Did my sister apostate?

[Somali Saayid]

don't ignore it and try to accommodate her it it gets tiring since she's refusing to move forward and loves to blame my mum even though my mum pays for her for food and electricity etc

Is she unemployed? At 30 yrs age and she is doing this stuff? She should start by getting a job and securing her own financial future

 

[Keep it a boqol]

Keep making dua and be kind to her. Be careful when and when not to give her dawah as she might feel suffocated.

Don’t try to debate are argue with her or try to convince her at this point she’s in her 30s and needs some sort of wake up call to accept the truth.

 

[Kisame]

There are more openly/blatantly gay Somali Muslims than there are straight Somali murtads. I find that interesting.

Tbh being an open ex Muslim on social media isn't really worth it since Muslim weirdos will just harass you constantly. Especially if your vocal about your views on social media.

Irl most people don't really gives AF about non practicing Muslims. Ex muslims could easily blend in if they decide to never publicly come out. Especially if they avoid hanging around the salafi crowd.

Financial freedom helps us out the most too. Like if your an ex Muslim and have funds you can easily leave your conservative community in the west and start life somewhere else with ease. I really don't know that many broke ex muzzies because of this since most of us are a bit more motivated to go to college or enter the trades.