Did you know marriage increases wealth?

Why would they be failed? And no need to be stingy, let’s say we all make 70k a year, that would be a pool of 350k, more then enough to take care of us all, in fact we can subtract one income to have one of the wives designated to housework/childcare, I don’t see the issue with a wife chipping in

Islamically a man is meant to provide. A woman's money is her own.

If you need to use your wife's money in order to finance another woman, polygamy is not for you. Considering that women are jealous by nature and the average woman would not choose to be in a polygamous marriage, your idea surrounding the issue is disrespectful and disgusting.
 
You and @TekNiKo think women were created for men lol. Clearly there's nothing else to add to this debate. Even in the Quran Allah SWT says women and men are different but equal in rewards.
Also @TekNiKo you were talking about toxic masculinity in another thread I knew it wasn't sincere.




Ding, ding, ding!!

We have a winner!

Many muslim men do believe that women have been created to serve them and that they can do as they please because they found ways to bend and pervert the "4 wives" allowance.

Deep down, they all know that "4 wives" was sanctioned because at that time men had an unlimited amount of women they could have.

The prophet SAW provided a great example on how to practise it, yet they try to collect 4 virgins and not provide them with their rights.

Also, slavery was allowed during that time, with clear guidelines.

Maybe they will start kidnapping slaves to work for them.and their 4 wives.
 
It is clear as day. The consequences of marrying multiple women without a real penny to rub together has caused a lot of dysfunction in the Somali community. Many on here i can imagine are victim of this and have been abandoned by their fathers, however instead of learning from this, they want to carry on this vicious cycle of neglect, just to that they can fulfil their lusts.

No one is saying polygamy is haraam or not to do it. Just make sure you are financially stable and have the capabilities of looking after multiple families, without neglecting their financial and emotional needs.

I just want the next generation of Somali men to be conscious family men that put the well being of their existing wife and kids first. Without a strong happy family unit, we are not going to progress.



They have found ways to corrupt the religion to satisfy their most base desires.

Even slavery was allowed during that time because of the climate.

Women needed men to survive in those days so polygamy protected them.

Men who want multiple wives in this day and age, creep me out to be honest.

It is like their minds are controlled by their genitals.

Is a muslim not supposed to be disciplined and strong?

You cannot lower your gaze and focus on your wife?


If a man had honerable intentions, it would show in his choices for 2nd/3rd wife.

  • The woman who cannot have children.
  • A woman who has issues but needs a companion, learning or physical difficulty?
  • His brother's widow who cannot work because she has too many children
So many honourable choices to make.
 
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First, get one that makes $70,000 p/a and breeds every year, then, when she becomes shulluq, convince her to give you permission to score a similar one with a similar wage, let her breed more and repeat the same process twice. You will have four working adults and three wives who will trust and share their wages with their husband and the fourth wife who’s looking after over 20 kids. If those guys from Salt Lake City can do it, you can too. Go for converts, it’s easier to sell that idea to them.
 

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First, get one that makes $70,000 p/a and breeds every year, then, when she becomes shulluq, convince her to give you permission to score a similar one with a similar wage, let her breed more and repeat the same process twice. You will have four working adults and three wives who will trust and share their wages with their husband and the fourth wife who’s looking after over 20 kids. If those guys from Salt Lake City can do it, you can too. Go for converts, it’s easier to sell that idea to them.
It takes Teamwork to make the dream work, those Mormons figured it out and moved from new York to low population states like salt lake and started taking over which is why polygamy was made illegal, it’s literally power
 
They have found ways to corrupt the religion to satisfy their most base desires.

Even slavery was allowed during that time because of the climate.

Women needed men to survive in those days so polygamy protected them.

Men who want multiple wives in this day and age, creep me out to be honest.

It is like their minds are controlled by their genitals.

Is a muslim not supposed to be disciplined and strong?

You cannot lower your gaze and focus on your wife?


If a man had honerable intentions, it would show in his choices for 2nd/3rd wife.

  • The woman who cannot have children.
  • A woman who has issues but needs a companion, learning or physical difficulty?
  • His brother's widow who cannot work because she has too many children
So many honourable choices to make.
And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hand possesses. That is more suitable that you may not incline [to injustice].
 
It takes Teamwork to make the dream work, those Mormons figured it out and moved from new York to low population states like salt lake and started taking over which is why polygamy was made illegal, it’s literally power

@Tukraq

What will you bring to the team? Either you are trolling or tripping because polygamy would only work if the man is wealthy enough so the educated ladies could enjoy millions to spend. For example, if you are the ruler of Dubai and can afford your ladies to stay at Ritz hotels and could buy anything money could, buy not four ladies with a guy with the same qualifications and wages as you. Why not organise them in Gaalkacayo? $70 grand would be enough for four wives living there?
 

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They have found ways to corrupt the religion to satisfy their most base desires.

Even slavery was allowed during that time because of the climate.

Women needed men to survive in those days so polygamy protected them.

Men who want multiple wives in this day and age, creep me out to be honest.

It is like their minds are controlled by their genitals.

Is a muslim not supposed to be disciplined and strong?

You cannot lower your gaze and focus on your wife?


If a man had honerable intentions, it would show in his choices for 2nd/3rd wife.

  • The woman who cannot have children.
  • A woman who has issues but needs a companion, learning or physical difficulty?
  • His brother's widow who cannot work because she has too many children
So many honourable choices to make.
You know war hostages will exist as long as Jihad for the sake of Allah exist?
 

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What will you bring to the team? Either you are trolling or tripping because polygamy would only work if the man is wealthy enough so the educated ladies could enjoy millions to spend. For example, if you are the ruler of Dubai and can afford your ladies to stay at Ritz hotels and could buy anything money could, buy not four ladies with a guy with the same qualifications and wages as you. Why not organise them in Gaalkacayo? $70 grand would be enough for four wives living there?
Why would money be an issue for educated ladies who can make there own money? I bring good looks and personality to the table plus I’m the man with a vision, ruler of Dubai can’t pull women that’s why they run away, if she wants you for the cash she don’t really want you
 

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we are muslims. We don't have the same system.
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What do you mean? They have like 4 or 5 wives on average so we’re not far off if not the same in number, and like I said 1 could be the stay at home role as I seen them do, you can fulfill that one, people like @AussieHustler act like it doesn’t work but these guys are doing it in the US with out much money, it’s not as hard as it seems financially or living wise, all you have to do is find women who are into the deen, aren’t gold diggers or highly jealous, two traits I wouldn’t want my women having anyways as they are negative and from shaytan, there are also plenty of women like that so I’m in luck manshallah, from there I can complete the sunnah of 4 wives and propagating the deen by numbers
 
Why would money be an issue for educated ladies who can make there own money? I bring good looks and personality to the table plus I’m the man with a vision, ruler of Dubai can’t pull women that’s why they run away, if she wants you for the cash she don’t really want you

how many kidz per wife ?
 

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What do you mean? They have like 4 or 5 wives on average so we’re not far off if not the same in number, and like I said 1 could be the stay at home role as I seen them do, you can fulfill that one, people like @AussieHustler act like it doesn’t work but these guys are doing it in the US with out much money, it’s not as hard as it seems financially or living wise, all you have to do is find women who are into the deen, aren’t gold diggers or highly jealous, two traits I wouldn’t want my women having anyways as they are negative and from shaytan, there are also plenty of women like that so I’m in luck manshallah, from there I can complete the sunnah of 4 wives and propagating the deen by numbers

I don't understand what you are trying to do. But to each their own.
 
Why would money be an issue for educated ladies who can make there own money? I bring good looks and personality to the table plus I’m the man with a vision, ruler of Dubai can’t pull women that’s why they run away, if she wants you for the cash she don’t really want you

@Tukraq

Look Sxb, how many women with $70, 000 salary did you marry with your looks?
 
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