Do you require your wife to cook and clean?

[Eedaaf]

Who you’re speaking of slave? Talking about yourself again?! Waar take a break you sound like you have tourette.

 

[Eedaaf]

As for marriage: there is nothing wrong with wanting to be married but don’t make it your sole purpose. I don’t want to see us not going 50/50, settling, having our time wasted and being the sole breadwinner. I want to see us cherished and pampered for the kings that we are!

Personally I prefer a 50/50 relationship with the spouse being of the same level of education and income bracket. Don’t tell me men can’t have standards. I won’t stand for that.

 

[Spartan]

#simp

How is that simping? I don’t understand.

 

[Sophisticate]

No 50:50. Its a scam. I want to do it all. Cook, clean and let him sit pretty and spend my money.

 

[Eedaaf]

No 50:50. Its a scam. I want to do it all. Cook, clean and let him sit pretty and spend my money.

 

[Amirah]

No 50:50. Its a scam. I want to do it all. Cook, clean and let him sit pretty and spend my money.

They’re not looking for a wife or a partner they’re looking for mommy 2.0

 

[jabsveg276]

It depends if I'm making cash she would have to stay at home. It also depends on age if I get married in my early 20s then I'm not looking to have kids maybe mid or late 20s. When we young she gotta be grinding as well. We need our kids to live comfortable

What if you have kids and she still wants to work? And wants you to be a stay at home dad?

 

[jabsveg276]

They’re not looking for a wife or a partner they’re looking for mommy 2.0

We look for motherly like traits in women

 

[Eedaaf]

 

[Sophisticate]

They’re not looking for a wife or a partner they’re looking for mommy 2.0

They all want a younger surogate mother without kids.

 

[greyhound stone]

What if you have kids and she still wants to work? And wants you to be a stay at home dad?

No I'm always providing for my woman and kids. If I'm broke in the future I won't even consider getting married,

 

[قوة الشرطة الصومالية]

No 50:50. Its a scam. I want to do it all. Cook, clean and let him sit pretty and spend my money.

I’ll send my resume in the dm. I could use your skills to proof read my planned memoir later on in life.

 

[pirater]

if we both work full time jobs then 50:50 house work. But if I'm working and she has no job and stays home, then she would have to do the house work. That's fair

 

[Eedaaf]

They all want a younger surogate mother without kids.

 

[Mercury]

Personally I'd like to do a 50/50 thing. One person cooks and one cleans, or one person is the breadwinner and someone is the family/house care-taker. Thoughts?

I dont believe in 50/50
I think in such an arrangement you would get used to things being done for you that you forget to appreciate them or start view it as their job to cook/clean I think marriage is a partnership 100% you and 100% them you help one another

 

[sailormoon]

Idk how to cook or clean

Loool same I feel useless

 

[jabsveg276]

Loool same I feel useless

you'd sell for $0.50 on the black market

 

[Hassan11]

Most niggas don’t require their wives to work and pay some bills, xalimos just do it to feel independent tbh. Even islamically speaking if a woman just chose to be a housewife and let her man pay the bills she’d be within her rights, it’s not her responsibility. If a wife pays a cent towards the bills it’s considered charity.

 

[jabsveg276]

Most niggas don’t require their wives to work and pay some bills, xalimos just do it to feel independent tbh. Even islamically speaking if a woman just chose to be a housewife and let her man pay the bills she’d be within her rights, it’s not her responsibility. If a wife pays a cent towards the bills it’s considered charity.

but if you're in a marriage, you're not independent. husband is dependant on wife and wife is dependant on husband. otherwise the marriage fails

 

[Hassan11]

but if you're in a marriage, you're not independent. husband is dependant on wife and wife is dependant on husband. otherwise the marriage fails

That’s my beef with xalimos that refuse to cook and clean sxb imagine a long day of work and you get fed Kraft dinner and the house smells like qurun