Did my sister apostate?

[Sigmundd]

Okay, what is her thinking, based on your experience? What does she like and dislike?

she hates talk about religion and likes to talk about food, music, sometimes showbiz, crime related stuff and that's about it m

 

[Grey Alien]

she hates talk about religion and likes to talk about food, music, sometimes showbiz, crime related stuff and that's about it m

What are some examples of crime related stuffs?

 

[Sigmundd]

What are some examples of crime related stuffs?

no a sin she likes to watch murder cases and missing cases so do I so we have some common grounds but is sad I can't look at her the same way after her statement today

 

[Yami]

I still care for her since she's my sister. But I can't love her anymore because of her statement.

That's only gonna validate her viewpoint. You have to come from a place of love if you want your sister to go back to being muslim

 

[Sigmundd]

That's only gonna validate her viewpoint. You have to come from a place of love if you want your sister to go back to being muslim

I'm not going to say it ti her face but I can't look at her the same way. I can't love someone that rejects Allah favours. I do still care for her and make dua for her

 

[Grey Alien]

no a sin she likes to watch murder cases and missing cases so do I so we have some common grounds but is sad I can't look at her the same way after her statement today

Okay, the final question I will ask you; what developments that made your sister shape her conclusion to the point where she is now thankless to Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala ? May He forgive us for our sins.

 

[Sigmundd]

Okay, the final question I will ask you; what developments that made your sister shape her conclusion to the point where she is now thankless to Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala ? May He forgive us for our sins.

the problem is she always had this statement in her mind is just now she felt comfortable in telling me the truth. I don't even know why she's fully like this because she's not going through anything majorly bad for her us walking. Her legs itches when she walks and she doesn't have a dream job. Basically trivial things.

 

[Grey Alien]

the problem is she always had this statement in her mind is just now she felt comfortable in telling me the truth. I don't even know why she's fully like this because she's not going through anything majorly bad for her us walking. Her legs itches when she walks and she doesn't have a dream job. Basically trivial things.

There may be a chance she is going through her crisis without your awareness and she is unable to cope with it. There may harbor an ideology where she only recognizes what she wish in which there is visible help to her. She struggles to understand what Allah is as Allah's not going to appear before our eyes in this temporary world.

My suggestion? Endure until there may be moment where she could be open to listen your advice. For now, making dua is the best solution you are currently doing now.

 

[Sigmundd]

There may be a chance she is going through her crisis without your awareness and she is unable to cope with it. There may harbor an ideology where she only recognizes what she wish in which there is visible help to her. She struggles to understand what Allah is as Allah's not going to appear before our eyes in this temporary world.

My suggestion? Endure until there may be moment where she could be open to listen your advice. For now, making dua is the best solution you are currently doing now.

Thanks and yes dua is the only solution at this point and will wait Inshallah when that day comes where she opens to me about islam. But as for now I'm going to be patient.

 

[Bundasliga]

Make dua for her & don't argue with her

 

[AbdiFreedom]

my sister whos a grown adultsaid today Allah never blessed her with anything and never did her good despite her having food and water. She refuses to acknowledge that it is Allah that blessed her with food, she instead thanks my mother for providing her food. She refuses to even thank Allah for anything. When I asked her to thank Allah our mother is alive she refused. She also said she will not pray because Allah never did her good. She also refuses to believe duas being answered smh I'm so angered with her statement. that literally.takes her out of the fold of islam. The scary part is she believes she's 100 percent right and claims she's muslim. Because of Allah not blessing her she will not pray.

No way she's Muslim. She may return to Islam but she's not one right now. There are loads of Somali kafirs but 99% aren't brave opening up to other Somalis or Muslims or even Black Christians who are friends with Muslims.

 

[Sigmundd]

No way she's Muslim. She may return to Islam but she's not one right now. There are loads of Somali kafirs but 99% aren't brave opening up to other Somalis or Muslims or even Black Christians who are friends with Muslims.

Yh I figured it out.

 

[AbdiFreedom]

Yh I figured it out.

You're in England too. It's dangerous for her to come out as an apostate over there. She basically did it though. She may come out soon

 

[Sigmundd]

You're in England too. It's dangerous for her to come out as an apostate over there. She basically did it though. She may come out soon

She might or she's probably going to mask herself as muslim due to fear of us shunning her. But I honestly think she's going to come out as a non Muslim. I just pray that day never happens.

 

[AbdiFreedom]

There are more openly/blatantly gay Somali Muslims than there are straight Somali murtads. I find that interesting.

 

[Sigmundd]

There are more openly/blatantly gay Somali Muslims than there are straight Somali murtads. I find that interesting.

yeah I find that more weirder I wonder why is that

 

[Unicorn]

You seem to be minimizing what shes going through. Someone who has been home for 10 years and doesnt talk to anyone outside is a huge red flag. Either way theres crazy people who would love to kill non muslims so just dont tell any1 outside ur fam about this. Does she have mental health problems?

 

[Sigmundd]

You seem to be minimizing what shes going through. Someone who has been home for 10 years and doesnt talk to anyone outside is a huge red flag. Either way theres crazy people who would love to kill non muslims so just dont tell any1 outside ur fam about this. Does she have mental health problems?

I acknowledge what she's going through but she uses that against everyone to not move forward. We tried everything but she's not listening. She does have mental health problems bit we don't ignore it and try to accommodate her it it gets tiring since she's refusing to move forward and loves to blame my mum even though my mum pays for her for food and electricity etc

 

[Unicorn]

I acknowledge what she's going through but she uses that against everyone to not move forward. We tried everything but she's not listening. She does have mental health problems bit we don't ignore it and try to accommodate her it it gets tiring since she's refusing to move forward and loves to blame my mum even though my mum pays for her for food and electricity etc

Okay. Well you know ur sister more than anyone. It seems like she is very depressed. This talk about not being grateful to Allah is probably her dissapointment in life and blaming others for it. Shes in her 30s so the day of blaming parents are long gone. She can make something out of herself. When u say move forward do u mean changing her habits? Does she have a job?

 

[Sigmundd]

Okay. Well you know ur sister more than anyone. It seems like she is very depressed. This talk about not being grateful to Allah is probably her dissapointment in life and blaming others for it. Shes in her 30s so the day of blaming parents are long gone. She can make something out of herself. When u say move forward do u mean changing her habits? Does she have a job?

move forward with her life and stop thinking about the past I prefer not to say