Do you require your wife to cook and clean?

[jabsveg276]

That’s my beef with xalimos that refuse to cook and clean sxb imagine a long day of work and you get fed Kraft dinner and the house smells like qurun

my nigga that's a liability, not a marriage id divorce instantly

 

[Saredo]

I’m exhausted just reading this .

 

[hannah54321]

Most niggas don’t require their wives to work and pay some bills, xalimos just do it to feel independent tbh. Even islamically speaking if a woman just chose to be a housewife and let her man pay the bills she’d be within her rights, it’s not her responsibility. If a wife pays a cent towards the bills it’s considered charity.

Why I am marrying a Muslim man lmfao I don’t want a feminist husband my dad works my mum stays at home

 

[so_wavey]

Even the gaalo don’t do full 50-50 the woman always does abit more in general In The house....might aswell forget the meher as well I think the girl also has to pay for half the wedding cost everything 50-50 she has to pay half the rent the the guy shares the household chores actually what’s the point of even living together they can live separately and they can clean for themselves. Hmm

 

[Xaruun]

If it’s a traditional relationship then she’s the housemaker. If it’s a 50/50 relationship then she’ll wash the clothes and do the kitchen chores (cook and wash dishes) while I do the other chores (vacuuming, mopping, shopping, etc etc)

 

[so_wavey]

If it’s a traditional relationship then she’s the housemaker. If it’s a 50/50 relationship then she’ll do wash the clothes and do the kitchen chores (cook and wash dishes) while I do the other chores (vacuuming, mopping, shopping, etc etc)

Girls who want 50-50 shouldn’t ask for meher and should pay half of the wedding costs

 

[Xaruun]

Girls who want 50-50 shouldn’t ask for meher and should pay half of the wedding costs

Meher and wedding should be cheap regardless.

 

[elite1337]

I mean if I play my role in her life she should play her role you feel me, but if the man is lazy as shit and does nothing you shouldnt expect her to cook/clean and all that. if its a 50/50 situation then i probably shouldnt expect all that

 

[elite1337]

I’ll cook and clean along with providing, all she has to do look pretty and spend my money.

loool

 

[Lostbox]

Modern marriage. When men are expected to fix broken stuff and be a part time dad. Since I can't fix anything. Going to need the wifey help.


If you keep the account separated.

You can buy all toy boy you want



I don't get why you guys don't want to marry a Somali Women. They are grown up to expect it. Told to be a good wife before they can walk



I joking



@Angelina once made a good point m even if you spit 50/50. You future wife is still going to do most of the time.

If the house is not clean and the kids aren't well fed. Everyone going to look at the wife first and only talk about the wife behind her back

 

[AbdiS]

 

[Theawkwardintrovert]

Even the gaalo don’t do full 50-50 the woman always does abit more in general In The house....might aswell forget the meher as well I think the girl also has to pay for half the wedding cost everything 50-50 she has to pay half the rent the the guy shares the household chores actually what’s the point of even living together they can live separately and they can clean for themselves. Hmm

From an Islamic perspective, the women doesn’t have to do shit and she still gets her Mehr. A mehr is not a down payment for a maid get that through your heads fool. Don’t mix a mysoginistic culture with deen.