is your wife also somali? and isnt that called just being asexual..?She's a low libido lesbian. 5 minutes of sex is not the only thing in a lifelong marriage: communication, emotional intelligence, kindness, understanding, and giving each other space to be their own person have equal weighting. My only demand is that she look after her weight and look beautiful and to continue working and have her own hobbies. It's a marriage that works very well. Our approach keeps our marriage alive. I find it hilarious ours will last until death but so many straight ones will not.