who has always loved talking to us and making us laugh.
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Sayings I learnt from my dad at a young age
Nin aa shaqeesan shaah waa ka xaaran (a man who doesn't work, tea(money) is haraam for him)
Hadu Shaatigaada cadyahay nin og ina baahanta ma jiro( if your clothes are white(clean and well dressed) no one will know that you're hungry)
Ψ§ΩΨΨ¨ Ψ¨ΨΉΨ― Ψ²ΩΨ§Ψ¬ (Love comes after marriage- everything before it is a lie)
Don't be a sheep, don't follow others.
Your only true friends are your siblings
Nin is faaniyay waa ri is nuugtay(A man who praises himself is like a female goat which sucks milk from its own teat)
Labaatan jir intu geed ka boodo talada ka booda( a 20 year old(youth) as he jumps over a tree he will jump over advice i.e is reckless in decision making)
Luuq luuq maroow laasim laamiga wuu imaana(the one who goes through alleys/side streets In the end he will end up on the main road i.e hide something or try to deceive in the end everything will come out in the open).
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And I forgot the most important thing...he was the one who taught me how to read the Quran. Learning Kicis somali style was very difficult, but alhamdullilah he will get reward for it in this life and the next whenever I recite quran. Lool reminiscing has made me write a lot of stuff.
Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, βNo child can repay his father unless he finds him as a slave, purchases him, and emanicaptes him.β
Source: SΜ£ahΜ£iΜhΜ£ Muslim 1510
Nin aa shaqeesan shaah waa ka xaaran (a man who doesn't work, tea(money) is haraam for him)
Hadu Shaatigaada cadyahay nin og ina baahanta ma jiro( if your clothes are white(clean and well dressed) no one will know that you're hungry)
Ψ§ΩΨΨ¨ Ψ¨ΨΉΨ― Ψ²ΩΨ§Ψ¬ (Love comes after marriage- everything before it is a lie)
Don't be a sheep, don't follow others.
Your only true friends are your siblings
Nin is faaniyay waa ri is nuugtay(A man who praises himself is like a female goat which sucks milk from its own teat)
Labaatan jir intu geed ka boodo talada ka booda( a 20 year old(youth) as he jumps over a tree he will jump over advice i.e is reckless in decision making)
Luuq luuq maroow laasim laamiga wuu imaana(the one who goes through alleys/side streets In the end he will end up on the main road i.e hide something or try to deceive in the end everything will come out in the open).
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And I forgot the most important thing...he was the one who taught me how to read the Quran. Learning Kicis somali style was very difficult, but alhamdullilah he will get reward for it in this life and the next whenever I recite quran. Lool reminiscing has made me write a lot of stuff.
Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, βNo child can repay his father unless he finds him as a slave, purchases him, and emanicaptes him.β
Source: SΜ£ahΜ£iΜhΜ£ Muslim 1510
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