Did my sister apostate?

[Sigmundd]

Do you think she’s completely given up? Could this be due to ego or resistance? Sadly, some people engage in self-sabotaging behaviours, even when they know it's harmful, simply out of that sense of resistance.

Yeah she's completely given up with everything and said she will never be happy with life even hough she has a loving family roof on top of her head, etc. I dont want to delve in as to why she's like this, but it isn't so serious for her to disobey God. Like she has a family that easily can help her.

 

[Nin123]

my sister whos a grown adultsaid today Allah never blessed her with anything and never did her good despite her having food and water. She refuses to acknowledge that it is Allah that blessed her with food, she instead thanks my mother for providing her food. She refuses to even thank Allah for anything. When I asked her to thank Allah our mother is alive she refused. She also said she will not pray because Allah never did her good. She also refuses to believe duas being answered smh I'm so angered with her statement. that literally.takes her out of the fold of islam. The scary part is she believes she's 100 percent right and claims she's muslim. Because of Allah not blessing her she will not pray.

To the dhaqan celis asap!!

 

[Sigmundd]

To the dhaqan celis asap!!

wa naag waan

 

[Nin123]

she's in her 30s

She is finished a grown woman saying this childish nonsense walhy you should slap her all the way to Islam

 

[Nin123]

She wants to divest and now she wants to become apostate, it’s over for her throw her to the streets.

What does divest mean?

 

[Nin123]

Is a whole lotta mess uff it sucks she lives with me that's why I want to escape her by getting married as soon as possible.

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[Grey Alien]

Endure your relationship with her and try to ask some questions such as where did all variety of foods such as fruits and vegetables come from? What does it mean for us to live in Earth for what? How do Earth function? What happens after we die? What is the meaning of Muslim?

Try to lead her with some basic questions. Once the conversation is going well, then gradually you should discuss with the understanding of our relationship with Allah. If she grew up in West, there's a chance she may has western thinking. In case, challenge her thinking with western thinking but in favour of Islam. If you start the topic with Islam, she may ignore you.

As long as we are alive, it is not always late.

 

[_Yusuf_]

she's in her 30s

Where’s aabo at?

 

[Sigmundd]

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First wife and my mental is 50k tops

 

[Sigmundd]

Where’s aabo at?

She doesn't really speak to him and she did mock him couple of days ago

 

[Sigmundd]

Endure your relationship with her and try to ask some questions such as where did all variety of foods such as fruits and vegetables come from? What does it mean for us to live in Earth for what? How do Earth function? What happens after we die? What is the meaning of Muslim?

Try to lead her with some basic questions. Once the conversation is going well, then gradually you should discuss with the understanding of our relationship with Allah. If she grew up in West, there's a chance she may has western thinking. In case, challenge her thinking with western thinking but in favour of Islam. If you start the topic with Islam, she may ignore you.

As long as we are alive, it is not always late.

I did I told her food is from Allah and she should be grateful that she has a roof on her head but it all went on deaf ear.

 

[_Yusuf_]

She doesn't really speak to him and she did mock him couple of days ago

Was he in her life during her formative years 6-18 years old

 

[Sigmundd]

Was he in her life during her formative years 6-18 years old

no not full time

 

[Nin123]

First wife and my mental is 50k tops

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this is good price walhy

 

[Sigmundd]

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this is good price walhy

I would throw that money right back

 

[Nin123]

I would throw that money right back

Why did you change your name from pinky?

 

[Sigmundd]

Why did you change your name from pinky?

that was my og name since 2018 have you noticed my profile pic

 

[Grey Alien]

I did I told her food is from Allah and she should be grateful that she has a roof on her head but it all went on deaf ear.

Okay, take a step back and ask her why is the variety of fruits and vegetables present on the Earth? Ask her who developed them without mentioning Allah and observe her thinking.

 

[Sigmundd]

Okay, take a step back and ask her why is the variety of fruits and vegetables present on the Earth? Ask her who started them without mentioning Allah and observe her thinking.

She doesn't ever want to hear about the word deen and the word deen angers her so I will do more damage than good if I speak about Allah to her trust me.

 

[Grey Alien]

She doesn't ever want to hear about the word deen and the word deen angers her so I will do more damage than good if I speak about Allah to her trust me.

Okay, what is her thinking, based on your experience? What does she like and dislike?