Did you know marriage increases wealth?

[World]

Naw she’s a local from hargeisa

Go for it then sxb since she’s back home, she’ll have been raised correctly most likely

 

[IstarZ]

Its utterly disgusting, they think their sick wants due to is the norm for every Muslimah, its a reflection of the decaying sick society we live in. Ask a girl from Somalia and she would be repulsed by the thought of it!

Look at you acting all pious. Aren’t you the same guy who was talking to his ex-girlfriend behind his wife’s back? I’m sure Allah is pleased with that.

What women will get has not been mentioned because unlike men, women are far more complex and each woman’s wants are specific to her alone. It’s also to preserve the hayaa of women and Allah knew you weaklings would get all wound up at the thought of women engaging in similar pursuits. Haha.

 

[VixR]

Yup if there working, income pool increases

You must be joking. Why on earth would she do that and give the money to you?

To fund your other soon-to-be failed families, over her own children?

And you want that money and count it as yours?

Yikes. These new breed of men are something.

 

[TekNiKo]

Look at you acting all pious. Aren’t you the same guy who was talking to his ex-girlfriend behind his wife’s back? I’m sure Allah is pleased with that.

What women will get has not been mentioned because unlike men, women are far more complex and each woman’s wants are specific to her alone. It’s also to preserve the hayaa of women and Allah knew you weaklings would get all wound up at the thought of women engaging in similar pursuits. Haha.

Girlfriend? We were interested in a halal marriage nothing wrong with that. I never slept with her wal ciyaadu billah.

So Allah SWT and the Prophet SAW made no mention and you still do not believe? Is that your excuse for sick fetishes? Woman only allowed one husband in dunyaa and aakhira. I know its a hard pill to swallow but iimaanso walaal and dont say about Allah SWT what you do not know.

 

[IstarZ]

Girlfriend? We were interested in a halal marriage nothing wrong with that. I never slept with her wal ciyaadu billah.

So Allah SWT and the Prophet SAW made no mention and you still do not believe? Is that your excuse for sick fetishes? Woman only allowed one husband in dunyaa and aakhira. I know its a hard pill to swallow but iimaanso walaal and dont say about Allah SWT what you do not know.

Why refer to her as an ex?

How about following your own advise? You and the hypocritical, embittered faraaxs here are the last ppl I will listen to on matters of Deen.

 

[saredochani10]

Why refer to her as an ex?

How about following your own advise? You and the hypocritical, embittered faraaxs here are the last ppl I will listen to on matters of Deen.

It's hard to know who is hypocritical or not because on one thread they talk about islam and another they talk about women and haram stuff that I wouldn't even dare to share. Or other unislamic stuff. Only a few are consistent. I personally will ask a sheikh about this. It's not like it's a priority anyways. If Allah SWT grants me jannah ( and I pray that it is the case for all of us) my only priority will be to see my parents, people I love, people who impacted islam and check if my conspiracy theories were correct lol.

 

[IstarZ]

It's hard to know who is hypocritical or not because on one thread they talk about islam and another they talk about women and haram stuff that I wouldn't even dare to share. Or other unislamic stuff. Only a few are consistent. I personally will ask a sheikh about this. It's not like it's a priority anyways. If Allah SWT grants me jannah ( and I pray that it is the case for all of us) my only priority will be to see my parents, people I love, people who impacted islam and check if my conspiracy theories were correct lol.

It comes down to lack of consistency for me. I’m not sure if they’re aware of their cognitive dissonance or inee dhab ka tahay. Either way, it stinks to high heaven!

It’s always a good idea to double check matters relating to Deen. This is a question that comes up often. There is a reason why Allah chose not to specify what women will be rewarded with. Each person will receive a reward tailored to their needs and none of us can conceptualize the rewards Allah has in store for us, upon entering Jannah iA.

 

[Tukraq]

You must be joking. Why on earth would she do that and give the money to you?

To fund your other soon-to-be failed families, over her own children?

And you want that money and count it as yours?

Yikes. These new breed of men are something.

Why would they be failed? And no need to be stingy, let’s say we all make 70k a year, that would be a pool of 350k, more then enough to take care of us all, in fact we can subtract one income to have one of the wives designated to housework/childcare, I don’t see the issue with a wife chipping in

 

[Robin]

Its utterly disgusting, they think their sick wants due to is the norm for every Muslimah, its a reflection of the decaying sick society we live in. Ask a girl from Somalia and she would be repulsed by the thought of it!

Ask a woman from Somalia? You mean the same women most likely in the world to have their genitals mutilated due to an ancient tradition meant to suppress their sexuality and punish them for being born female?

You make me laugh.

 

[IstarZ]

Why would they be failed? And no need to be stingy, let’s say we all make 70k a year, that would be a pool of 350k, more then enough to take care of us all, in fact we can subtract one income to have one of the wives designated to housework/childcare, I don’t see the issue with a wife chipping in

Wallahi I love your posts

Good luck with your stepford wives’ fantasy.

 

[Inquisitive_]

What women will get has not been mentioned because unlike men, women are far more complex and each woman’s wants are specific to her alone. It’s also to preserve the hayaa of women and Allah knew you weaklings would get all wound up at the thought of women engaging in similar pursuits. Haha.

This is correct, Nouman Ali khan did an excercise in one of his tafseer class when he got to the verse in surah Imran that describes the males top desires

He gave the females in the class a piece of paper before the tafseer and the same to the males and asked them each to list there top 5 wishes.

The males all put the same things in the same order as the ayah states and did so quickly.

But the females were mostly unique and all over the place constantly changing there list taking forever to complete and still not settled

It's much like the dating scene today were they are all over the place confused and irrational with the decisions they make.

So your correct, they are complex and it's also out of hayaa it's not mentioned, it's the dominant opinion of scholars.

 

[VixR]

Ask a woman from Somalia? You mean the same women most likely in the world to have their genitals mutilated due to an ancient tradition meant to suppress their sexuality and punish them for being born female?

You make me laugh.

I dry laughed at that too.

Why would they be failed? And no need to be stingy, let’s say we all make 70k a year, that would be a pool of 350k, more then enough to take care of us all, in fact we can subtract one income to have one of the wives designated to housework/childcare, I don’t see the issue with a wife chipping in

I just about barfed.

Good luck with that lol.

 

[TekNiKo]

Why refer to her as an ex?

How about following your own advise? You and the hypocritical, embittered faraaxs here are the last ppl I will listen to on matters of Deen.

Ok, Atleast dont say what Allah SWT and the Prophet SAW did not mention, this is a huge sin and can lead one to hell so be very careful and say Allahu a3lam instead.

 

[TekNiKo]

Do you seriously believe that?

Yes I do, I have faith in my Lord who never breaks his promise. Rizq is from him and he shall give me more if I have good intention inshallah.

And I will make duca for Allah to guide you to this beautiful deen

 

[TekNiKo]

Ask a woman from Somalia? You mean the same women most likely in the world to have their genitals mutilated due to an ancient tradition meant to suppress their sexuality and punish them for being born female?

You make me laugh.

Subxanallah your arrogance is beaming through my computer screen. FGM is completely against Islam and is an absolute shameful and deplorable act. It is from the pagan Pharaoh tradition which has nothing to do with Islam.

Those girls show (hayah) or modesty, she would never post such shameful things, its sad how you think being sexually active is "liberation". No, it is a humiliation of the highest order. I feel sorry for you.

 

[VixR]

Yes I do, I have faith in my Lord who never breaks his promise. Rizq is from him and he shall give me more if I have good intention inshallah.

And I will make duca for Allah to guide you to this beautiful deen

There’s little beautiful about it.

Mosque architecture and parts of the Quran in their composition.

 

[TekNiKo]

There’s little beautiful about it.

Mosque architecture and parts of the Quran in their composition.

Islam is honour, Islam is dignity, Islam is life, Islam is death. I beg you to take a new perspective and read the Qur'an in its entirety. Did you think that you were created in vain? Or simply a random act? Nay! You shall face the reality of death and the angel of death is coming! You must repent my beloved sister, eternal doom is awaiting otherwise. I myself am not sure what my fate will be, we are equal in that respect. Nor am I superior to you only due to the grace of Allah.

If you came upon me I would feed you a good feast and listen to your anguish, the reasons you left Islam must be very psychologically deep and I want to know the root reason not the facade you put up on here. I think the harsh, modern day misinterpretation of Islam put you off am I correct? Many Muslims are doing this religion's reputation a huge disservice.

 

[VixR]

Islam is honour, Islam is dignity, Islam is life, Islam is death. I beg you to take a new perspective and read the Qur'an in its entirety. Did you think that you were created in vain? Or simply a random act? Nay! You shall face the reality of death and the angel of death is coming! You must repent my beloved sister, eternal doom is awaiting otherwise. I myself am not sure what my fate will be, we are equal in that respect. Nor am I superior to you only due to the grace of Allah.

If you came upon me I would feed you a good feast and listen to your anguish, the reasons you left Islam must be very psychologically deep and I want to know the root reason not the facade you put up on here. I think the harsh, modern day misinterpretation of Islam put you off am I correct? Many Muslims are doing this religion's reputation a huge disservice.

Thanks for the offer, but I know everything I need to know. Practice in peace if that’s what it brings you. I’m content.

 

[TekNiKo]

Thanks for the offer, but I know everything I need to know. Practice in peace if that’s what it brings you. I’m content.

Ok sister, I will pray for you, perhaps you shall one day be reinvigorated with faith and become the best of muslims

 

[Lum]

This is correct, Nouman Ali khan did an excercise in one of his tafseer class when he got to the verse in surah Imran that describes the males top desires

He gave the females in the class a piece of paper before the tafseer and the same to the males and asked them each to list there top 5 wishes.

The males all put the same things in the same order as the ayah states and did so quickly.

But the females were mostly unique and all over the place constantly changing there list taking forever to complete and still not settled

It's much like the dating scene today were they are all over the place confused and irrational with the decisions they make.

So your correct, they are complex and it's also out of hayaa it's not mentioned, it's the dominant opinion of scholars.

Ok, Atleast dont say what Allah SWT and the Prophet SAW did not mention, this is a huge sin and can lead one to hell so be very careful and say Allahu a3lam instead.

«So here is the issue that needs to be clarified:Many people use the abbreviation “SAW,” “SAWS,” or “PBUH” to fulfill this obligation in their writing. Is this something that fulfills the obligation of sending the salaah and salaam on the Messenger? Let us look now to some of the statements of the scholars regarding this practice. The Permanent Committee of Scholars in Saudi Arabia headed by ‘Abdul-‘Azeez ibn ‘Abdillaah ibn Baaz issued the following verdict when asked about the validity of abbreviating the salaah on the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam): “The Sunnah is to write the entire phrase “sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam,” since it is a kind of supplication, and supplication is worship, (in one’s writing) just as it is in one’s speech. So to abbreviate it using the letter SAAD or the word SAAD-LAAM-‘AYN-MEEM is not a supplication nor is it worship, whether it occurs in speech or writing. For this reason, this abbreviation was not used by the the first three generations, those that the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam) testified to their goodness.” [8] “SAAD” and “SAAD-LAAM-‘AYN-MEEM” are often used in some Arabic books. The English equivalents of these abbreviations would be: SAW, SAWS, SAAWS, PBUH, and the likes. Al-Fayrooz-Abaadee said, “It is not appropriate to use symbols or abbreviations to refer to salaah and salaam, as some of the lazy ones do, as well as some ignorant people and even some students of knowledge – they write ‘SAAD-LAAM-‘AYN-MEEM’ instead of writing ‘sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam.'” [9] Ahmad Shaakir said, “It is the absurd tradition of some of the later generations that they abbreviate the writing of ‘sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam.'” [10] Wasee Allaah ‘Abbaas said, “It is not permissible to abbreviate the salaams in general in one’s writing, just as it is not permissible to abbreviate the salaah and salaam on the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam). It is also not permissible to abbreviate either of these in one’s speech.” [11] And Allaah knows best. May the most perfect and complete salaah and salaam be upon our beloved Messenger, and upon his noble family and companions.»
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Written by Moosaa Richardson