do you guys have relatives who are extremely organized but also have relatives who are very messy and prone to addictions?

[December]

my uncle never got a bad grade from school and he became a doctor very seemlessly while having an active family life. but my father is very unorganized and messy and has to drink like 10 cups of coffee to even get out the house. and i also have a grandfather who never worked or took care of cattle in his life and has like 5 children. anyone here had these situations?

 

[Bille]

Yes, every family has it. In my family we have 2 groups.

The hard working intelligent lay back crew. They're well organized, clean freaks and their time management is topnotch they are also very generous when it comes to helping the family.

Then we have the second group. The I'm tired, always whining, very messy, lazy crew. This group mostly work part time. They're usually don't bother me I pay my bills.

 

[Lightshow]

Yes, every family has it. In my family we have 2 groups.

The hard working intelligent lay back crew. They're well organized, clean freaks and their time management is topnotch they are also very generous when it comes to helping the family.

Then we have the second group. The I'm tired, always winning, very messy, lazy crew. This group mostly work part time. They're usually don't bother me I pay my bills.

Sadly I embody both tendencies. The winner of the battle is who people see.

 

[Bille]

Sadly I embody both tendencies. The winner of the battle is who people see.

It's not easy but life is more than just paying your bills. I also have the tendency to slac off when's my needs met.

 

[The truth seeker]

A lot of my younger cousins have been serving 20 year sentences at federal prison across the country but other than that my relatives are pretty straight

 

[December]

Sadly I embody both tendencies. The winner of the battle is who people see.

yeah same but im very lazy and have no discipline at all.

 

[Hotchick12]

im a workaholic and moved away from home, i just can’t stay there

 

[EyiPunter]

I tend to follow directions and calendar without these rules for myself I'm lost. For instance I make my calendar start from Sunday to Friday and Saturday off. I once miss one Sunday and not created a calendar that whole week I felt like was chased and lost for directions. I don't know how people live a life of chill and not using a calendar.

 

[The truth seeker]

I have been trapped in a vicious cycle I meet a young pretty woman on instagram we talk I take her on one of my overseas trips I come back we start an affair for a few months then I feel regret and paranoia so I push her away I remain faithful until I get tempted again

I guess the Spartans were right man’s greatest weakness is lust

I’m actually proud I have not gotten caught yet my wife is to trusting

 

[gasara]

my uncle never got a bad grade from school and he became a doctor very seemlessly while having an active family life. but my father is very unorganized and messy and has to drink like 10 cups of coffee to even get out the house. and i also have a grandfather who never worked or took care of cattle in his life and has like 5 children. anyone here had these situations?

Who fed your grandfather if he never worked? One of my parents is an orphan and the other is the eldest child so they are workaholics and like dhaqaan/deenta/education is number 1 priority. But yeah some people are leeches, dont work, or do anything meaningful. But theres always people that coddle those individuals. Some are very selfish too, use you and discard you. But alhamduillah my parents made sure we were far away from those type of people so I've rarely seen it mainly see the hardworking miskeen types cuz my parents hate xasidnimo bad people.